He Never Wants Sex!

QUESTION:  What if you’re completely comfortable with your body like few of us women are, BUT  your boyfriend never seems to want sex?

How long should you wait before you jump him? In two months he’s never even tried sliding his hand under my top. He always says stuff like he’s too tired or just drinks so much he passes out. – Carmy

ANSWER:

Carmy, let me get this straight – you’ve only been together for 2 months, you love your body and want to have lots of sex BUT he’s not interested, is that right?

Aaahhh…why are you with this guy?!

No sex?! Might as well spend your time with your good girlfriends or a gay man.

Don’t invest too much time in this guy, OK? Seems to me like your boyfriend is either depressed, stressed or straight-up has a drinking problem.

It’s hard not to take things like this personally – but sometimes it’s not about you. He could have deeper personal issues that you can’t help him with.

One suggestion is to take the lead. Get passionately inspired about your life, work, play, relationships. If he doesn’t follow your lead you may find he doesn’t fit into your life. PLUS the above idea is just a great way to live, isn’t it?

Who knows, your new improved life may help you find that new improved man…who loves passionate sex with you.

My alpha male advice…Get real, get inspired or get rid of him!

Don’t ‘jump him’ – dump him!

And that’s the Alpha Male answer.

[ If a better blow job doesn't get him inspired - nothing will! Check his pulse! How to give a better blow job ]

Alpha Male: Do Men Notice Wrinkles, Bumps & Bulges?

QUESTION:  “Do men even notice these wrinkles, bumps and bulges?” How can an aging woman still come across sexy with a less than perfect body? *sigh*

ANSWER: Ask yourself  ”Do you notice HIS wrinkles, bumps and bulges?”

Oh, you do? Congrats! All systems go…you have eyes and a sense of touch.

Next.

I’ll tell you right now, the ONLY time this will be an issue with 100% of men is when it gets in the way of  having frequent, hot sex.

The more of a big deal your lumps and bumps are to you – there more they will be to him. Period. So make a choice about what you’ll do right now and stick to it.

Do you find yourself attractive? NO? We men don’t want to hear about it. Really! We just want good old fashioned sex. Just do something about it…anything that makes YOU FEEL more attractive….and leave us out of it.

IF your lumps and bumps make YOU feel less attractive you either accept them as part of who you are and stop making excuses and feeling bad about it right now. OR do something about it. Sexy is all in the mind.

Today, we are bombarded by the media with sexy, female images – Combine this with today’s easy access to porn. Admittedly, the bar  has been set very high for women. No wonder female body image is much more of an issue for women. (Men have more of an issue around money)

When men were surveyed about what they appreciate about their lovers body – the respondents happiest in their relationship replied “She takes care of herself.” What these men are really saying is – they really appreciate and find attractive a woman who puts in effort to be more slender, fit and put together than other women in their age group.

That’s the Alpha Male’s answer.

How do men feel about an aging woman’s body?

No Holds Barred, No B.S., Straight Answers from an Alpha Male

QUESTION: How do men feel about an aging woman’s body? Cellulite (even though i work out regularly), a “taken care of body” but not a taute 20 year olds’ and other similar concerns.

ALPHA MALE ANSWER: Men feel the same way about an aging woman’s body as women feel about an aging man’s body. That’s fair, isn’t it?

In general, is a 20 year-old woman’s body more attractive than a 45 year old woman’s? Most men will say ‘Yes.’

Can a woman in her 40’s and beyond have the body of a woman in her 20’s? Not without a little disciple and some effort.

Can a 20 year-0ld woman rival a 45 year-old women in sexual experience and know-how? Probably not.

Can a 20 year-0ld woman rival a 45 year-old women intelligence? Well, a 20 year-old thinks she can but I’m going to go with …NO.

Do most 45 year-old women know what they are attracted to and what they want? Usually – Yes.

In my experience, older women can be extremely sexy.

Why? They know what they want, they don’t play games, are straight-forward about what they want in and out of the bedroom.

Sexually, older woman really have advantages over younger women – they are way better in bed because they are more adventurous, more giving, and because older women generally know how to have orgasms men find being with them more sexually gratifying. TRUST ME!

I’ll tell you right now, the only time YOUR BODY is an issue with men 100% of the time is when it gets in the way of  having frequent, hot sex! Got it?

You wrote that you ‘work-out regularly’ which means you’re putting in effort to look the best you can. That’s what matters to your man.

The big turn-off for both men AND women is when one of the lovers in a relationship gets complacent and ‘lets themself go’ – then complains about it OR lets it effect their sex life.

Men are most concerned with the same thing you are … putting in effort to look the best you can.

As for the cellulite.

Remember the

Honestly,
The Alpha Male

PS I’d love your comments.

PPS —  Part II – Next Week. The Alpha Male answers “Does he notice my lumps and bumps?” and what you need to know…