Alpha Male: Do Men Notice Wrinkles, Bumps & Bulges?
January 26, 2010 by Archer
QUESTION: “Do men even notice these wrinkles, bumps and bulges?” How can an aging woman still come across sexy with a less than perfect body? *sigh*
ANSWER: Ask yourself ”Do you notice HIS wrinkles, bumps and bulges?”
Oh, you do? Congrats! All systems go…you have eyes and a sense of touch.
Next.
I’ll tell you right now, the ONLY time this will be an issue with 100% of men is when it gets in the way of having frequent, hot sex.
The more of a big deal your lumps and bumps are to you – there more they will be to him. Period. So make a choice about what you’ll do right now and stick to it.
Do you find yourself attractive? NO? We men don’t want to hear about it. Really! We just want good old fashioned sex. Just do something about it…anything that makes YOU FEEL more attractive….and leave us out of it.
IF your lumps and bumps make YOU feel less attractive you either accept them as part of who you are and stop making excuses and feeling bad about it right now. OR do something about it. Sexy is all in the mind.
Today, we are bombarded by the media with sexy, female images – Combine this with today’s easy access to porn. Admittedly, the bar has been set very high for women. No wonder female body image is much more of an issue for women. (Men have more of an issue around money)
When men were surveyed about what they appreciate about their lovers body – the respondents happiest in their relationship replied “She takes care of herself.” What these men are really saying is – they really appreciate and find attractive a woman who puts in effort to be more slender, fit and put together than other women in their age group.
That’s the Alpha Male’s answer.
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how will a woman get a man attention and be good on bed?
Stella,
1st – Who’s attention are you trying to get? Is he a guy you know, a boyfriend you are dating or your husband?
Thanks
For me it is my boyfriend who i have been seeing for about 3 years. I think my issue is that i’ve gained weight so I don’t feel sexy, but I don’t think I know what sexy is. When I don’t try to be sexy I get called sexy. When I try, I freeze up and sometimes back down. Its like i’m scared he will see that i’m not good enough. I’m not really over weight, i’m less than 200lbs @ 5′6. Most of my weight is in my hips, thighs and breast. I know I have good assets, but I really don’t know how to use them comfortably. On most of these demos, the women are skinny…no help at all! I don’t think skinny women and thick women can do the same sexual things and still look attractive. What do I do?
Lala,
What do you do?
1) Get over it.
OR
2) Lose the weight.
What other choice do you have? Either love yourself the way you are OR make some changes.