Super Sexy Secrets for Hot Exotic Dances

exotic dance, pleasing your man, sexuality, strip for your man, strip teaseIf you have always wanted to be one of those women who can make a man burn with lust with the perfect exotic dance, then welcome to your one stop shop for information that gets down and dirty with the bump and grind!

Ready to play?  Keep reading!

If you are ready to bring out your inner sex goddess with some spicy dance steps to light a fire under your  man, then gather up your confidence and get ready to step off high heel deep into sexy.  Of course, there are a few first steps that you will need to know to add erotic spice to your exotic dances.  Some of mistresses of the solo tango suggest such things as:

  • Music Muse: Find music that makes you feel too sexy for your panties.  Test your exotic dance moves out in front of a mirror to the sounds of your favorite music to mentally masturbate and show your stuff.  This will help you feel stronger later because you will have previewed the show.
  • Ease, Not Freeze: In an effort to be sexy during their exotic dance, some women feel the need to wear stilettos or fancy lingerie they do not usually wear.  Using clothing that can easily be slipped off to reveal some skin and shoes that are stable is essential.  Last thing you want to do is have a wardrobe malfunction during your big moment on dancing for your man!
  • Set Your Stage: Most women forget that a man will watch their exotic dance show with fascination and appreciation for the effort.  So, bring props like a scarf to tie his hands or get creative with body paints.  Do not feel like you are stuck in one place taking off layer after layer of clothing.  Add some additional interaction by giving him some dollar bills to tuck into your cleavage during the exotic dance.
  • Slow and Steady: If you feel uncomfortable being the focus of his amorous attentions at first, then you might feel the need to hurry through your exotic dance.  Remember, the best part of any exotic dance is the power of performance to slowly promise with your actions and tease with your movements.  So, even though you might feel the need to flee, fake it until you make it and focus on how good you body feels moving to the music.
  • Assume a Fake Identity: Some of the fun of an exotic dance is being who you please and expressing your sexuality for the enticement of your man!  Get in the game and make up a name for yourself…if it turns you on.  Wear a mask to preserve the mystery and give yourself a boost of confidence for that exotic dance that you did not learn in ballet class!

From the first woman to sway out on the stage with rhythm in her hips and an invitation to play on her mind, one thing has stayed the same.  Exotic dance previews the sexual antics and melody of moves his women employees to entice him into her sensual web of seduction.  In truth, there is no such thing as the perfect passionate performance.  But, letting yourself go to enjoy the movements and pleasure of exotic dance for your man will quickly light his fire as well as your own!

[ Jay Archer : Have any exotic dance tips or tricks of your
own that you use to light up your man on a cold winter
night?  Share your favorite experiences with us, below. ]

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24 responses to “Super Sexy Secrets for Hot Exotic Dances”

  1. simon says:

    yes i want sex lap dance

  2. simon says:

    i want sex clips

  3. Barbara says:

    I personally have found that while a mirror is good, a video of yourself is better. Set your camera up dance your ass off then watch it and make adjustments as necessary. You probably really don’t need any adjustments, trust me… no matter how silly you think you look, he thinks you’re scorching HOT!!

  4. Em says:

    Great tips, as always! loved them!

  5. jamie says:

    a good swivel of the hips grinding on his lap with a stand and bend is fantastic…here’s words right from my man’s mouth. take it away babe…when Jamie gives me a lap dance, she always knows just how…and when, to grind her ass into my crotch. She usually does my lap dances to “Pussy Control” by Prince, and the combination of her moves and his words will usually have me “right there” by the end of the song!

    • Archer says:

      Welcome back, Jamie!

      Sounds like your mind is one happy guy and, in his words, you’ve got him in the palm of your hand

  6. Jesimika says:

    This site has done wonders for me. Great tips as always. After I give my man a nice lap dance with his hands tied, i like to slowly slip/massage my way down to undo his pants all the while still grinding my hips (something bellydancing is a great resource for) and giving him a dance/blow job makes it so he can’t stand it anymore and throws me on the bed. Best sex ever!!

    • Archer says:

      Jesimika, “best sex ever” – thanks for sharing your experiences. I’m glad to learn the tips are working for you two.

  7. Jamie says:

    Glad to be back Archer! Yes, my man is very happy…and yes in the palm of my hand and my fav place, roof of my mouth…He is one lucky guy.

    • Archer says:

      You’re right, Jamie. You have one lucky guy.

      I always enjoy your comments, tip and feedback and sure the ladies do too. Keep it up, OK?

      Missed You

      • Jamie says:

        Sure thing. I got “caught up” in life and forgot about you guys. However, I’m back and will stick around this time…promise! Should you ever decide you want my “help” with anything, feel free to drop me an email. I’d be more than happy to oblige.

  8. Katt says:

    While i was reading this article i was imagining
    Doing this all this to my man! Great article! Really helpful, ill put it in practice 

  9. Jello says:

    what if you can’t move your hips at all? I try and my whole body moves. And how do i get more comfortable with dancing.

  10. Julie says:

    I love all of the tips & hints that you provide, it all sounds very suductive/naughty. There is 1 problem I have, when it comes down to being able to actually doing it. I don’t know if I can really be that naughty girl. I never had a mother or a sister figure in my life to show/teach me how to be sexy & beautiful. Also, I become very shy when it comes to telling my man how or what I like in bed. Please help I really want to bring out the inner sex goddess that all women have in them. I think mine is broke. 🙁

  11. Jade says:


    I took an exotic dance class when my husband decided to stray and at that time I was ok but not too confident about myself sexually. Anyway,not that this has anything to do with you; however, the class made me feel comfortable with the naughty/freaky side of me and it made me come into my own. I am sure some men help in the confidence dept. but I still felt insecure about myself and wanted to scream.
    I was in shock as I drove to each class and I am sorry that it took a horrible time in my marriage to actually push me to open up. Now I go to the adult stores, have sex parties, and think I’ve become the horn bag I truly am and yes I am working on my marriage but the sex has improved. Because of me! Trust yourself and you’ll be fine! Have a drink and practice!

  12. Jade says:

    Thank you I hope it really helps! As for the sex parties as adventurous as it sounds, I am not that open.

    I meant we have ladies night and we discuss all kinds of naughty toys to buy that will add, keep it interesting, and exciting.

    So you really do not have to go to the stores if you are that shy about it and it’s great!

  13. RatherNotSay says:

    You know, I read and read, and I love and try the ideas, but my husband and I started having problems, and he refuses any intimacy. Many, many, many excuses! No reason, or proof for any accusations from me. I am a VERY sensual, and sexually willing. I’m DYING for intamacy in my marriage. I’ve done everything….sadly including begging. I’ve even bargained for 1 every other week have sex and play at least 2 times a week. I read these things and get SO frustrated because my husband just will NOT!!!! I’ve offered lap dances, I’m love oral, so trust me when I say, I’ve done (or at least tried), I’ve even tried “killing him with kindness.” I don’t want to leave my marriage for lack of sex, but I am 24 with an enormous sex drive, and I need some advice on getting someone who swears he has ZERO sex drive interested. At first I thought it was me, and lost confidence. Well my confidence is back, and the urge to give it to someone that actually wants it is intensifying. HELP! What do I do? Get him back into sex! Or Igo

  14. Nikoleta says:

    I am 43 and did my first lap dance for my boyfriend about 2 weeks ago. We had lots of fun. I was really scared when I started. Shaking honestly, but as I focused on the music, I loosened up. He said he never had a personal lap dance and loved it. I put 4 songs on a CD. During the first song I got dressed (in another room) and mentally prepared.

    Oh and if you have him wait while you dress, practice getting dressed first. Trying to figure out what goes where just causes more tension.

    I danced during the second song. The third one I undressed him and on the fourth one he undressed me. It was really great. He want to know when we will do it again. Thanks for the inspiration to give an exotic lap dance.

    • Jay Archer says:

      Nikoleta, you are an inspiration to everyone on this site. Congrats!

      I’m so happy your exotic dance was such a success. Aren’t you glad you learned how to give a lap dance? OR maybe your man is the one who should be glad.

      The next time you give a lap dance it’s going to be 2x as hot. I promise!

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