4 Tips To End Sexual Boredom

Yaaawn. Bedroom boredom

If you have been with your partner for a while (let’s say years) then there is bound to come a stage where both of you are going to get bored.  You might not mention it to one another but believe me if you have been doing the same position every time for the past year or so then your partner is bored stupid.

The fact of the matter is that sex should be exciting and passionate and there is nothing exciting or passionate about constantly doing the military position and not even attempting to try anything else.  Couples can get lazy.  You find a comfortable sex position that you enjoy and that brings you to orgasm and that’s it.  Every other position goes out the window and you don’t even want to try it.  Don’t get me started on this ladies.  The point is you need to spice up your sex life because if you are not both enjoying it what’s the point.

What I have devised for you is 4 great tips on how to break the sexual boredom, routine, rut or whatever you want to call it.  These tips come from real men and there are the results of my latest survey.

Tip #1:  Have Sex More Often

This was the top answer amongst the men I surveyed.  It seems like after the honeymoon period most men are lucky if they get to have sex once a week.  This just won’t do, come on, sex once a week, that is just ridiculous.  When you start seeing someone you are probably have sex once a day if not more so why is it that when you get comfortable you take away this pleasure.  I have a question for you ladies – do you not enjoy sex after the initial first couple of months with someone?

Tip #2:  Have Sex At Different Times

If you only ever have sex when you go to bed at night then you will at some stage get bored.  Why not try having sex first thing in the morning.  Most men myself included love having sex first thing in the morning.  It is a great start to the day.  A quickie at lunch time, when the dinner is being prepared or whenever you can fit it in is a sure fire way to remove any boredom.  Why not try grabbing your partner when he comes home from work and trying this out.  I guarantee any boredom will soon be removed.

Tip #3:  Use More Sex Positions

There are so many different sex positions to try and yet most of the women I know tend to find one they like and stick with it  Boring…..Here’s a challenge for you.  For an entire month you are not allowed to use your normal sexual position.  Are you up for the challenge?  Do you think you will be able to do it?  I guarantee that if you take up this challenge you will find some really great positions and if there was any boredom or routine in your sex life it will have vanished by the end of the month and your relationship will be so much better too.

Tip #4:  More Oral Sex

Oral sex is an important part of sex for both men and women but often when a relationship reaches the comfortable stage the oral sex takes a back seat.  Why is this?  I have heard women say things like, “I only gave you a blowjob because I was trying to impress you.” Or “That was when we first met.”  Is there a rule that says you only give blowjobs when you first start having sex with your partner and then you can stop?  I don’t think so.  What is wrong with oral sex?  You enjoy it don’t you?

If you have reached a plateau in your sexual life and you find that you are stuck in a routine then it is up to you to change it.  You can see from the survey results what men want more of so why not take the initiative and put some of these tips into action.  You’ll be surprised how quickly that boredom will fade.

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