Men are simple creatures with simple needs…just like a pet dog (horrible analogy but it works). Keep things fun, keep him fed and keep him fulfilled. That’s the secret to caring for man and making him happy.
Here are some quick tips on what men like in bed to make absolutely sure your man is fulfilled.
Variety, frequency, orgasmic, desire, adventure
A survey I conducted of thousands of men indicated that quantity and regularity of sex was a top priority. 75% of men who responded said they wanted sex at least 5x per week.
How often were they having sex? Most responded under 1 session per week or none. This means his sexual fulfillment ‘gas tank’ is running on empty.
You’re man may not need or want sex 5x per week – but it’s important to find out where his expectations are.
The good news is that sex doesn’t have to be great but it does have to happen regularly.
Do you like to feel that your man is attracted and finds you sexually desirable? Well here’s a news flash – men like to feel sexually attractive, too.
Men tire of constantly chasing sex or badgering their partner for it. Not having to hunt and chase sex is one of the primary reasons men settle down with a woman. Gasp! Get over it…it’s true.
That’s why some men feel a bit ripped off when they get married and the sex dries up.
Adventure is sexy. What guys want in bed is a woman who is willing to experiment a little. Experimenting is attractive and exciting.
Be open, enthusiastic and willing to experiment on your body as well as his. Make it a game or adventure.
One thing I like to advise is to do 1 tiny little thing differently each time you have sex. It doesn’t have to be big. Maybe were you have sex, how you kiss, how hard or soft etc… What happens is that now each love making session has an exciting and unanticipated little twist in it….like a great movie.
This is just what guys want in bed but what women want, as well.
Up until this point it probably reads like it’s all about satisfying him and his needs, right? Well the truth is that what men like in bed and what men want in bed is for YOU to be sexually satisfied. Men get off on seeing YOU get off.
You see, we’re not all bad, are we?
What guys want deep down inside is for you to be as sexually satisfied as him. So it’s your responsibility to ensure you are orgasmic. Can you reach orgasm by yourself and with him? If not you should start practicing. The health of your relationship may hinge on it.
He wants to know that he can give you pleasure but men need lots of help in this department.
The only thing worse than being in bed with someone who’s a ‘dead fish’ is not having sex at all. Without passion, sooner or later your sex life will evaporate and you’re just become roommates.
Participating is one thing but being a willing, enthusiastic participant is quite another.
Do what you need to do to display passion. Fake it until you make it if you have to. Act as if you are passionate and your body will begin to respond.
DO NOT, however, ever fake orgasms for several reasons. Primarily because you will train him to be a bad lover.
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