Romantic Mood Killers For Men
February 23, 2010 by A_man
Don’t want to be the one to kill the romantic mood?
Most women know how to get a man going but do you know that there are some little things that you do that can be a real romantic mood killer. It doesn’t matter whether you are just dating or in a serious relationship if you do these things you are essentially turning him off.
When asked about romantic mood killers the top answer from most men was:
1. When she wants to have a “talk”
Yep, that’s it. We’re all ready for a nice romantic evening. We have it all planned out in our minds. The nice dinner (just to help put you in the mood), the bubble bath, the sexy lingerie, the new handcuffs, yes it’s all planned out and we can’t wait and then you says those four little words: “Can we talk?” and our fragile male world crumbles.
The romantic mood – gone, the anticipation of a night of pure indulgent sex – gone. Why do you have to do it? Do you even realize that you are?
When you say “let’s talk”, it’s as if you have just dropped a brick right into our crotch. Yes it’s painful.
Come on we’re planning to have a nice romantic evening why do you have to spoil it by wanting to TALK. When women say TALK it’s never about something trivial and nice and nine times out of ten it’s the serious talk when you want to know about getting married or having children. We really don’t want to talk about those things on a romantic night. When we do you will be the first to know believe me.
SECRET : Here’s the truth about men – we don’t want to THINK about love or how we feel OR use our memory to recall how you or we were feeling at a certain place at a specific moment. Gaaaaa!
Men communicate through physical actions. Being intimate with a woman is the secret to how men tap into their deepest emotions – allowing themselves to really feel – and really CONNECT with YOU! Sad but true. Sorry ladies. But that’s the way it is.
If you want to ‘have the talk’ I suggest you keep it light and talk about what you plan on doing to him later on and what he can do back to you. I guarantee you won’t spoil the mood and you will have the best romantic night ever.
2. Running to the bathroom to ‘clean up’
When you rush away to clean up any stickiness or sweat – you’re sending the message “Yuk, boy germs!” which sends him straight back to grade school.
After lovin’ – don’t panic , it won’t leave a stain just give it a few minutes and enjoy being next to him. Heck – snuggle next to him and let him enjoy his own sticky mess! With luck he’ll ask you to go clean up – LOL!
Until next time,
Less talk – more inter-action
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