4 Tips To End Sexual Boredom

Yaaawn. Bedroom boredom

If you have been with your partner for a while (let’s say years) then there is bound to come a stage where both of you are going to get bored.  You might not mention it to one another but believe me if you have been doing the same position every time for the past year or so then your partner is bored stupid.

The fact of the matter is that sex should be exciting and passionate and there is nothing exciting or passionate about constantly doing the military position and not even attempting to try anything else.  Couples can get lazy.  You find a comfortable sex position that you enjoy and that brings you to orgasm and that’s it.  Every other position goes out the window and you don’t even want to try it.  Don’t get me started on this ladies.  The point is you need to spice up your sex life because if you are not both enjoying it what’s the point.

What I have devised for you is 4 great tips on how to break the sexual boredom, routine, rut or whatever you want to call it.  These tips come from real men and there are the results of my latest survey.

Tip #1:  Have Sex More Often

This was the top answer amongst the men I surveyed.  It seems like after the honeymoon period most men are lucky if they get to have sex once a week.  This just won’t do, come on, sex once a week, that is just ridiculous.  When you start seeing someone you are probably have sex once a day if not more so why is it that when you get comfortable you take away this pleasure.  I have a question for you ladies – do you not enjoy sex after the initial first couple of months with someone?

Tip #2:  Have Sex At Different Times

If you only ever have sex when you go to bed at night then you will at some stage get bored.  Why not try having sex first thing in the morning.  Most men myself included love having sex first thing in the morning.  It is a great start to the day.  A quickie at lunch time, when the dinner is being prepared or whenever you can fit it in is a sure fire way to remove any boredom.  Why not try grabbing your partner when he comes home from work and trying this out.  I guarantee any boredom will soon be removed.

Tip #3:  Use More Sex Positions

There are so many different sex positions to try and yet most of the women I know tend to find one they like and stick with it  Boring…..Here’s a challenge for you.  For an entire month you are not allowed to use your normal sexual position.  Are you up for the challenge?  Do you think you will be able to do it?  I guarantee that if you take up this challenge you will find some really great positions and if there was any boredom or routine in your sex life it will have vanished by the end of the month and your relationship will be so much better too.

Tip #4:  More Oral Sex

Oral sex is an important part of sex for both men and women but often when a relationship reaches the comfortable stage the oral sex takes a back seat.  Why is this?  I have heard women say things like, “I only gave you a blowjob because I was trying to impress you.” Or “That was when we first met.”  Is there a rule that says you only give blowjobs when you first start having sex with your partner and then you can stop?  I don’t think so.  What is wrong with oral sex?  You enjoy it don’t you?

If you have reached a plateau in your sexual life and you find that you are stuck in a routine then it is up to you to change it.  You can see from the survey results what men want more of so why not take the initiative and put some of these tips into action.  You’ll be surprised how quickly that boredom will fade.

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A Man’s Favourite Sexual Surprise Ambush Revealed

Have you ever really wanted to turn your partner on by surprising him but then didn’t because you weren’t sure exactly what to do? If so then I urge you to keep reading as I reveal the top four ways that you can ambush your partner with a sexual surprise.

This post includes statistics so you don’t just have my word for it you have the word of all the men that were surveyed too.

So not to keep you waiting here is the number one way that you can turn us on and surprise us with your sexual treats.

#1 Voted top by 43% of men was first thing in the morning in bed. Yes this gets top votes and is my favourite too. There is nothing nicer than being woken up in bed by a really rock solid hardon that has been caused by my partner massaging me out of my sleep. Talk about waking up ready for action this is definitely a sure winner. Ladies if you are looking for the best way to surprise me then this is definitely it and if you want to take it a step further and really wake me up with a smile how about using your precious lips to wake me up and yes I do mean down there.

If you’re not a morning person then maybe number 2 will be for you….but I do strongly urge you to give number one a go you won’t regret it.

#2 Number 2 on the list is in the shower. This got 25% of the votes and yes this is a wonderful surprise too. If your partner is in the shower why not sneak up on him whip your clothes off and jump into the shower and surprise him with some wet slippery action. Yes nothing better than getting all soapy together.

#3 was very close and this one got 23% of the votes and it is at the door when he gets home. Yes as soon as he comes through that door just tell him what you have planned. Maybe even start taking his clothes off for him as he comes in the door or better still greet him naked or wearing some sexy lingerie. If he’s had a bad day he will love you for this.

#4 Last but not least on this list with 11% of the votes was in the car. I have to say this is a real turn on. You can just stretch your hand across and rub his groin whilst he is driving and this is sure to get him going. One word of advice though, be sure to stop the car before you start doing anything else and be careful where you park too you don’t want to get caught like the Hugh Grant now do you. Being groped in the car really is a big turn on for most men but unfortunately with the law the way it is we don’t always get what we want. But it still gets the votes so don’t rule it out.

So ladies there you have it some great ways to plan a sexual surprise ambush for your man. There are four ways listed here so you have four ways to have a lot of fun and really treat your man and let’s face it we deserve it because we are always treating you. Isn’t it time you gave some back.

Until next time,

Start ambushing

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