The Hottest Thing You Can Say To Your Man

DirtyWhen it comes to communicating with your man there are a few things you can say to really turn him on and make him feel extra special.  I am not talking about telling him how much you love him but how to speak to him so that he knows you really want him especially during sex.

What I am talking about is talking dirty and if this is something that is new to you then I hope this post will inspire you.

[ Talking dirty is something that is very easy to learn and this is a really great program that is called How To Talk Dirty Without Feeling Stupid. ]

The problem for a lot of women when it comes to talking dirty during sex is that they feel silly or so I have heard.  I remember one of my girlfriends telling me that she was afraid that she would sound stupid, say the wrong thing or that I would laugh at her.  No matter how much I tried to reassure her that this wouldn’t happen she refused point blank.  It wasn’t the end of the world but it did kinda put a dampner on things in the sex department though.  She just didn’t have any sexual confidence and this wasn’t what I was looking for.

If you want to know what the hottest things that you can say to your man during sex are then here are a couple of examples to give you an idea.

“I want you inside me” – this is such a turn on and talk about letting a man know that you are enjoy yourself.  When you say this to your man you really are pushing his buttons and letting him know that you are just as excited about what he is doing as he is in doing it.

“F**k me now” – again this is a real turn on and a way of telling the man you are with that he is doing all the right things and that you are ready and very anxious for him to be inside you.  It is a great way to let him know that he is doing the right thing and that he has you really hot.  If you whisper this in his ear it’s all the better and you will really see some hot action.

“You’re so hot” – Another great phrase to boost any man’s ego especially during sex.  We all want to know that we are turning you on and exciting you so whisper this or saying it out loud in bed is great.

here are plenty more great hot phrases that you can shout or whisper during sex

Until next time, can you say hot?

Talk Dirty to your man[ If you would like to learn more then don’t forget to check out
the great program I mentioned How To Talk Dirty Without Feeling Stupid ]

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15 responses to “The Hottest Thing You Can Say To Your Man”

  1. EM says:

    I looove your website and your advice! and as soon as I get some money I would get all of your courses….they’re all amazing!

    if any of them are free I would like to know so I can start working 😉 Keep the good work guys don’t you ever stop existing.

    I love you!

  2. Betty says:


    They also like to hear you say “I’m cumming!” – – – – I am 30 yrs. older than MY Man. One of the reasons that I hooked him in the first place was – – he said that he had finally found a woman as sexual as he was. – – – – I do most of the things that you talk about Jay. I LOVE sex, any part of sex, and I can’t ever have enough of My Man! HE IS SO HOT!!!!! I am constantly thinking of ways to seduce him, make him horney, etc.

    Recently we were at the bus station downtown and I wanted him so bad. I drove to some abandoned warehouses over by the train station and told him to take his pants off. I was out of the truck and had my pants off before he could even get out of the truck. It was 4 in the afternoon so he could see everything. I bent over the seat and got the best F___ I’d had in a while! It was so exciting! After I got back in the truck, he said, “you are one crazy lady!” – – – – But that’s what keeps him so interested.

    I love My Man and will do whatever it takes to please him, because he is so fantastic at pleasing me.

    – – – Keep up the info Jay. I love reading it. Thanks, Betty

    • Archer says:


      Take note, ladies. A textbook example of a hot spontaneous, quickly.
      Congrats Betty. Sounds like you have a great love life and a very
      lucky man.

      Thanks for the great comment. I actually got hot just reading it!


  3. Beth says:

    Ha!! NICE. Looks like I’ve been getting an “A” on this end!

    Sometimes I feel stupid saying those things but they just naturally come out! It’s like I get a turn on from it too!

    The only complaint I have is my recent ex-relationship. He was DEAD silent the whole time when I am very much the opposite. I knew he was enjoying himself, but come on now! A little would have been nice!

    I came from a long term relationship of quite the opposite, and after awhile it made me feel bored and didn’t want to try to go out of the way anymore. Maybe we could get a topic on that line of words?

    Thanks for the info!


    • Archer says:


      “those things but they just naturally come out! It’s like I get a turn on from it too!” = BINGO! You got it!
      Not only does it turn him on BUT you too.

      I agree – silence sucks. Not fun and no feedback for you.

  4. Gail says:

    This is very helpful!! Thanks!

  5. fiona says:

    Hey when I usally compliment a man like “your so hot want you inside me, your so big, sexy, amazing”
    whatever they usally gt really cocky and begin to think they’re too good for me leads to relationship decline

  6. Passion says:

    If your sexual confidence is low, try whispering it to begin with. Your confidence will grow with his reactions to your wild actions!

  7. clara says:

    wow..thanks for the tip!! l have an idea now…am totaly blank when my man asks me to talk dirty….love it!!

  8. angel says:

    thanks for the tips.. i already do some of this stuff and it totally turns him on . but he is rather silent during our love making and sometimes i dont know if I’m doing the right thing.

    what can i say to make him speak out?

    • Archer says:


      Be direct!

      Men respond to direct UNLESS you are being critical of their sex skills – it hurts our fragile male egos.

      Ask him open ended questions to get him verbalizing and give him permission to be verbal.

      J Archer

  9. jamie says:

    I’ll admit before I was sexually confident I was the mute.

    OMG sex is so much better with dirty talk. I’ve found making noises such as “hmmmm” while giving an awesome bj, then innocently looking up at him and purring “do you like it baby? I do!”

    and during sex my favorite while on top is “i love riding your c..k” that usually does it for him so I save it for times I want to finish together!

    • Archer says:

      Very hot! Good job on all points.

      See how just making sounds and a little dirty talk can raise the sexual bar?


  10. Maya says:

    Jay, i love your website and alll of your great sex tips….

    i love sex aswelll……..and luckily my man is just as sexual as i am….we both love it and have sex more often than usual……but thats not my problem…..

    im 20 years old, and me and my man have been together for almost 5 years now….and we just got engaged. the only thing im worried about is if our sex life gets boring later on in life like after we’re married…kids….etc

    although our sex life is verry interesting right now…im still trying to surprise him with sex toys or role playing…and hes always telling me how he loves the freaky side of me….

    think you could help me out of some more ways of pleasing my man and keeping everything exciting before we get married???

  11. su says:

    Thanks to you. I did let my love know that I enjoy it most when he is inside me. You know what happen. He ejaculated inside me as he could not control. How do I stop him from ejaculating too fast – he tried to control for 5 mins – 5 mins is too fast for me – I want him to be longer inside me as I feel great that we are one piece.

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