Q: My boyfriend and I do pretty much anything in bed… no limits or boundaries… well bar one.
The one thing that turns him on in bed is something I just can’t do – no matter how much I try and prepare…
He loves to watch me lick my own cum off his cock mid-way through sex.
I’m happy to do anything (and I mean anything) but that. I don’t know why it grosses me out so much but it does.
Any help to overcome this would be appreciated.
– Miss M
A: Thanks for the Q.
Everyone’s sexual tastes are different and so are everyone’s taste buds. Some women enjoy the taste of themselves on their man’s penis. For some it’s the naughtiness, for others it’s the taste.
I assume it’s not a mental thing since as you said “I do pretty much anything in bed.”
Here’s what I suggest, Miss M.
Use a Natural Water Based Lubricant
Using a natural, water based lube with your favourite flavour will likely mask your own taste.
Many water-based sex lubes can be scented and flavored – making them especially appetizing for oral sex. Water-based lubes clean off easily with just warm water and a little bit of soap and don’t leave a sticky residue like some kinds of sex lubes can. Water-based lubes also don’t leave stains on your clothes or bed sheets. The only real drawback is that water-based sex lubes tend to wear off faster than other types of lubes – meaning you might need to reapply the lube once or twice before you’re finished.
Water-based lubes can be used safely with any type of adult toy or condoms and used for oral sex, vaginal or anal penetrations, masturbation or for massages.
Water based sex lubes really shine when you give a blowjob, or for going from vaginal to oral sex and back again making it easier and better tasting.
In my experience, flavoured lubes can be a bit tacky, sticky, a bit more messy and some brands of cherry, to me, taste like medicine. I prefer the natural ‘unflavored’ options as they still have a tiny bit of taste. But it’s all personal preference.
Remember, the lube you want is…
- Natural, Water-based (not silicon, or oil-based)
- Flavour is personal preference
- Brands I prefer: I-D, Astroglide & Wet
- Do NOT get KY – it’s pretty terrible across the board.
- Check-out at water-based lube selection here
I’m with your man on this one – seeing your lover enthusiastically devour your cock right after you rocked her with a powerful orgasm is highly arousing and like saying ‘Thank you! Thank you! Oh thank you!” A nice reward for a job well done.
NOTE: I used Commonwealth spelling today…Flavor = Flavour, Favorite=Favourite – for my UK, European, Australian, New Zealand and Canadian friends for a change. I’m also a Canadian.
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Other things that change the taste. Care of the body. Be hydrated (less taste and more just wet), eat healthy, wash and be clean…pineapple juice makes the taste sweeter (for his cum too)…and don’t smoke (not saying you do…but it makes the biggest difference).
Christine, I agree. Diet and lifestyle can effect both the ‘flavor’ of men and womens’ fluids.
GUM GUM GUM….pop a piece of gum in your mouth that is not sugar free..like thrills or traditional juicy fruit..it is amazing…your mouth will instantly fill with tons of saliva..making for an awesomely juicy BJ..your gag reflex will disappear..and when he cums it wont really taste at all…i do take the gum out shortly after my mouth fills with saliva tho,before i really get going so i dont choke on it
Tracy, i like the ‘juicy fruit’ idea. Good one.
I used to have a HUGE problem with this also (even kissing after he had gone ‘down under’ on me… but like christine says, if you eats lots of fruit it makes your taste sweeter (also the french are big fans of drinking orange tisane) now i love ‘cleaning him up’ after we’ve had a good time together,…and yes it is alittle naughty(i think that’s why men love it so much;they fantasize about women being ‘lezzie” so when we are willing to taste ourself it is like being with a woman in their mind) try some of the fruit ideas.. and loosen up.
Ann, good for you. Follow Ann’s lead, ladies.
At first I didn’t enjoy my own taste either. Nor did I like his, so we used Wet’s strawberry flavor (it’s both of our favorite fruit) and yeah, he also loves the idea of me going down on him right after orgasm, and the strawberry was just such a wonderful flavor that I tended to be a little overzealous.
But after a while natural flavors just grow on you. It’s a little embarrassing to admit but if you can like your natural flavor it opens a lot of opportunity doors 
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if I am to do this I usually start off with a hand job and kind of wipe off all the cum in a sneaky fashion before going down on him . I don’t think he notices but he has a good time and I’m not totally grossed out
Megan, tricky girl.
I completely agree with Christine. Those are actually the best tips I see. Pineapple is amazing when it comes to flavoring ejaculation fluids(;
wow i must be the freak of the bunch, cause i can’t get enough of it. I love to ride my husband then go down on him and suck my juices off of him, it drives him absolutely crazy and i will do it over and over and over again.
Amber, quite common in my experience, you naughty girl.
Amber,
You are not a freak…in fact it’s one the things I find very hot…especially when a woman is enthusiastic and hungry about it!