Comments on: Understand What Men Want

By: Archer

Archer — Wed, 24 Mar 2010 18:47:10 +0000

Meagan,

Thanks for the explanation on how men react differently to an argument. Very helpful.

TRUE in my case for sure. I guess I can’t say “I don’t know what came over me” anymore.

Archer

By: meagan

meagan — Wed, 24 Mar 2010 02:42:20 +0000

one interesting fact about men and fighting or sensitivity is that men physiologically react differently to fights. when a fight starts, a man’s biological stress symptoms (raised blood pressure, body temp, muscle tension) raise extremely quickly and they are overwhelmed by it easily. On the other hand, in women the same symptoms rise much slower and so they will fight more and often can’t understand why he cant just talk with her about it.

I know i am guilty of this a lot and i kinda found it interesting when I found this out

By: ashley

ashley — Tue, 02 Mar 2010 16:52:11 +0000

I absolutely agree with this article and it is just about spot on.

My boyfriend is most definately more sensitive than I am, even though you would never know it. Anytime we get into an argument, the argument will usually escalate because by me speaking up and complaining about something, he gets hurt, shuts down, won’t speak to me, I want a resolution, but then I feel he is punishing me by being quiet, but really he’s just hurt and needs to calm down before he gets out of control, I get more and more pissed because I want to get to the resolution. And if it gets really heated, he will lose control and will have to win the argument, at all costs. Even if we stay up til 4 am on a work night, he will win. And then of course apologize when he calms down the next day for saying the hurtful things he said just to win.

I’m understanding more and more everyday how to handle him, and this article kind of solidifies what I have been thinking for the last 6 months. Honestly, whether I argue to the death , or just shut my mouth, I always win really anyway.

And ladies-you will never ever change the way they are. Give it up.

By: sara

sara — Tue, 02 Mar 2010 05:29:04 +0000

this article is true in a way… but in my case im giving and showing and when I want something my way or even sex my way it never happens..

By: melissa

melissa — Mon, 01 Mar 2010 15:18:21 +0000

love the article.since i have started receiving these emails my love life and improved 300%.sex is ‘wow’.signed my husband up 4 ‘fasterfemaleorgasms’ and since then we finally had anal sex and i’m enjoying it(after trying 4 4yrs).thanks

By: Anonymous

Anonymous — Sun, 28 Feb 2010 23:21:24 +0000

this was a great article. It’s nice to know why men get quiet and don’t show their emotions…it all makes sense now!

By: Anonymous

Anonymous — Sun, 28 Feb 2010 16:44:16 +0000

Holy! This article jst gave me the answer I’ve been lukng 4!! Thanks so much!

By: Rinda

Rinda — Sat, 27 Feb 2010 00:22:39 +0000

Pfft, yeah right.

As if anything about what’s written up there is true

*Doesn’t believe*

By: Archer

Archer — Fri, 26 Feb 2010 22:55:11 +0000

Megan,

Agreed.

I’m NOT saying this male behavior is CORRECT or RIGHT I’m just telling you the way it is.

That being said, you should insist your man be romantic – that you expect it and that he make it a priority.
Once he understands it’s a priority and how important it is – he will likely make more of an effort.

By: Megan

Megan — Fri, 26 Feb 2010 22:41:30 +0000

As much as these are true….how do you make the MAN DO SOMETHING to show YOU their “feelings” without you having to hop on top and show them how much you like lollypops?

You know this is kind of like defending men and how they don’t want to talk and they love you but don’t like to tell you blah blah……..men have to do something to show you that they love you….women or I can give and give and give….with no giving on his end…..

Men get so comfortable when they have a woman like me who loves to show them physically that they love them, that they don’t think they need to “show” you back.