A Great Foreplay Tip That Any Woman Can Use

I get a lot of emails from women who complain that more foreplay tips and foreplay techniques just don’t work for them.  They complain saying that the foreplay ideas that are mentioned on most websites are just not for them.  One of the most common questions that I get asked in emails is:

“What are some foreplay tips that an average ordinary woman can use on her man?”

So for all you average ordinary women out there this post is for you.  I have to ask though, what is an ordinary average woman anyway?  What makes a woman ordinary and average?  To me when I get these emails what these women are really saying is that they are women who are not confident with their bodies and not overly confident when it comes to sex either.  Why?  What’s wrong with your body or with enjoying sex for that matter?

From a man’s point of view, we just don’t get this.  If we are with you and having sex with you then we love and enjoy your body and let’s face it if we’re having sex and we’ve seen you naked what the hell have you got to be embarrassed about?

I guess this is something that us men will never understand but in order to answer your questions below is a great foreplay tip that even the shyest of women can use.

All you need for this foreplay tip is your partner and a couch or chair.  You won’t have to do a striptease or be naked for this one I promise……well not initially anyway.

So here goes.

With your partner sitting on the couch or chair all you have to do is move in close to him, or sit on his knee if you want and very slowly and lightly I want you to begin kissing his face.  Make your lips as wet as possible and kiss every part of his face except his lips.  Don’t kiss his lips even if he tries to kiss yours I want you to pull away and just keep kissing his face, his neck, his ears…..just not the lips.  You can then slowly start to move down his body slowly though you don’t want to rush things.  You can start by kissing his neck and moving down his chest.  You can even use your tongue to circle his nipples (men’s nipples are sensitive too and yes we enjoy have them kissed and sucked).  If you are enjoying yourself let us know too and a few subtle moans can really help things along.

Remember slow is the key to these foreplay tips and foreplay techniques.  Once you have kissed you want down as far as his stomach you can start moving up again until you reach his face.  This is a real killer by the way but it works really well and by the time you get back down to his stomach again he is bound to grab you and drag you down onto the couch so be prepared.  There is only so much foreplay that us guys can handle you know.

Foreplay ideas don’t have to be raunchy and this foreplay tip is one that every woman can use.  You don’t have to strip naked to start….that comes later.

I mean come on now ladies can I really make things any simpler for you.  Kissing…that’s really all there is to it and of course the fact that he knows you want him.  Once a man knows that you want him and that you are enjoying yourself that’s enough to get any of us going.

Once you get comfortable with this you can move on to the striptease and naked house cleaning if you like.

Before I wrap up on this one I really do just want to say again……men are not focusing on the parts of your body that you don’t like…..we probably can’t even see them…….you are the one who is criticizing your own body and if you just stopped doing this and had more confidence in yourself your sex life would be a million times better.  Start loving your body and I guarantee you will be able to have the best sex ever.

Until next time,

Get Kissing

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Are You In Kneed Of Some Foreplay Tips?

If you think that it’s just you women who need foreplay then let me set the record straight.  Men enjoy foreplay too you know and coming from a man I can tell you that there is nothing nicer every now and then than a woman taking the initiative and controlling the sex situation.  This post today is going to give you ladies some foreplay tips and techniques that you can use.

Most women assume that us men get turned on at just the idea of sex and yes 99% of the time you are right but sometimes it really is nice to have you turn us on too and I don’t mean that you have to do a lap dance, mind you the idea of this is rather exciting too…..but I’m getting a little off track here.  What I want to take about today is some foreplay techniques that even the shyest of women can.

I’m going to call this foreplay tip the Kneeding – as in needing some foreplay and using your knees.  Get it!

So let’s get to it:

Foreplay ideas can be a simple as you like but for this one I want to take things slow, get things going, and show you just how easy it is for a woman to induce one hell of a hard on and ladies you don’t have to take your clothes off, wear stockings, of pull out your vibrator, but if you want to then that’s fine too.

With Kneeding (this is what I am going to refer to this foreplay tip as) all you need is a chair, sofa, whatever as long as you can both sit down.

I suggest waiting for a time when your male counterpart will be least suspecting so try this when he is watching TV or just chilling out on the sofa.  This way you will know my technique works.  What I want you to do is go into the room where he is and just sit very casually on his knee with your arm around his neck.  If he asks what you are doing just say oh nothing just thought you might fancy some playtime.  Watch his reaction, I guarantee you he will give you his full attention.

Next start gently but slowly grinding against his crotch with your ass and watch the smile spread across his face.  You can start kissing his neck too if you like because us men really do love the sensation of having our necks kissed too It’s not all about our Peter you know.

Once you have my (sorry I mean his) attention you can start getting more aggressive with your grinding especially once you feel his hardon starting to bulge in his trousers.  It won’t take long but stay with it and keep things as slow as possible.  If he starts to get anxious you can just whisper softly in his ear and tell him to relax and enjoy himself.  This will really turn him on.  Telling him what you plan on doing and how naughty you are going to be is a great turn on too one of the best foreplay ideas I could give you.  Us men love visuals and if you tell us what to expect…..well you don’t need me to tell just try it and see.

You might want to get on your knees at this stage and start working on his now really bulging hardon at this point but make sure you do it through his pants…you don’t want to rush things.  Start grabbing and massaging his hardon with your hands and remember to keep up the grinding action too.  You should of course be feeling very turned on yourself now at this stage but resist the urge to rip your clothes of just yet.  Maybe removing your top so that you man can get in on the action by playing with your boobs but keep the bottom half covered until you are sure that he is fully hard.  You’ll know when because we can’t stand to have a full hardon trapped in your pants.

When he starts squirming and getting uncomfortable then you can unzip his pants and slowly let his crushed and throbbing Peter out to play.  You really do need to make a big deal out of this part and be sure to take your time when releasing him.  A few ummm noises wouldn’t hurt either as you place your hand around his throbbing member.  Remember for men it’s all about audio and visual.

So by now you are both probably dying to get down to it and if you are both ready then by all means just go for it.  Don’t under any circumstance stop things so that you can go upstairs, stay right where you are.  Some women can work wonders with foreplay but then stop everything while they move the action upstairs.  If you are one of these then I need to let you in on a little secret – STOP doing this because you are ruining the pleasure, we don’t want to stop, we don’t want to move rooms to have sex, if you are going to start things on the sofa, then finish them there too.

As far as foreplay tips go, us men really don’t mind what you do once you make the effort and you instigate things.  Having a woman start playing with us and instigating things when it comes to sex is one of the biggest turn ons ever and you don’t even have to take your clothes off to do this, well not at the beginning anyway.

Well that’s it for my Kneeding foreplay tip but don’t worry I’ll be back with a hell of a lot more and next time I’m going to tell you what the best sex position is and how you can have better sex with your man.

Until then,

Get Kneeding Ladies

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