Do Men Enjoy Phone Sex? Hot Or Not?

If I were to ask you if you thought phone sex was hot what would you say?  To phone sex or not to phone sex that really is the question at hand here and ladies today I want to give you the answer according to men.

A number of men were surveyed and asked if they couldn’t be with their partner would they like phone sex with them.  Here is what the results were:

52% of men said no
48% of men said yes

Now I know that most of you ladies reading this blog are probably shocked by these results and you probably assumed that most men would love the idea of phone sex.  Well yes the idea is great but what you need to remember is that us men really are visual characters….we need to see things…why do you think they give us porn mags when it comes to giving a sperm sample?  We need to be able to see the images, the flesh, the sexy lingerie…the whole lot.  If we can’t see it then you really do need to explain it in detail.

If you are planning on having phone sex with your partner then here are a few pointers that should ensure that all goes well.

Always keep in mind that men are visual creatures.  You ladies may be able to visualise and fantasize easily but for us we do need that visual stimulation.  That is why we prefer to watch porn and you prefer that romance movie.

When you phone your partner for phone sex you need to be really descriptive.  There is no point in saying:

“Hi baby, I’m feeling very horny you want to play?” and then  proceed with something like

“I’m wearing a black bra and panties.”

This is no good.  What type of black bra is it?  What type of panties are you wearing?  Is it a thong?  Is it lace?  Is the bra a half cup or full cup?  Do you see what I am getting at here?  We need details.

A good idea might be to wear a piece of really sexy lingerie that you have already made use of with your partner.  Maybe you will be wearing that really sexy red two piece outfit that you wore the time you too had the chocolate body paint experience.  Make it something that he can resonate with and something that he knows.  That way when you phone him and say:

“Hi baby, I’m feeling very horny you want to play?” followed by “I’m wearing my little red number” he will know exactly what you are talking about and the images will automatically appear in his mind along with the memories of the great time he had last time you wore this outfit.

Throughout your phone sex conversation you need to keep this descriptive language up.  Don’t say something like I’m feeling very hot that just isn’t going to do it, you need to detail every little thing you are doing.

“I’m running my hands slowly over my breasts, circling my nipples, oh it feels so good and I am imagining that my hands are yours.”  You can follow this up with a few little moans before asking your partner what he would like to do to your body next and what he would like you to do to him.  As he gives you instructions on what he would like to do to you all you have to do is follow through giving his a full and very detailed running commentary.  Remember he can’t see what you are doing but he will know by your description and the tone of your voice how well it is going and this is what is going to excite him.

If you want to make phone sex a success and please both yourself and your partner at the same time then you need to get to grips with describing how you please your body and be able to verbalise this.  The I am feeling my breast and my stomach just won’t cut it nor will I am now entering my private parts.  Come on ladies you need to tell us exactly what you are doing if you want to turn us on.  If not you have just wasted your phone call.

Time to get descriptive and learn to give your man the images he wants when he can’t see what you are doing.  Remember ladies practice makes perfect and we all know practice is fun right?

Until next time,

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