What’s on a Man’s Sexual Mind?

My Buddies and I were discussing why women are hesitant or even afraid to explore new sexual practices with their Man. With great testosterone debate the opinions sparred throughout the room. All kinds of scenarios and activities were thrown around. Blow-jobs, public sex, lap dances, toys, bondage, watching porn, homemade porn, role playing, swinging and the dreaded threesomes. Rather than becoming part of the great debate – I chose to close my eyes and listen. Then I imagined the reactions of some of my close girlfriends. Disgust, laughter, fear, astonishment, excitement, shock, shock, shock!

It then dawned upon me that I don’t think that women have really ever seriously asked themselves…

What do men desire in bed?

The best way to discover what else turns your man on is to catch him off-guard and offer him one of the above mentioned ideas. It won’t really matter what you choose. Think of yourself as a sexual scientist experimenting in the bedromm laboratory (hint: an idea for role playing).

The SPONTANIETY of the moment will instantly turn him on. I must confess that none of  my friends ever bashed any of the sexual suggestions. In fact, they traded them like excited little boys swapping baseball cards. Think back to the early days of your relationship when it was all about being impulsive. The two of you were unfamiliar and you were motivated to find out more about him. You wanted to know why this man was able to make you feel  so good. This very essence still exists in side of you and it wants to grow. I don’t think you would be reading this if it were not the case. If you are having trouble remembering how you were in those romantic days, here’s your clue: The excitement came from one key idea. Everything about the two of you getting together was unpredictable.

TODAY shower him with something he never saw coming. Raise your sexual exploits to experiences the two of you have never tried. Maybe it is a very savouring blow job to start with or a sensual lapdance to start off this new adventure. I promise you this will be fun and you will rediscover why you love this man,

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