The Number 1 Way To Boost Your Sex Life

When couples are together a while the first thing that seems to slip is the sex life and believe me I know.  Some couples have children and so a decrease in sex is probably something to be expected but sometimes sex just seems to take a back seat after a while regardless of whether or not children are involved.

In a survey a number of men were asked “What’s the 1 thing that would boost your sex life?”

Here are the results:

According to 30% of men having sex more frequently would work.
29% a very close second claimed that breaking the routine and having sec at different times and in different places would help.
20% of men wanted to try new positions.
19% wanted to have more oral sex.

All of these items would in fact improve your sex life but if I had to pick the number one way then I would definitely have to agree with the 30% of men who said having sex more frequently.

Do you remember back to when you first started seeing your partner?  Sex was a major thing.  You went to bed for sex.  You woke up in the middle of the night for sex.  You had sex in the morning.  You had sex….

Do you remember the different positions you tried out?  The ice cream antics, the neighbours banging on the wall, the laughter as you both fell out of bed in the throws of passion and of course the amazing sex.

If you can think back to that and then look at the way your sex life is now I’m sure you will notice some differences.  You see the things is that women seem to get comfortable, they find a sexual position that they enjoy and they just stick to it.  It’s as if sex becomes regimented and scheduled and to be quite honest with you this is not the way it should be.  Men don’t get comfortable not in the way women do. We don’t just pick a position we like and stick to it we love trying out new ones.  We love spontaneous sex, we love quickies, and if anything all we want is to keep sex as fun and exciting as it once was.

Is having sex more frequently a big deal?  I don’t think so.  Do we have to schedule it with you? We shouldn’t.

If you want to spice things up in your relationship then why not try doing some of these things.  When was the last time you tried a different position or had sex outside the bedroom? When was the last time you gave your partner a blowjob?  If you can’t answer these questions straight off then you need to do some serious work on your partner.  It’s time to break out the baby oil, send the kids to a family member and re-christen the rooms in your home all over again.

Sex is important and if you want to have great sex with your partner then first and foremost you need to have sex.  I will leave you with this – start remembering what it was like and start doing it again.

Until next time,

Have plenty of sex

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