What Women Dont Know About Men – Part 3
October 10, 2008 by Archer
- What Women Don’t Know About Men – Part 3
- Dance Tip: Warning: Very Naughty
- Do you know this credit card lifesaver?
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1) What Women Don’t Know About Men – Part 3
Men Want More Sex
Now, you’re either thinking to yourself, “Duh!” Or, based on your relationship experience (lack of interest, infrequent, inconsistent passionless sex) this may actually come as new information.
The women I speak with assume that men want more sex with their girlfriends or wives due to their physical wiring. Not necessarily!
Surprisingly, research has shown that men want more sex because they have a strong need to be desired by their wives or girlfriend. That sounds familiar, doesn’t it?
Sex is NOT always just about him. Reframe it in your brain now. Often a man’s deepest way to show his emotional love – his ultimate in expression of love for his lover is being physical and giving her pleasure. In a way, he’s being a ‘giver.’
Men just like women, simply need to be wanted. Regular, fulfilling sex is critical to a man’s sense of feeling loved and desired. (Is this hitting close to home? Men aren’t that much different from women, are they?)
When men feel their wives desire them sexually, it has a profound effect on the rest of their lives. It gives them an increasing sense of confidence and well-being that carries over into every other area of his life.
The flipside of this coin also carries a hugely negative impact. When a man feels rejected sexually, he not only feels his lover is rejecting him physically, but that she is somehow rejecting him as a man. He fails like failure. This is why making sex a priority in a relationship is so important!
Men (as do women) have a physiological need for the sexual release. Orgasm will release endorphins into the brain thus stimulating happiness, euphoria and satisfaction. (Deny it and you risk your health and happiness).
Here’s what you need to do:
* Initiate sex more often
* At the very least have more sex more often even if it sucks (Remember, practice makes perfect)
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2) Dance Tip: Warning – Very Naughty
This isn’t as much a lap dance tip as it is an arousal tip.
This move is too bold – and often illegal – for most professional lap dancers. They are simply not allowed to get this up close and personal with strange men, mostly for their own safety.
(Getting men that aroused in a private room when you’re not planning on following through to ‘close the deal’ is not exactly putting yourself in a safe and friendly position.
For one, the men are anonymous to you which means they are not governed by a sense of moral accountability, and two: their basal instincts have begun to outweigh their consciences and they may do forceful and potentially scary things they normally wouldn’t.)
Kneeling in front of him, find his cock with the palm of your hand and trace it with two fingers.
Gently rub along his shaft, giving it a light squeeze every once in a while with your middle finger and thumb forming a letter ‘C’.
This stimulates and encourages a little extra blood flow.
OK, now you can start ‘outer oral’ which is simply putting your mouth to his pants- the pants that are doing a poor job of hiding his hard phallus by this point in the game.
Take a deep breath and let it out on his pants, letting his nether regions feel the fruits of your warm breeze.
If he’s not already hot, he’ll be suddenly hotter, surprised and delighted. Few men have ever seen this move and it is powerfully seductive.
For best effect move your hot breath around – but start at the head of his cock for max shock value and stimulation. Alternate massage and breath right down to the base of his shaft.
If he’s wearing loose pants – try snaking a hand up his pant leg or loosening the top of his pants and freeing him up…if you want to, that is.
3. Do you know this credit card lifesaver?
I can’t believe nobody knows this…
Did you know you actually have a choice about how much interest you pay the credit card company?
The credit card companies will gash you 18% to 28% just because they can and for a few extra goodies like airmiles etc…
But I’d rather pay less interest, put the money in my pocket and be able to pay for a flight with my interest saving.
Want to pay 11% versus 20%?
Here’s how to lower the interest rate on your credit card.
- Call your credit card company and ask them what their lowest interest rate card is.
- Tell them to switch your current card balance to that card.
- Listen patiently while they tell you about the ‘points’ you’ll miss out on if you switch (Transfer your air or travel points ahead of time)
- Tell them you don’t care about the stupid points
- Ask them to switch in
In Canada at least – they have to switch you.
Now take the savingings in interested payments and use them to pay-off your card faster.
To passion,
J Archer
www.LapDanceUnleashed.com
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Hi,
Thank you so much for all the interesting newsletters, each have been noted in my head!
I guess us women do sometimes ‘forget’ about the emotional side of men, and wonder why they don’t say the words we need/like to hear ‘I love you’ more often…they are saying it when they make love to us, showing it more in that way than saying it as often as we like!
I am still deciding as yet whether to get the laptop dvd’s…only because I need to lose some weight first which would then give me more confidence about myself! I have teased my man about it and he can’t wait for me to ’strip’ for him!
love and laughter
Cinders xXx
I have to admit I agree with every single word of “What Women Don’t Know About Men”, and I’ve learned it the hard way though 9 years of unhappy marriage. Luckily, I am free now and my boyfriend stands at the same point as I am, so we have sex every time we are able to meet – in his office, in my office, in cafe were we have lunch, in the movie theater, in the fitting rooms in stores etc.
Keep up the great work!! Thank you!!
This is in reference to the credit card life save. I’ve worked in this line of business for over 10 years. Most credit card companies DO NOT allow you to transfer a balance from one card (from that company) to a lower rate card offered by that company. You can request they lower your interest rate and if you have very good to excellent credit, they will (usually).
I can understand how men would want that. But I have a question. What do you do when a guy is not willing to take the time to get you off? He will get off, but he will not get you off and after he is dun you have to use your hand or get your toys out. How can I get him to understand that I need to get somthing out of sex? I need some help with this one.
As far as stripping and needing to lose weight, I guess it might depend on how much weight. But usually, it’s what is between the ears. I recently bought the lapdance DVD, and then did it! I had to leave his house early to practice for his surprise. The next day was his day off, and I didn’t do the surprise before 1PM. Oh, and in the mean time, I texted a picture of my panties on the floor as a “hint”. He was so keyed up when he got here at 1PM..I was delighted. As for myself, I wrote out my routine and I practiced it in front of a mirror. Anything I didn’t like, I fixed. Support thigh highs got rid of leg flaws and are still easy access. short filmy thing I wore, was see through, but covered tummy. I took it off at the top and hiked it up around my middle. Keep strutting! Lights were candles, etc.
He loved it! We recently were in the Middle East and Picked up a harem girl outfit. It’s for bigger girls and I think I can make it work. Buy it! Then make it work for the two of you. He’ll love it, love it. So,will you when you see his eyes. Make him, direct him, he’ll love it.