What Women Don’t Know About Men – Part 4

The Art of Physical Attraction

Every woman starts off with a tight booty and a pretty pair of high heel s to show off a fresh manicure.  You feel sexy when the men buzz around you right?  Like honey to a bee.  But, a few months into a relationship, when everyone is comfortable, the sweat pants come out and you stop shaving your legs each day.  It’s an easy thing to justify.

Maybe one morning you feel cramps or want to snuggle under the covers for a few extra hours on a rainy day.  It’s quite natural.  But, then, those sweat pants become your best friend because they don’t remind you that you gaining a few extra pounds in your thighs or that you did not need  that extra pint of Ben & Jerry double chocolate chip ripple at the grocery store.

In a society obsessed with skinny young girls with too much make up and pouty lips, many women fight back against the supermodel image.  Granted, all women have that day when putting their hair up in a ponytail and running to bookstore in the rain make them look like a drowned cat.  They also know that men are not attracted to the homeless look!

While no one is saying that you should slither into a gold spangled evening gown to run to Starbucks, if the only time your sex appeal sparkles to the surface is on your anniversary, then you are robbing yourself of that “I’m Too Sexy for My Shirt” feeling 364 days of the year.  You are robbing your man of that sexy throb that he gets when he see you.  Getting your glam on does not take much extra effort and can remind your man that he is sexually important to you each time you see him.

Try these Three Simple Ways to Pump Up Your Sex Appeal for Your Man:

1. Rinse and Repeat.  Change your hair.  If we were to poll women on how often they change their hair, most would say they have had the same style or color since high school.  Go to a professional hairstylists (no…HairMasters does not count!) and talk about what style is best for your face.  Getting out of the rut your hairstyle keeps you in will give you man cause to notice and show that you are interested in your appearance for his sake.  HINT:  Ask his opinion!  He must have a fantasy hidden in there somewhere.
   
2. Feel the Rush.  Going to the gym or working out has to be the worst.  Burning those calories and picking up your heart rate a few times a week has some special advantages.  Not only does it keep everything firm and your body tight, but it is healthy for your heart to keep in shape.  HINT:  If you find working out boring, then get a workout buddy.  Many couples take the time to work out together.  All of that sweat, adrenaline, and muscles working can led to hot sex.
   
3. Check in with the Pretty Girls.  Gather your girlfriends and start a “pamper me” day.  When you set time aside to get manicures and pedicures together, you are treating yourself to personal beauty time.  If an intervention is needed, go and get a makeover together.  HINT:  You will love the time with your friends and he will love the results.

You will be surprised how much appreciation your man will show when you are together if his libido kicks in when he sees you.  You know that funky little twist in your stomach and jump in your heart you get when you see him?  For men, the kick in the pants (wink) of their sexuality is the same feeling.

When spend time practicing the art of attraction for your man, he will return the effort with the sparkle of pride you see, especially as other men admire you, by being the man on your arm.  He does   not want you to stay cut like a supermodel. After all, no man wants that kind of upkeep and competition.  But, you can add passion to the relationship just by taking pride in yourself.