Comments on: The Number 1 Sex Position For Men Revealed

By: Jonathan

Jonathan — Thu, 11 Feb 2010 22:54:51 +0000

I usually start on top of her and she tolerates it for about 30 seconds. I don’t know that it’s mine, but it sure is hers. No other position will do for her.

By: kathleen again

kathleen again — Sun, 15 Nov 2009 04:51:48 +0000

Kathy

If you and your man both love the woman on top position but want to spice it up a bit for you i would recommend instead of sitting up while you’re on top all the time, you could lie down while still being on top. this will create a greater sense of intimacy and that way you can kiss etc. my boy loves it when i do this to him as he can wrap his arms and legs around my back too.

also, if you’re really wanting a change from being on top try to roll him beneath you when you are on top.

otherwise i really agree with A_Man: Ask!

By: A_man

A_man — Mon, 19 Oct 2009 17:34:26 +0000

The best advice that I can give you Cynthia is to just try it and see. Once you have done it once your confidence will soar and once you are more confident your man will definitely notice it and it should make a huge difference.

By: A_man

A_man — Mon, 19 Oct 2009 17:31:22 +0000

Bec,

To be honest more guys love boobs but if they are your partner they will be more fascinated with you than the size of your boobs and that is the real truth of the matter. We like to look at boobs but when we are with someone it is not for their boob size. You need to get some confidence and stop selling yourself short.

By: A_man

A_man — Mon, 19 Oct 2009 17:29:19 +0000

Hi Kathy,

The best advice I can give you is to ask. Why not try suggesting a new position this will definitely work. What you do is say something like “honey, I saw this great new sex position in a magazine the other day, would you fancy giving it a try?” I can guarantee that he will jump at the chance. That’s the nice way round your situation.

Hope this helps.

By: A_man

A_man — Mon, 19 Oct 2009 17:27:15 +0000

Will work on getting those tips posted

By: Kim

Kim — Sat, 03 Oct 2009 08:34:32 +0000

I have the same problem Jennifer what seems to work is putting firm pillows on either side to give you a little leverage or one knee on the pillow and up like your kneeling before you enter a church pew. and use his body has a balancer lots of control that way and my man loves it….

By: tendayi

tendayi — Tue, 29 Sep 2009 06:49:56 +0000

i would love to be sent more tips on how to give a handjob

By: Rinnie

Rinnie — Mon, 28 Sep 2009 19:42:59 +0000

Jennifer, my partner and I have a similar problem. Or rather, I used to find it a big problem, as it seemed I couldn’t move enough due to my legs being stretched pretty far just to get my kness on the floor/bed/wherever.

I seem to have gotten more used to it, so I can only offer these tips:

Firstly, if you practise, you should get better. It’s also a great workout, and since you’re letting him have a break he won’t mind if you need to rest a little every now and then.

Secondly, try varying your position- you could support yourself on your arms and lower legs (kness in the air), which allows you to work with the head of his penis at your entrance, or try lying your upper body right on his for support, allowing you to move your hips more. This will give your muscles a break if you find it tiring by using different groups in different positions, as well as stimulating him more.

Another idea I have yet to try is placing a cushion either side of him where your knees will be, so you’re raised more.

By: Kathleen

Kathleen — Mon, 28 Sep 2009 00:23:22 +0000

Hi, love the feeling of being on top. However it’s now the only the position he wants for the last four years and I want a break. I feel lost and not touched during the love making. Talked about change, but nothing has ever changed and this positon has now messed up my pleasure. Diva’s he will love it. Maybe too much. Now what? Any ideas on how to get your man to open up to change now that he has had the best positon too much.

Help! Not looking to not change partners. I love him.
Kathy!