Is Your Man an Insensitive Jerk? Understanding Your Man’s Emotions and the Doghouse

Is Your Man an Insensitive Jerk? Understanding Your Man’s Emotions and the Doghouse

My wife was telling me about her recent visit to the doctor and about the test results for her recent health challenges. I could see her hands shaking, eyes tearing up and her voice began to waver. I felt a rush of emotion that tripped the mental alarm in my head, “Oh boy! Steady, Jay. Keep it together, buddy. Stay calm.” You see, that’s what’s […]

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The Biggest Reason Men LIE?

The Biggest Reason Men LIE?

If you’re like most women you’ve probably been lied to by a man . . .

Actually, I can pretty much guarantee it, because the simple fact is, men lie to women all the time . . .

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Motivate Him To Marry

Love is supposed to be so simple and easy, you meet a really handsome man, the lightening bolt hits and you fall head over heels in love with each other. Wedding bells ring and you both live happily ever after. If love is so easy, then why are men taking longer and longer before proposing marriage to a woman they love? Why do most men […]

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He Has Lost Interest In Me

Q: What do I do if he seems to have lost interest in me?


If it’s a fairly long term relationship (past the honeymoon phase) figure out what you used to do when you first met, when there was a spark, because what you were doing then worked. Remember ….

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Why Do Men Marry?

Why Do Men Marry?

This is a brief story of the marriage advice I received from a wise man…

When I was in my early 20’s I had a girlfriend who was 10 years my senior. ( A man in his physical prime and a woman in her sexual prime. It was hot, to say the least )

One day she abruptly called it off and I took it pretty hard.

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Man Code for Not Interested

Q: I appreciate the courage it takes for men to make advances and i do enjoy the ego boost but is there some ‘man code’ I can use on a guy that will clearly get the message across… “Thanks for the compliment, but no thanks. I’m not interested” So men understand that ‘No’ really does mean No…NOT  try harder, stupid? mAnswer: The hardest thing for […]

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“Do you like my dress?”

Hi, let me introduce myself. I’m a man who loves being a man and lover of women. But more than 1 woman has called me a ‘jerk’ because I call ’em like I see ’em and sometimes it isn’t what women want to hear. I’m sorry. Actually, I’m not. You can call me a JERK I don’t really care. A woman asked me… Do you […]

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Everything Men Know About Women

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All my husband wants is sex!

“Help! All my husband wants is sex.” Woa, woa! OK, let’s clarify a few things, shall we? 1) What do you mean by all he wants is sex? He doesn’t want anything else from you? You mean he won’t talk, sit and watch a show, have a meal, entertain, visit with friends or family or read beside you in bed? Do you literally mean he […]

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Where have all the men gone?

Where have all the real men gone? A friend of mine was complaining about how hard it was to meet a decent man these days (not only a good man, just a decent one). After schooling her on some classic dating mistakes (refer to the article ‘Is technology destroying your love life?‘) I found myself empathizing with her. This rant was inspired by all the […]

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Attract a Man, Be a Lady

Looking for the article “Where have all the REAL men gone?” Whether you want to attract a man or just be more attractive to your man this tip is for you. When I was in college they showed us a video in psychology class of a boy playing with a ball. When the it was over the professor asked the class how man had seen […]

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Is Porn Natural?

Is Porn Natural or Just a Human Phenomena? A Duke University study revealed that some people’s attraction to porn may not be solely a human thing. In the study, monkeys who were given a choice between their favorite fruit juice and pictures of the behinds of female monkeys…turned down the juice for the pictures. Male monkeys turn down favorite juice for naughty pictures of female […]

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The Joys Of Gagging?

I often get asked Q: “How do I stop gagging during blow jobs?” Sometimes I reply “Why would you want to?” Let me explain… ‘Gagging’ Definition – when the head of his penis triggers your gag reflex during oral sex – causing one to make the sound ‘gaaaa.’ Ironically, to men gagging is a compliment. Like belching after a meal is a compliment to the […]

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Wax, Trim or Bikini Shave – A Man’s View

Do men prefer an unshaved or bare kitty? (Actually, I like the nickname ‘bunny’ because…come to think of it, I don’t know why. It must have been something I came up with in a moment of passion. LOL) I can tell you from my personal male experience, there is a moment of sheer terror when removing a woman’s panties just thinking about the possibility that […]

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Mars and Venus In The Bedroom – Book Highlights

by John Gray, PhD If I had to summarize this book – in a nutshell it would be 1. Men and women are different so 2. only when you strive to understand how the other sex is different and either get over your misunderstandings OR work around their ‘being different’ can you achieve a fulfilling sex life and loving relationship. With day-to-day life survival taking […]

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How To Make Your Man Jealous

It’s no secret that a jealous man will do anything to please you so today’s post is all about how to make your man jealous. A word of caution first for all you ladies that think the only way to make a man jealous is to flirt and be with other men.  This is the wrong thing to do and if this was your initial […]

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“Men never approach me”

“Men never approach me!” she insisted. “It’s your fault!” I replied. Hear me out. A friend of mine is a tall, exotic beauty who is unhappy she’s single and isn’t meeting any men. “Hey! What am I?” I protested? “Taken!” she said. And she’s right but that takes me to my first point. First, I pointed out that she does meet men just not the […]

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Act Like a Lady Think Like a Man – Book Summary

It’s hard not to like Steve Harvey – he’s a funny comedian, an alpha male and gives bang on advice to women. OK I’m going to do my best to summarize the ideas in Steve Harvey’s Act Like a Lady Think Like A Man in as few words possible. BOOK SUMMARY What drives men? To be a provider. The less he feels like a provider […]

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Why Men Stop Wanting Sex

There are numerous reasons couples stop having sex. One of the big reasons is either the man stops initiating sex OR the woman initiates too much. What the *^%# you say? Yes, you read that correctly –  “when the woman initiates sex too much.” There’s no secret I’m a big advocate of women initiating sex to kick start your love life, mainly because: I’m a […]

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Understanding Men Books

There are a lot of women out there who turn to books when it comes to satisfying their men and I thought that it was about time that I had a look at these books to see if they really were worth reading or just more hype to get you to part with your money. Here are 3 Understanding Men Books that I have reviewed: […]

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How You Can Get Away With Anything

…  OR the key to understanding men Last time I told you the story of Chris and Kim’s and  “How to Reject a Man…The Wrong way” UPDATE: Chris begged to take me for drinks and get my advice. I won’t bore you with the details but it turns out she is still actively playing the field & keeping her options open with an active profile […]

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