Editor Archer: Lucy, a lovely reader emailed me …
“I went through your site & had a desperate urge to write articles for your website….writing is my passion. Hope you allow me the privilege, if possible.”
Thanks, Love & Regards,
Lucy
My Reply…
“If it’s your passion I can’t really stand in your way and would be very happy for you to contribute. What are 3 topics you feel passionate writing about?”
[Editor Jay Archer: 1. This is Lucy's 1st article. She chose the topic and I haven't edited a word. (Yikes - this should stir interesting reactions) Please give her feedback, below]
PLEASE DON’T SHOOT THE MESSENGER … ie. ME! As always, your valuable feedback, comments and ratings will guide future content. Thank you all.
Guest Article by Lucy
There are many unusual activities to please a man…
…Stand at the door naked with just on your high-heels to welcome him when he comes back at home, put on a sexy dress without undies when he takes you out for dinner or some party, allow him to kiss you and touch your private parts in public, have an energetic sex on bed, give an intimate blowjob, swallow his cum, etc. Besides these, the most intensified way to please him is “Cum-facial”.
Everyone knows that men love to cum on a girl’s pretty face – and why not? Cumfacial is an enjoyable activity for both. It is a demand of a man and a desire of a woman. Most of the girls like the feeling of cum on their face. And it’s only on girls’ hand to make it look good. You just need to make a little effort to please him with Cum-facial.
Follow these guidelines to make it effective and beautiful:
1. Cumfacial looks good only on beautiful faces. So, each girl must do some make-up and beautify herself before attempting it. Put on a red or pink coloured lipstick, long earrings, darken your eye-lashes, hair open or a nice bun and use bronzers (if necessary).
2. Usually guys prefer to shoot their load on a bare body, but a nice sexy black dress is a turn on – especially when he notice the stains of his cum later.
2. Most important part – position – you must be in a correct pose when he shoots. There are three best positions: 1) when on your knees – Open mouth, tongue touching right at the tip of the cock and make eye-contact open. 2) If you don’t want to open your mouth and eyes, close them, but make sure your lips are just below the cock-head so as you may get cum on your lips and chin. And 3) lie down and let him sit on you or stand beside while shooting.
4. Some guys lose their control while ejaculating – thus they don’t know where cum is falling, so you need to adjust your face accordingly and make sure cum hit all around and across your face. Cum on both cheeks, nose, eyes, lips, chin, forehead & hair makes a good facial.
After the cum-facial, don’t spoil the mood of you man by wiping it off with a tissue-paper or towel. Guys cum on your face, because they like to see their cum dripping down your chin. They like to see what they have done to you.
5. Laugh or giggle after cum-facial often spoils the romance away. Give him a sweet and sexy smile – it’s a turn on. Tell him you liked it. Trickily show him that you even have his cum on your tongue. Take the dripping cum on your finger and suck it and wink at him.
[Editor Archer: I'm not convinced this is medical fact OR humor, but it's pretty funny.] And it’s medically proven fact that wiping or washing the cum off instantly is harmful for the skin. So better keep it there on you face for 10-15mint.
[Editor Archer: Don't agree BUT leaving it in just to see your comments - LOL] Add-ons: guys would also like if you go and fetch him water with cum on your face or you cooking with cum-facial on. Show him that you really like and don’t care if cum is on your face.
You can be more innovative and creative to these ideas and make your Him please with CUM-FACIAL.
Guest Article by Lucy
[Editor Request: 1. Please give your feedback to Lucy by commenting below. 2. Tell me if you would you like to see more guest articles?]
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Oh boy, this is going to ruffle some feathers!
Let’s hear it ladies. Looking forward to those responses.
And DONT SHOOT THE MESSENGER – lol.
These are great tips and I can appreciate that a guy likes a good “cum-facial” and I’d be all too eager to please, but cooking with a cum-facial on? Are you serious?
This article is full of bullshit!
This is a trashy article…. I can not believe someone really thought a woman would try this.
Lucy I think this is wonderful. Something I thought only girls in porn could get away with. I’m looking forward to surprising my man tonight!!
Give us more, great article!
Lucy, looks like your article has not offended absolutely everyone. Amanda seems to like it.
Amanda – keep us posted as to how your man likes this unique idea, OK?
This was a poorly written article. First of all who is this woman writing this? Maybe some women “like” cum on their face but I think most don’t. We do this “I think it is wierd that you are suggesting we let the man ejaculate on our face and then go get HIM water with it on our face. Or we cook??? Are you kidding me?
I love the idea of having a woman writing for this website, but could you please find one that has at least a small amount of respect for women? I found this article outrageously degrading and ridiculous. Along with this the grammer used was poor and I have to wonder how much of a grasp the writer has on the english language. Please don’t put your readers through this again.
Melissa, thanks for feedback. Noted.
I knew this topic would PISS OFF a few people. Not for everyone, that’s for sure.
I definitely want to more female contribution on MYM.
It is medically proven it is harmful to wipe semen off of your face to quickly so we should leave it on for 10-15 minutes??? Really.
This article is officially the stupidest thing I have ever read.
I think this idea is good if the woman genuinely enjoys it. There’s nothing wrong with getting him water or something afterwards . I’m just curious from a man’s point of view if that would really be a turn on.
I think cooking with it on is definitely going overboard. I personally like it on my chest, not my face.
I’m all up for getting cum on me other parts of my body but on your face is not for me, especially leaving it on, if I’m doing this for my man I’m supposed to enjoy it too not be turned off myself. Anyway personal opinion.
Arent there other places guys like to cum on? Like seriously other than the face or chest, doing it on the chest all the time seems to get a bit too same-ie.
Anyway liking the female contributions, more please
As for mellissa, come on girl no need to be so harsh and personal and insult her writing, not everyone is perfect
M.L. thanks for the feedback. You were very even handed with Lucy
See, check out how many mistakes I made without even realising
I’ve only tried the cum facial once, but it was definitely fun and I would absolutely do it again. I don’t think Lucy’s article had anything to do with being disrepectful to woman. I think the main idea is to try new and exciting things in the bedroom, because no couple wants things to get boring!!
I would love to hear more new and exciting things to try.
I personally find it hard to find credibility in a passionate writer with bad grammar. She was writing an article for you and it was the first one at that, proofreading should have been automatic. A credible woman’s opinion would be cool, but this is not that. I was left questioning whether a “cum-facial” is truly the “most intensified” way to please a man, and I’d have to go to a man to ask that question… I’m not saying she is wrong, but my tendancy is to not trust her. I prefer your articles, you don’t seem as vapid. Of course, you did post the article, which shows that you thought it was good and that it reflected the site appropriately…and that is up to you. I will pass in the future though..
Don’t forget to VOTE too (Yellow stars above at the bottom of article)
Are you even fucking serious right now?
Really? really?
ew.
I agree with Erin and Carol — I’d love a man’s point of view on this one. The whole walking around, fetching water and cooking with the cum-facial routine just doesn’t seem sexy at all to me and I’d feel like a complete idiot. Sounds more like a SNL skit that would make me laugh.
Lucy, good job! Write more, please. Girls, do you really “respect” yourselves or you just don’t love your men to do such a pleasant thing for them? Leave your illusions – they DO love this – ALL.
[Editor: Guest Writer Lucy Response.]
I hastily wrote and sent the article while at work, so couldn’t proofread it. So, kindly excuse the grammar issues. I guess Jay must have noticed and I would be happy if he had edited.
Anyways, a wise must enjoy the fruit rather than counting seeds.
Sexual pleasures are subjected to personal likings. I wrote what my partner and I enjoy the most. It’s most intensified for us.
Empty vessels are always noisy. Those haven’t tried it, are actually not eligible to comment. Still, being broad-minded, every comment has it’s own depth and I accept it. And those who liked can write to me at yrlav@yahoo.com
I’m sorry if I offended anyone!
Thanks Jay for publishing my article on MYM.
I’m really hurt by few comments, specially melissa’s, Get a f’nlife’s and Erin’s. It’s certainly a disrespect for me. I need to talk to you to continue writing or not?! Do Mail me asap.
yeah i donit get the cooking with it on your face bit, don’t think he would appreciate your cooking if his cum was dripping in it. seems a bit odd. i also had to laugh at melissa saying the writer had bad grammer? seriously your going to comment on someones grammar then spell grammar wrong LOL. yeah more woman writers is a good idea
well i found the article to be poorly written and there is no mediccal evidence that cum is good or bad for your skin regardless of how long you leave it on.
I actually had 4 guys read your article and they totally disagreed that this would turn them on and that Lucy is a little out there.
I do not enjoy cum on my face and I sure as hell am not cooking with it .
My husband said this is not the secret sauce he wants added to his meal.
Well that was definitely different and just plain bad. Poorly written and where did she come up with this medical info.
No medical evidence that cum on your face is good or bad and definately how long it must be left on is a joke.
My husband does not think this is a turn on and he definately does not want this” secret sauce” dripping from my face an ending up in his meal..
I am all for guest writer and a female point of view but please make sure they have a clue first.
It is your opinion Lucy but definately not for most of us.
I think what the write is proposing is fine, with some exceptions, but I think what some women might find about this article, is the way in which her ideas are put. She did not write the article well and also I think that put the way she did, the whole idea could come across as degrading.
And I want to add that the “little black dress” that women often wear and is attractive and sexy, usually comes with a “huge price tag”….I don’t think I would want a stain on a black dress just so that he could remember, when he might not even notice.
Also, your site has always stressed not to worry about whether one is over weight etc. and that in the end, it is your attitude to fun sex that matters and I agree. This woman is suggesting that only “pretty faces” should try this. I find this out of keeping with your whole premise of your articles so far.
The idea of a facial or on the body is fine…it is the way she wrote the article.
Thanks
Men may be visually oriented, but I know personally I cannot tolerate the feel of cum on my face.
As to leaving it on my face, even if I could tolerate it, I know my partner and I both enjoy cleaning up after sex. I do not know of anyone (male or female) who enjoys the stickiness.
As to the article, it could be better written, but it was interesting!
I believe this is:
a) the most ridiculous thing I have ever read
and
b) probably the poorest written article I have ever read
First of all, Lucy…if writing articles happens to be your passion, you might think about taking a writing course!
Secondly, I think you only wrote this to get a reaction from Jay’s readers…No woman with any sense of dignity, nor any man that loves and respects his lady, would do as you suggest!!
Jay, I look forward to reading your e-mails/articles, but if this is a sign of things to come, I may have to unsubscribe to this! I am extremely disappointed in your judgement!!
Please do not let this ‘woman’ contribute to your newsletters any more!!
I agree with many of the comments. I love your site so am slightly disappointed that you didn’t edit such a poorly written piece. Personally I doubt the credibility of anyone who can’t form a complete sentence. But I have a feeling you purposely did that knowing the responses you would receive…you sly devil : 0 )
[Editor Note: Wink Wink - lol]
Being a very adventurous lady I welcome any idea that will make my man crazy, and I’m always willing to try anything once. I have been asked by men in the past if they could cum on my face, it never bothered me, and if it gets them hot, then I’m all for it.
Everyone is different and what we need to remember when reading these kinds of articles is that they provoke thought and even though it may not be your “cup of tea” it may give you another idea you do want to try such as having him cum on your breasts…mainly just be open to new ideas and relax!
My husband and I are extremely experimental – and I mean he’s had me do things that made me want to run and hide. Yucky! However, the so called cumfacial, isn’t so bad. Before I read this article we’ve done this several times – i don’t say O yea cum on my face, but somehow he gets it there. The cooking aspect nada!!!
Let me give you some advice… A man has deep secrets and desires – nasty, freaky, shit. But it’s all fun and fantasy – DURING SEX!! As soon as they cum – that’s it fantasy over please pretend this never happened. That type of deal. So word of advice and knowledge from the wife of a nympho – get freaky – let it out in the bed – or else where. It’s all fun what’s the harm – he’s doing it too! Enjoy and explore and when your done go back to bitching about how poor someones grammar is because your a fucking snob!
OK, as per the request of one commenter … I’ll chime in.
Do facials turn men on? Maybe. Do they turn me on. Nope!
Why?
1. Perhaps because the ‘pop’ or ‘money shot’ is standard in porn – and overused that I’m not all that excited about it.
2. Personally, I don’t fantasize about where I cum.
[Regarding the part about cooking & chores and not wiping it off 'for medical reasons' - LOL - Not for me, at all. BUT, I had a good chuckle just imagining the comment reactions.]
BUT…
Know what turns me on?
A woman who is enthusiastic about and loves my cock – and not afraid to use it. That feels great emotionally and makes for great sex – in my experience.
IF she loves ejaculate on her face, chest, stomach, mouth or where ever – its really her thing – and asks me for it…well, that’s kinda hot.
Why? Passion is in short supply these days. And men love women who love and are enthusiastic about sex. Period.
Would I force a woman to do something she’s not comfortable with or she feels is degrading? No. If I was really turned-on by something she didn’t like or wasn’t into would there be a problem of sexual compatibility? Yes.
Obviously, Lucy loves her man’s semen on her face. She’s passionate about it and like a any good movie she saw, she’s telling people how much she enjoyed it. Although, in this case – some people may not be into her ‘type’ of movie, right?
Are cum facials degrading? If you think they are OR not, you’re right! IF he thinks cum-facials are OR not, he’s right! So it’s best to be on the same page with facials. If you both love ‘em – then nobody’s feelings will be hurt. IF not, probably want to pick another landing strip for his cum, OK?
Bottom line Do I like facials? Not particularly.
Do men love women who love sex? Yes. Do they love women who know what they want and ask for in bed? Yes. Will he fulfill her fantasy if that’s her thing? Sure. Why not?
O and one more thing to Donna and all the other haters… My husband cums on my face, he walks in a room and if I’m cooking dinner and wants me right then and there he’ll pull me up the stairs by my hair and take it…force me to do things – whatever. We have 5 boys, we own two companies, and my husband is gorgeous absolute man candy – and never would he cheat on me or harm me in any way so for you to say that the man didn’t respect or love his lady – that’s such a bitch out. My man would die for me and bend over backwards for me. so I don’t know what your talking about. Ladies with a brain – do what you want – what makes your man happy.
Laurie I like the advice you gave, ” just be open to new ideas and relax”
But I think it should read…
“Just RELAX and then be open to new ideas”
WE could all learn to relax a bit – especially me.
wow I really liked this article…I hope to see more like this.
Yikes! Grabs you by the hair and takes it when he wants it. Wow, you gotta be a special kind of woman to enjoy that.
JAY ARCHER – Agreed. But 1. different strokes. 2. Don’t knock it till you try it – I guess
Jay, I enjoyed your point of view. It sounded perfect to me.
i dont like cum…but one day i was takin a shower with my boyfriend n we startd sexin it up..i suckd on him and then he stickd it in,and we were gettin it on…n right before he busted i told him i wanted it on my face so right before he did…i got on my knees faced toward his cock and he busted it was so sexy and i knew he liked it..i liked it to0 cuz it was s0 sexy and a turn on,qosh just thinkin about it makes me happy cuz him and i did al0t of naughty things t0gether that are just AMAZING!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!—i think my position was sexy on my knees wet everywhere wet long brown hair..water drippin down my body..steamy shower=)=)qewd tymes
This article is hilariously horrible… I mean, it sounds like a cheap advertisement for a crappy porno. Really Jay, never let this woman write for us again, unless for the comedic effect.
Honestly all it really seems like is that she watched a porno and just narrated it. “Cumfacial looks good only on beautiful faces”. This is a horribly put sentence. What about the women who are slightly insecure with their looks? Wouldn’t that offend them a great deal so they never would even try a facial, no matter how pleasing it would be for their man, because of this statement. I find it insulting slightly.
But really, any women that contribute to this site wouldn’t be a good investment. We don’t want to hear what WOMEN think is attractive, we want MEN to tell us what turns THEM on. : )
NOTED Jesimika in regards to your comment “We don’t want to hear what WOMEN think is attractive, we want MEN to tell us what turns THEM on. “
How many agree with Jesimika?
I have to agree that I found the article degrading to women and truly can’t imagine most women even trying it. I haven’t found a single girlfriend that likes this and even my husban and a male friend of mine said they find it degrading to women as well and they’ve never had a woman ask for that. While i appreciate a new type of article, I would have to say this isn’t what I would’ve had in mind for one.
A cumfacial is my (and my boyfriend’s) sort of thing, and I didn’t find the article or suggestion offensive… But I did think the article was incredibly poorly written. The idea was good, but even if someone is “passionate” about writing, they shouldn’t be given scope for it unless they actually have ability too.
I don’t think this article is weird or outrageous as some view it. Well, here goes the French proverb; Tastes and colors are not to be discussed!
I have enjoyed the article to it’s peek. lol .I think that instead of criticizing, give it a try. I am pretty sure that your man will go crazy and real crazy this time.
Nina – love that French proverb – “Tastes and colors are not to be discussed!”
I’ve never heard that before.
First of all i dont know why everyone is jumping down her throat when she is just giving ideas to please your man which is what this website is all about right? Im sure this isnt something for every woman or every man for that matter but there are some men who will like it and if your a woman who is with a man who does there isnt a lot of pointers out there on how to make it sexy. im sure there are other topics on this website that dont fit everyone. Lucy bravo for being a brave woman and speaking like a man I look forward to reading more articles from you and i think as a woman look forward to reading your pointers and point of view. Me personally i have been with my man for 6 years we have a great sex life and have always tried all different kinds of things. in the past i have never had a problem giving blow jobs and never had any complaints from any past boyfriends but with him it seems like i never do it right and i have only sucked him to cum once yes once i have given him head many times but i lose confidence because he will be rock hard and i start givin him head and he goes soft he says he loves it when i do it but to me if he loved it he would be hard so i dont do it very often any more so ive never had the option of getting a cum facial so maybe if your next article you could help me out that would help me. thanks and keep up the good work
Wow, although intresting idea we’ve all heard that his cum is good for our hair nails and skin, so why not try and see? Maybe he could fetch the water and a napkin to wipe your pretty face off after all it was his spill…
I understand where the article is coming from. Lucy, I do have a few suggestions for you, though. Use phrases such as “When my significant other and I…”, or “I personally love…”. When you generalize the entire female populace, some of us are bound to get uptight and/or offended. For example, when you say a female must look pretty before she gets a cumfacial. My man hates it when I wear make-up, and our more passionate sex takes place in the morning, right when we wake up; my hair is all messy, eyes are sleepy, but that’s when he says he finds me the most beautiful. Guy’s are all different, so again, make sure you use a phrase like “My man enjoys… but your’s might like…”
I like your organized form, but again. Don’t forget that your audience does not think like you do. You ought to also lead into it a little more, and of course, spell and grammar check. I have to wonder, though, why you wrote this at work. Oughtn’t it to have rather been written somewhere that you aren’t on the clock, so that it could have your full attention?
I agree with Jesimika. If you are going to have guest writers, guys might be a better decision. We aren’t men, so we don’t know how you think. Why else is the column where guys tell us what they think in Cosmo is so popular?
P.S. If we have a female writer, perhaps she could tell us tips and tricks she has used on her man that drove him wild. I think that wa Lucy’s main point, to tell us what brought her man to the brink, and hopefully inspire us to do the same with our guys.
Thanks Archer. The original proverb goes like this; ” Les gouts et les couleurs ne se discutent pas “.
Well, I do agree-partly- with Jesimika on this angle. That would be nice to learn from men what really turns them on but taking ideas or advices from a woman is not rejected. We need to get a balance of creative ideas from both sides. We also need to put this in our mind, those writers are doing their best to keep us alive with innovative ideas and that does not mean that we should agree with what they say. There is a freedom in these articles. But I should say that one should relax and take everything cool and simple and not “horrible” as some say!!
“Cum facial “! Made me laugh out loud. I think a woman would have to casually talk with her partner to find out what he likes. Sometimes, men don’t like what we think is obvious. I know a man who said he doesn’t like lingerie! It’s subjective. However, I was actually a little uncertain about this until I read Jin’s (May 29th) shower scene. NOW THAT, WAS A SEXY CUM FACIAL suggestion. That, made me consider trying it more than the article. THAT, WAS ABSOULTELY BEAUTIFUL!
Appreciated Jay’s male perspective.
*letters enlarged just to show emphasis.
Re: The Jesimika Comment
It is true that I found this site while searching for ideals that would turn my man on. While I throughly enjoy reading comments from the sisterhood, I respectfully prefer articles written by Mr. Archer.
While I personally am not into a cum-facial, that doesn’t mean that I wouldn’t try it at least once for my man. I agree that generalizations such as “all guys” or “all gals” leave us no room to be ourselves and to have our own preferences.
Jay, I am always looking for new ways to please my man. And I definitely want to hear what turns a man on from a man. However, I would also find it helpful to hear from a woman what things pleased her man and turned her on at the same time. Did doing these things for him make her want more? Or, did she wish she could just “get this over with”?
I say, before you all criticize Lucy, you should try to do what she did. I challenge all of those criticizing women to write their own article, then share it with different women. I guarantee that if the women are truthful, and the article is about something as unique as Lucy’s, you won’t get all good reviews.
Jay, I read your blog to learn from a MAN about men and their sexuality; not to read what some woman THINKS men desire and enjoy. It isn’t the content that offends me, particularly; I simply see this article as a departure from the intent of your Web site.
I can find badly-written, titllating articles offering advice from other women about how to please a man in a myriad of sources (none of which I seek out to read).
This article is not what I come to you for.
Jasmine – got it. Thanks.
So am I hearing that you’re prefer to read men’s point of view over women’s (at least on this site?)
sincerely,
J
To be honest, I would say this article has been writen by a male. Don’t get me wrong, it would be great to have the odd female guest writer (yup, I’m putting my hand up), and I think the idea behind this post is an interesting one – but the way it was writen is definatly from a male point of view. Not wiping your face straight after as it is bad for the skin and then cooking? Cum is actually wonderful for the skin with all it’s protines, but the way it has been writen in the article screams to me of a man who wants to see it there for an entire week if he had his way.
Jay, as a female, I would love to do a guest article for your blog. I love reading it to better understand of the male way of thinking and I do think the occassional guest female article or commentary would be great – but it needs to sound like the opinion is that of a female, not someone posing to be.
Lindsay,
1. I have never met Lucy and trust she isn’t a man – but come to think of it don’t know 100%.
But, it is possible she is just very sexual and love the cum.
Either way, I can assure you deception “is not my bag, baby.”
This isn’t some long con or grand conspiracy to influence women.
2. Thanks for the offer to write. I’m working on a few ideas to now to incorporate more contributors.
Thanks
Jay
yeh men like it and i dont mind either…. it also gets rid of pimples and blemishes if kept on til dry before washing it off.
Ladies… My wife “Lola” informed me about this article and I as a man have a few things to say… Every one of us men are different – obviously – that’s why there’s porn, sex toys, hookers, perverts, pedifiles, etc… All it is, is a fantacy or for some a fetish. However, none of these things matter if your lady isn’t into it. I can make passionate love to my wife 5 times a day if that’s all she wanted and be completely satisfied with that – or because she’s so into me she allows me to be anyway I want with her. She will bend over backwards to please me and in doing so it turns her on. Usually after a man cums our want is over, were satisfied – for now. We don’t like to see our kids on your face afterwards. wash it off!!! And please don’t cook, kiss, or even look at me till it’s gone. I like to be in control – dominate – violate – disrespect her in every way. But this doesn’t mean I am not madly in love with her. I just like to play and have fun and try something new. If your man sees you aren’t enjoying what his doing – he’ll feel insecure and turned off and sometimes even think there’s something sick about him. So let him down easy – move the position – take over – get dominating this will turn him on even more. Men love woman who are confident with their sexuality, men love to watch woman get themselves off – more importantly they love that they turn you on. So try touching yourself and getting off on it while looking at him, watch him play with himself while you watch and beg for it, tell us how big we are or how sexy it is, you can’t wait for us to be inside you. Take our hand and play with yourself with it, whisper dirty things in our ear about what you want to do with us later – being dirty doesn’t have to mean raunchy. Were into you already the smallest thing can turn us on. Be yourself and have confidence. Were going to love you no matter what. Just keep having sex with us and were GOOD!
Dubskizie, great manswer!
Thanks for manning up and kicking in on this site to help the ladies out.
Jay
Jay Archer… My wife Lola went on your site to learn to strip for me, she had a problem with confidence. She’s 30 years old looks like she’s 18 small 102 lbs long brown hair – she’s a bombshell but because she had 5 kids she lost her self esteem – she became shy and nervous. But To me and every man who stares her down she’s a dime piece. Let me tell you how a few days of reading and studing your articles – her self esteem is back up and she’s sexier then ever. I walked in the house and she was kneeling on the bed with the sexiest lil thongs and a push up bra on and my god I haven’t seen her that way in 6 years. Ready to go… She still isn’t dancing for me, but just the way she’s looking at me and the way she wants me and desires me is the BIGGEST turn on. Just her having confidence and showing me love and attention and that I am the man is all it took for me to be like WOW!!! So keep doin your thing man. The best thing you can give these women is their confidence. I mean my wife just looking at me like I’m a piece of meat is the sexiest thing. You need to stress to these ladies that their men want to be desired they want to feel like their the man. That’s all us men really need is to be the man even if their only the man to their lady.
Dubskizie, thanks for the compliment, man.
“she looks at me like I’m a piece of meat… And I love it”
That’s pretty much it in a nutshell, isn’t it?
She sounds sexy and like she’s trying hard for your relationship. Keep encourging her and doing the same for her, ok?