“Why do some men love to watch a woman strip? What is it that they find so seductive and sexy?”
Let’s face it! Men are very visual in their approach and appreciation of the female form. The answer, however, is much deeper than the hardwiring of male visual cues.
Some men…perhaps most men if they are being honest without fear of a girlfriend or wife…love to watch a woman strip because it turns them on. If that answer seems too simplistic, then step inside my ride because we are about to peel away the depth of male sexuality to discover exactly what men find so seductive and sexy about watching a woman strip.
From the beginning of time, women knew that removing clothing was the way to a man’s libido because it was the visual promise of sexual favors and fantasies. By stimulating a man to visualize the slow removal of choice bits of clothing while swaying suggestively to a rhythmic bump and grind, women entice men to step beyond their want to touch straight into the pleasure of participation.
Similar to a football game, most of the fun for men is vicarious participation. Not to say that they don’t love the act of sex, because we all know they do, but having an uninhibited, sexually charged woman show them direct attention and focus on matching his sexual side with her own is a powerful potion of adrenaline spiked visuals of sex mingled with a healthy dose of ego masturbation.
In short, it makes a man feel like a stud if a woman is so taken with him that she slips past the sexual taboos of every social norm, willing to remove her clothes for him, as he sits back to be treated like a King to watch the show.
Again, overly simplistic perhaps…but, there is one reality of the concept is not readily grasped by most women: confidence. Since the first seductive dance of Salomé, women confident enough about their bodies and their sexuality to remove their clothes have made men shuffle in their seats from a tightening in their pants.
Watching a woman strip feeds directly into the male sense of where sexuality and sensuality meet!
Yes indeed…the biggest of all sexual organs: the brain. With a swaying of hips as bits of cloth drop suggestively over rounded breasts to hang for a moment on the end of a hard nipple, lips pouted in promises of oral pleasures with eyes speaking invitations just for him, the male brain is primed and ready to go well before the rest of him feels the pending explosion!
So go forth and learn how to strip for your man.
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well. my husband enjoys going to stripclubs, for some reason. i am a good looking woman, have great sex with him, always doing different things. he said, sex is great, but brags to me they are wild. i dont know what goes on in those v.i.p rooms , maybe its best i know. he goes to his semiars with other men to the stripclubs, said, he cant touch them, but i sure they touch him, right? he is a quiet man, and shy, but, who knows what goes on, that my question, what aint i doing? thanks debbie
I recently bought an exotic dance dvd and love it! It has definitely boosted my confidence, and makes me feel sexy. It may be helpful to purchase more than one brand or type of striptease dvd to see which one fits your own personal style and personality. I learned that women of any age, shape or size can look sexy while stripping. It also helped me to hear that each woman has her own personal style even though she’s learning the routine.
I’m now trying to find music for my routine. Does anyone know of any, Jay?
P.S. Thanks for your dvd tips Jay Archer. Your dvd articles about how to striptease from a man’s perspective only made better what I had already learned ( which is why I believe it may be best to have more than one type of striptease dvd).
Am not so confident although i do strip tease. i feel my stomach is too big after my 4th child. otherwise he really likes it.
Hi Jay, i’ve started Poledancing at the beginning of the year and we learned a very seductive stripdance as well as a chair dance, this has been FANTASTIC for my relationship with my boyfriend (he’s 47 and i’m 35). However sometimes when i’m in the mood – he’s not and that makes my confidince just slip right out the door!!!!! Thanx 4 gr8 Newsletters!!!
My man really wants me to strip and lap dance for him. I’m desperate to do it as I know it would drive him wild, it’s just the confidence thing. Think I need to buy some sexy undies, have a couple of drinks and just bite the bullet!
Great article once again, have never really thought about it in depth before x