One Time Wasn’t Enough To Satisfy?
Sometimes once just isn’t enough for women to enjoy the full pleasure that sex has to offer ie. achieve a female orgasm.
I asked men…
What’s the best way to get a man going for round 2?
The results were quite close for this one so you will have a number of options.
#1 Cuddling?
In first place with 29% of the votes was cuddling!? You could have slapped me in the face and called me a fish. (I have no idea what that means, by the way.) I was shocked to say the least.
I know most women think that men don’t like cuddling but after sex cuddling really can be quite nice and a great way to let your man have a few minutes to recuperate too.
#2 Handle Him
28% of the results was a gentle handjob. This is a great way to get him going again but be sure that you note a “gentle” handjob. Take it really slowly and round 2 action will be on its way.
#3 Deep Kissing
In third place is passionate kissing with 22% of the votes.
I’m not too sure about this one, I personally would start with either cuddling or the gentle handjob and then move on to the passionate kissing.
#4 Hands Off
In fourth place with 21% of the votes was to leave him alone for a few minutes. This can work but don’t leave it too long or you could find that he is snoring away fast asleep and your attempt at round 2 could fade away quite quickly.
My Man Advice…
To be honest if you want to get a man going again for round 2 a great way to do it is to mention it beforehand. A great way to do this is to tell him that you are going to take turns and that you will please him during round 1 and then he has to please you back during round 2.
You can also just ask him what he would like you to do in order to get him going again. Mind you, the mere mention of going again can often be enough because let’s face it, we men love sex and if you are offering it to us twice we are not going to refuse.
You have a couple of different methods to try out here so pick one and give it a go and let me know how you get on. Every single one of these methods will work and if you are really adventurous you could let him snooze for a couple of minutes and then wake him up with a nice blowjob alarm click.
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Trust a man – to give a woman an orgasm is to achieved the ultimate in manhood. Round 2 is one ‘chore’ we are happy to do if it means you’re sexually satisfied.
[ Jay Archer : I'd love to hear your views OR suggestions on this below ]
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In my ( eh!) limited experience, I have found that a man who truly desires to please, will please the woman first, and then relax to focus on himself. And, if he wasn’t able to fully satisfy her first, he will use whatever it takes to please her before he nods off to sleep.
*The cuddling percentage is a bit of shocker!
I never have to ask for a second round or persue him for it.. My bf and I easly go 3 rounds…
same here..my guy can keep going (or coming) and not lose the erection… Sumtimes I think thats wierd. Is it?
How old is he? Does he use Viagra or similar product?
Funny! I was wondering the same thing about round 2 yesterday!!!
I was like, well if I give him an awesome blowjob and he cums, how do I get him to have sex with me afterwards?
I would be afraid to “handle him” though since the guy might think i’m too “pushy” or demanding…..same for talking about going again…so I’ll probably use the other techniques or talk about taking turns beforehand. Again, thanks a lot for the great advice
you’re awesome!
Jay
I have alway found the BEST way to get into round two which is always 100% guaranteed is to…
Get him all worked up… tease him with oyr body, dance, put your tits and ass in his face. Let him smell your woman parts ( i dont know whats acceptable language), then have him go to town on you down there. Sit on his face. I found that once I had an orgasm first, he gets extremely hard and when we finally go to have sex I have two more orgasms almost instantly because of how excited I am.
Men get off on pleasuring their woman. So take advantage of it. Have him pleasure you first and then got to work on each other. It benefits both parties – then you dont need a round two.
I always find that playing with myself in front of him gets him ready for round two. He can’t stand not to be in on the fun
Jennifer, great one. Lets add it to the list.
1. walk around in his favorite panties no bra on
2. come out of the room nude
3. Take my clothes off in front of him
4. place light kisses on his forehead slowly work my way down on him.
Cuddling is great – and a wonderful way to float and relax after a “good rogering”. A bit of frotage (rubbing against his leg) can be quite stimulating, and if one gets carried away it can become animalistic and you are away again before you know what hit you!!!
Toodleypip!
I have to say that I agree with cuddling, deep kissing and the blow job.
I had 4 rounds with my new, ten years younger “friend” the other night.
After 3 years of no sex for me, it was delightful! Looking forward to many more rounds of fun! 50 is a great age to be, especially when you have a 40 year old guy to play with!
Love your site and have enjoyed the topics for about 4 years.
i have a bit of a problem in this area, my husband i are are married for little over a year and we are both really young so our sex drive is pretty high.. yet round 2 is very rare. i am almost never satisfied with the first round and my husband just rolls over to his side and either does to sleep or just leaves. i tired all the above ideas with him but he would just look at me and say something among the lines.. “again?” we have sex often ( i even have a stripper pole in our basement) but i feel like he is just not that into it. what should i do?
Honestly Jay,
I don’t know how you contain yourself with some of these explict post (i.e. Iola ).
Congrats to Mo.
I hope there is some good information to help Rose because one year of marriage is way too soon to rarely receive satisfaction during the first round. Sex can become a challenge during a lengthy marriage, so if it’s not working well right now, there could be problems in the future. Good sex was high on my list of what to look for in a mate. If it’s not good prior to marriage, and it’s a high priority on your list, then it’s best not to marry that person hoping things will change.
Lady B,
I am concerned for this newlywed too. Their sexual relationship needs help!
This caught my attention because I have been having a hard time getting round one…. I love sex and iv been with my man for a while so he knows this… I mentioned it the other day saying our sex has slowed down and I wasn’t happy about it… he said because I want sex everyday it feels like a chore…. really i . thought men loved and wanted sex all the time. Y am I left begging for it… iv tried blow jobs and he literaly gets an attitude because I’m touching him…could this be I’m initiating to much?
Gal, search other articles i’ve written about ‘initiating’
I read all ur articles so iv read ones about when to initiate and all that jazz… I just feel like his coment regarding it as a chore is hurtful and wrong… do men normaly feel this.. when I’m giving just as much how is it a chore..
I was pondering over Gal’s blog about her man. Please understand that I’m no expert, but I think us women folk don’t listen clearly when men tell us what they are feeling or what they mean.
Gal’s man told her what is wrong. He told her it feels like a chore because she constantly urges him to have sex. It probably sounded hurtful because he’s been harboring those feelings for a while, and/or Gal was trying to engage him at a time when he was focused on something else. If he’s engaging in his favorite TV show or resting, he simply may not be in the mood at that moment ; timing may be a factor. Maybe, she can ask “him” what she could do to change this.
Note: It’s a bit like this for couples who are trying to have a baby and “have” to have sex when the woman is ovulating. It becomes a bit of a chore for the man.
Lady B, great observation and suggestion!
I’m sure this is frustrating for Gal. It would be for me.
I recently heard that men’s testosterone levels tend to lower as they age, so they may not always be as frisky as they were in the past.
Ya most men tend to be less frisky over the age 25
honestly, i’ve never known a guy who wouldn’t get frisky if a chick was cuddling with him and rubbing him.
it’s generally only a matter of minutes after. though i would recommend that you not do this when he is occupied with something else he truly enjoys. that can bring on him not really wanting to.
Personally, I think you need a new man, Gal.
I had originally wrote out a long comment about how he should be a man and step up and all these other things… But I decided it was unnecessary and my point should be short.
My fiance and I rarely have sex we’ve been together for 6yrs and its slowed down a lot we try new things all the time but I’m not getting enough I don’t know what to do anymore! Help please
Wear school uniform over bra, panty and stockings, and let him play at molesting you. Erection and intercourse guaranteed.