Do men prefer an unshaved or bare kitty?
(Actually, I like the nickname ‘bunny’ because…come to think of it, I don’t know why. It must have been something I came up with in a moment of passion. LOL)
I can tell you from my personal male experience, there is a moment of sheer terror when removing a woman’s panties just thinking about the possibility that I could be going down a road and come across a big mess of hairy…roadkill. (The opposite of that adorable, cute, pink bunny)
Every man I’ve ever discussed this with agrees we all do a silent prayer at the pantie removal moment of truth…
Please shave bikini line. Please be shaved. Please be shaved. SHAVE!
Do I like a women to have a 100% clean and bare kitty ? Yes.
Is it critical to me to have 100% biking hair removal? NO. I’m a big fan of bikini shaving a landing strip about 1 or 2 finger widths – but shaved or waxed on both sides and underneath.
Do I prefer bikini shaving or waxing? Personally, I’m not picky. I appreciate a Brazilian wax is not the most pleasant experience since I’ve been on the receiving end. But, every man can appreciate a freshly waxed kitty that’s ripe to be pet, love and dined on.
Bottom line (pardon the pun) no guy I know enjoys a hair salad. Listed from Hot=1 to Not=4:
- Brazilian
- Landing Strip (shaved or waxed)
- 100% Shaved
- Trimmed short
- Oh Natural
When your kitty is 100% bare it looks great, it feels greatduring oral and sex. If you’ve never done it you’ll notice you’ll feel more ‘wet’ during sex. This could be a subtle little trick to up the passion because us stupid men think ‘more wet’ means more excited – and that makes us feel more…manly.
“Look! Me do that. Me big man.” [beating chest]
It also shows you care about the little details and you went the extra mile just for us. That’s hot!
Don’t believe me? Ask some men what they think.
To men, it doesn’t really matter what hair removal system or method you use. Try different bikini hair removal systems and see what works for you, but keep your kitty pretty.
Isn’t it ironic, the bikini hair removal style men most like is also the most difficulty or uncomfortable to achieve?
For the record – I think men should show the same courtesy and manscape their front lawn, too. It’s just polite.
TIP: I find shaving my face in a hot shower gives me the best shave.
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I could never understand why some women don’t shave? It’s way more comfortable, and clean! Besides, no one wants to floss while they are eating!
The best hair removal system I have ever found? My Man! That’s right … it’s a wonderful experience for both of us. The vulnerability of having your Man shave you as you lie back for him … ummm delicious. And from my Mans point of view … well he enjoys the fine craftmanship needed for such a delicate operation (wink).
It is great. It builds on our trust and we both find the experience highly erotic.
I’m so glad you wrote this precise article…i’ve been thinking about a permanent laser depilation….I like it a lot more when it’s 100%, even masturbation is different (for the better)….but I’m so tired of all these creams (I don’t use razors anymore, very bad experiences lol)
Since all of my comments usually end up in an eternal “waiting for moderation” limbo, I doubt anybody will ever read this, but I completely disagree with this article. The problem with these types of “all men feel such-and-such” claims is that it’s simply NOT TRUE!! Maybe YOUR friends enjoy a shaved pussy, but I’ve been with more than one man who has a thing for super-hairy pussies and have actually been DISAPPOINTED when I trimmed or shaved, although they’ve managed to get past it ; ). Everybody’s different, and everybody likes different things. And you’re also wrong about the wetness- while shaving increases sensitivity, hair actually retains the wetness better than bare skin- you’ll find you need more lube when you’re shaved than when you have hair- because it stays wet.
p.s. IPL (intense pulse light) is hands-down the BEST form of hair removal for the whole body in my opinion- no side effects and after 4 or 5 treatments it is truly PERMANENT. I have sensitive skin so shaving and waxing gives me horrible infected rashes and ingrown hair. One caveat: the lighter your skin and the darker the hair, the more effective it is.
What’s the difference between 1. brazilian and 3. 100% shaved though? I thought they were pretty much the same xD
Coming from a man. I don’t care how you do it , just trim it. It is not attractive. I you want your man to enjoy himself then you shouldn’t feed him (LOL, I like these two sayings) a Hairy Salad or Roadkill. I’m not saying that you have to shave it all off, but I m saying is to take some off the top and shave of the sides so that it takes the shape of your panties instead of all of the hairs bursting out of all the seams.
I personally enjoy the additional sensation when there is less hair or no hair. It heightens the sensation for ME. I also like when my partner TRIMS the weeds and does some MANSCAPING. It’s never pleasant to have to scratch a pubic hair off of your tongue. And, it’s also not fun to have a bunch of pubic hair going up your nose.
I agree, though, with one of your commenters above. Some men do really enjoy hair. It’s a whole different type of sensation and changes the way everything feels. If you do want to keep some bush (male or female) put some cream rinse on it. That makes everyone’s pubic hair much softer which creates a silkier feeling as opposed to a rough or coarse sensation.
I have found that the new Nair Mousse works beautifully to remove ALL pubic hair-bikini line, perianal areas and labial areas with very little or no sensation, and in only 10 minutes-also smells like jasmine and rose essential oils-not nasty like some other depilatories. I noticed that the hair has grown back even softer and finer and takes less time for complete removal. Do a skin test to see how your skin will react from it to be safe, since it will be likely in contact with mucuous membranes during the application and waiting period. Finally, everyone should keep their “kitty” to what is comfortable for them..but completely bare is fun and sexy to at least try..;D
ipl’d mine off x-rated style as the salon lady put it…love it…no bumps, ingrown hairs or nothing…i used to hate the way it looked…now my kitty is pretty…haha!
I love this article, and the comments from both Jay and the ladies. I can honestly say I have gained valuable insight into the matter. I’ll have to check out some of the recommendations. I too had a horrible experience with a razor, and vowed I would never use it again.
Oh, dear me! Please shave! I’m afraid of women. I need a prepubescent girl to make me feel like the man I wish I was. Women scare me! Give me a little girl any day! Geez, women have been sporting a full bush for thousands of years and now all of a sudden the American sissy male can’t handle it. Oh, boo hoo! Grow up, finally!
The opposite position from Christopher.
Maybe we men should ‘man up’ and love women for all their hair. Not the craziest idea.
J
If one has never shaved, waxed or otherwise removed kitty hair it can take a few times to master the art of no bumps or ingrown hairs. It was this that kept me not trimming kitty. However, try try again and voila kitty is purrrrfectly smooth! My man loves it so much that he does some manscaping…Which I reward with extra attention to his manscaped area. I’ve got an awesome shaver that I use to leave designs on kitty.
BINGO – Jamie you nailed it!
When you do something for your man you lead him and he is 10x more likely to do likewise for you!
That is the essence of mastering your man.
I couldn’t have said it better myself.
I agree everyone has a different view. I used to go 100% in the start of my relationship but eventually he told me he’s surprised I don’t leave a little. And whenever he says he’s surprised I don’t do something, that means he wishes I would. So landing strip it is and has been with only slight variations in shape and size for the last few years.
Yaaaaaeeee for the ‘landing strip’
Lol The first time I ever shaved completely my boyfriend was amazed at how nice it felt. Have been shaving it completely ever since, but I just wish there was a faster way, it takes forever with just a razor
Sorry but my man, wants the hair. He loves it and gets cranky when I trim it during period times
When I first got married I wasn’t completely shaved just trimmed because I was worried about what my husband would think of me if I shaved. But one day he kindly suggested that I shave because it looks nicer. So I did it and he really appreciates it and I love it too I feel more comfortable and sex feels better. He also does his manscaping wich Im really thankful for since bj are easier for me to perform and it just looks better and cleaner.
Personally I prefer the Brazilian – no kidding! Yes, it takes a bit to get use to but a good Esthetician can make it reasonably comfortable with some Advil beforehand. There IS a difference between the B and shaving — with the B some of the hair follicles die so the re-growth is less. And, the hairs are softer, not as coarse.
As for the sensation during sex — there isn’t anything like it.
My guy likes it, too. He will shave for me but I keep suggesting he gets waxed.
Thanks GreekGirl, you’re a champ. You’re really going the extra mile for your man – Greeks are not the most…ah hum…hairless of the human mammals, are they?
Way to tough it out. And good tip on advil.
I personally prefer to trim rather than wax. I just think bald balls and hairy legs looks kinda stupid. But I like to keep the boys neat and tidy.
I agree with Ashley. Men, like women, aren’t cookie cutters. I recall in one of you videos, Mr Archer, you talk about the plethora of misinformation out there. I believe the misinformation comes from the assumption that every one is the same. I know that your intentions are pure and that’s why I like you. Beware of the being like Cosmopolitan Magazine trap. Not that Cosmo is all that bad, I learned a lot of tricks there. Some that worked and some that didn’t, but in the end it’s all about experimentation and knowing your man, no?
I don’t care what’s down there as long as I get to root it, now stop with all the bald/hairy business and just show me the way to the pussy…
[Editor: Hmm, I think Georgia Boy may be on the wrong site. LOL]
I have always kept mine bare, and I honestly think it’s not good hygiene if I don’t. Thats my personal opinion and I don’t mean to offend anyone, but I hate pubic hair. My man shaves also, it’s a great feeling during sex.
Amanda, very hot! what do you call it both man and woman shaves their bikini line? Because you can no longer call it “bumping uglies” can you?
It feels different when both of you are shaved neat and tidy – feel even closer.
I agree that shaving is nice, however, the hair was put there for a reason. It may seem more hygenic to be hairless, but it’s my understanding that pubic hair actually provides some kind of protection or barrier. Unfortunately, I can’t quite recall what that is at this time. I do like Christopher’s point of view because it supports the fact that whether or not men like it is subjective.
Also, this ideal slightly annoys me because it’s just one more thing women have to worry about!
Sometimes, when you’re married and have children, you don’t always have the time to do all of these extra little things. When you’re single, you have more time and motivation (to get a man) to go the extra mile.
Belle, agreed agreed agreed.
It IS just one more thing. Totally optional like putting winter tires on the care.
(OK that was a weird analogy)
Common people.. it’s a personal preference.. kinda liking wanting chocolate or strawberry, sweet or sour candy.. I personally shave it all, sometimes a landing strip if I’m feeling like going different for a awhile.. also adds to the naughty or sexy feeling.. I think you just do whatever you partner likes if it works for you both.. I mean isn’t this about pleasing the other? Although I must say.. I LOVE being shaved. Even a little growth back makes me feel sloppy, I like to keep things very clean even in my day to day routine. I feel sexier when I am shaved, a symbol for me that I take care of my body and like keeping things clean and fresh. Again though, might be different for you.. just go with what you like. It’s your body..
I believe in the full wax. Especially during the summer, I feel much cleaner and fresher. For the past 8 months I’ve discovered a salon in Montreal, where I live, that do waxes with a really great technique using honey. Since I’ve been doing this, I have NO bumps or problems whatsoever since it’s completely organic. You can actually EAT the stuff! It also is much less painful than conventional waxes.
In any case, when I was first dating my boyfriend I hinted that I was “clean”. That evening, I received the BEST oral sex of my life and have ever since from him! I understand that of course this may not be for everyone; the women who do or do not wax/shave or the men who enjoy/not enjoy this. Different strokes for different folks etc. and so on! However, in my experience, when the panties come off and my pussy is completely smooth and pink, the men I’ve been with get even more excited and I usually get an amazing licking for my efforts! It also makes ME feel super sexy, and after all, that is the most potent aphrodisiac for the man I’m with…confidence in myself. So do what you wish or feel comfortable with ladies, and hopefully your man will want you no matter what!
Inmyskin,
Pink, smooth and covered with honey. No wonder you got great oral sex.
Jay
I prefer the way a bare kitty feels, and my man loves it, too. He clears the playground, as well…and I love that he does that for me. Sex is important to both of us, so it’s like foreplay to “groom up” in expectation.
I’m a fan of totally bare but I also had this strange idea in my head that I wasn’t as sexy as usual if it wasn’t shaved and would totally freak out if i wasn’t shaved and he was making moves, to the point where I would contemplate having to wait until i shaved to make it happen… It sucked! if you shave too much/too often thats when itrritation happens which sucks as well so my bf told me he actually would like that landing strip, I was shocked and even nervous to try it because when i shave its been everything for my whole life. I though i wouldn’t like it or I wouldn’t look right but it was fine esp because that was where most of my irritation would happen, so noww it works perfectly when i get sick of it I go bare again then do the landing strip until i know the irriation would happen. sorry guys i know thats not attractive but im trying to help the ladies out cause i knwo so many of us worry about this. good luck girls… also i really want to try a bikini wax but my eyes water when i get my fucking eyebrows done hahaha any suggestions of how to prepare/ make it more barable any good places in the US east coast area? thanks!
There’s a job for you. I traveling Brazilian Wax expert.
Sorry guys, I agree with Christopher. The idea that a guy wants me to look like a prepubesent child creeps the shit out of me. Frankly, if your into that, go fuck a child
I’m all woman, and need a man that can step up to the plate and handle it. (and i’ve got one).
Miss M,
Actually, the first time a ex-girlfriend waxed it all off for me I felt the exact same way – like I was with a little girl.
BUT, that said, it grows on you. (or maybe it it doesn’t ‘grow on you’)
is leaving some hair not supposed to be healthy? apparently, it helps catch bacteria etc
i would swear that i read this somewhere…………
El, I’ve never heard that pubic
Hair is healthy for catching bacteria?!
It does serve an evolutionary purpose. Something to the tune of holding scent so we animals can attract, sniff out and ID mates.
Ask yourself if we still need it for that lol
My man refuses to have sex with me when I am bare as he says I look like a pre-pubescent girl. He says he outgrew jail bait and would rather evidence that I am a woman. So landing strip it has been since we started dating years ago. *much to my dismay, as it’s so much easier to wax it all off*