Motivate Him To Marry

On July 22, 2011, in Understanding Men, by Jay Archer

Love is supposed to be so simple and easy, you meet a really handsome man, the lightening bolt hits and you fall head over heels in love with each other. Wedding bells ring and you both live happily ever after. If love is so easy, then why are men taking longer and longer before proposing [...]

He Has Lost Interest In Me

On April 22, 2011, in Understanding Men, by Rina

Q: What do I do if he seems to have lost interest in me?

A:

If it’s a fairly long term relationship (past the honeymoon phase) figure out what you used to do when you first met, when there was a spark, because what you were doing then worked. Remember ….

Why Do Men Marry?

On October 6, 2010, in Understanding Men, by Jay Archer

This is a brief story of the marriage advice I received from a wise man…

When I was in my early 20′s I had a girlfriend who was 10 years my senior. ( A man in his physical prime and a woman in her sexual prime. It was hot, to say the least )

One day she abruptly called it off and I took it pretty hard.

Man Code for Not Interested

On September 14, 2010, in Understanding Men, by Jay Archer

Q: I appreciate the courage it takes for men to make advances and i do enjoy the ego boost but is there some ‘man code’ I can use on a guy that will clearly get the message across… “Thanks for the compliment, but no thanks. I’m not interested” So men understand that ‘No’ really does [...]

“Do you like my dress?”

On July 29, 2010, in Understanding Men, by Erotic-Jerk

Hi, let me introduce myself. I’m a man who loves being a man and lover of women. But more than 1 woman has called me a ‘jerk’ because I call ‘em like I see ‘em and sometimes it isn’t what women want to hear. I’m sorry. Actually, I’m not. You can call me a JERK [...]

Everything Men Know About Women

On July 23, 2010, in Understanding Men, by Jay Archer

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All my husband wants is sex!

On July 21, 2010, in Understanding Men, by Jay Archer

“Help! All my husband wants is sex.” Woa, woa! OK, let’s clarify a few things, shall we? 1) What do you mean by all he wants is sex? He doesn’t want anything else from you? You mean he won’t talk, sit and watch a show, have a meal, entertain, visit with friends or family or [...]

Where have all the men gone?

On July 15, 2010, in Understanding Men, by Jay Archer

Where have all the real men gone? A friend of mine was complaining about how hard it was to meet a decent man these days (not only a good man, just a decent one). After schooling her on some classic dating mistakes (refer to the article ‘Is technology destroying your love life?‘) I found myself [...]

Attract a Man, Be a Lady

On July 8, 2010, in Understanding Men, by Jay Archer

Looking for the article “Where have all the REAL men gone?” Whether you want to attract a man or just be more attractive to your man this tip is for you. When I was in college they showed us a video in psychology class of a boy playing with a ball. When the it was [...]

Is Porn Natural?

On July 7, 2010, in Understanding Men, by Jay Archer

Is Porn Natural or Just a Human Phenomena? A Duke University study revealed that some people’s attraction to porn may not be solely a human thing. In the study, monkeys who were given a choice between their favorite fruit juice and pictures of the behinds of female monkeys…turned down the juice for the pictures. Male [...]

The Joys Of Gagging?

On June 11, 2010, in Understanding Men, by Jay Archer

I often get asked Q: “How do I stop gagging during blow jobs?” Sometimes I reply “Why would you want to?” Let me explain… ‘Gagging’ Definition – when the head of his penis triggers your gag reflex during oral sex – causing one to make the sound ‘gaaaa.’ Ironically, to men gagging is a compliment. [...]

Wax, Trim or Bikini Shave – A Man’s View

On June 7, 2010, in Understanding Men, by Jay Archer

Do men prefer an unshaved or bare kitty? (Actually, I like the nickname ‘bunny’ because…come to think of it, I don’t know why. It must have been something I came up with in a moment of passion. LOL) I can tell you from my personal male experience, there is a moment of sheer terror when [...]

Mars and Venus In The Bedroom – Book Highlights

On June 1, 2010, in Understanding Men, by Jay Archer

by John Gray, PhD If I had to summarize this book – in a nutshell it would be 1. Men and women are different so 2. only when you strive to understand how the other sex is different and either get over your misunderstandings OR work around their ‘being different’ can you achieve a fulfilling [...]

How To Make Your Man Jealous

On May 28, 2010, in Understanding Men, by Jay Archer

It’s no secret that a jealous man will do anything to please you so today’s post is all about how to make your man jealous. A word of caution first for all you ladies that think the only way to make a man jealous is to flirt and be with other men.  This is the [...]

“Men never approach me”

On May 24, 2010, in Alpha Male Answers, Understanding Men, by Jay Archer

“Men never approach me!” she insisted. “It’s your fault!” I replied. Hear me out. A friend of mine is a tall, exotic beauty who is unhappy she’s single and isn’t meeting any men. “Hey! What am I?” I protested? “Taken!” she said. And she’s right but that takes me to my first point. First, I [...]

Act Like a Lady Think Like a Man – Book Summary

On April 28, 2010, in Understanding Men, by Jay Archer

It’s hard not to like Steve Harvey – he’s a funny comedian, an alpha male and gives bang on advice to women. OK I’m going to do my best to summarize the ideas in Steve Harvey’s Act Like a Lady Think Like A Man in as few words possible. BOOK SUMMARY What drives men? To [...]

Why Men Stop Wanting Sex

On April 15, 2010, in Understanding Men, by Jay Archer

There are numerous reasons couples stop having sex. One of the big reasons is either the man stops initiating sex OR the woman initiates too much. What the *^%# you say? Yes, you read that correctly -  “when the woman initiates sex too much.” There’s no secret I’m a big advocate of women initiating sex [...]

Understanding Men Books

On April 9, 2010, in Understanding Men, by A_man

There are a lot of women out there who turn to books when it comes to satisfying their men and I thought that it was about time that I had a look at these books to see if they really were worth reading or just more hype to get you to part with your money. [...]

How You Can Get Away With Anything

On March 30, 2010, in Understanding Men, by Jay Archer

…  OR the key to understanding men Last time I told you the story of Chris and Kim’s and  “How to Reject a Man…The Wrong way” UPDATE: Chris begged to take me for drinks and get my advice. I won’t bore you with the details but it turns out she is still actively playing the [...]