So You Want To Start Pegging Your Husband

WARNING: Kinky content. This post is ONLY for the kinky at heart and sexually adventurous. You’ve been warned so NO complaining. (I’m just responding to reader demand)

In the past while I have received a number of questions from people wanting to know about pegging so I decided it was time to do a post on this topic.  If you are looking for information or you are interested in pegging your husband then this one is for you.

What is pegging?

I’m sure you’re all familiar with anal sex right?  Well pegging is basically anal sex for a man.  What you are going to be doing is having anal sex with him using a strap on.  This might not appeal to everyone but if you are one of the ladies who has been sending in questions then you definitely need to keep reading.

To Peg Or NOT to Peg Your Man? That is the Question

If you’re reading this your husband may have already asked for some pegging. If not, the first thing you need to do is make sure that he is keen on the idea. A surprisingly large number of men are interested – at least 1x – if pushed and prompted a little.

If he reacts with “WTF! I ain’t gay!” You can put his male mind at ease by telling him that sex experts, therapists and wikipedia assure us it doesn’t make him gay.

He may have a strong reaction either way – but I can tell you he will likely respect your sense of sexual adventure. Hey, nothing ventured, nothing gained, right?

Note: some men secretly fantasize about this but are too ashamed to ask. Some men like to be dominated and actually fantasize about  how sexy their partner would look wearing a strap-on. It’s a combination of the role reversal and domination.

If you’re keen to try and HE is the reluctant one – try the give and take tactic. “Hey, if you want in my back door – it’s only fair that I get to try yours, right?” Who can argue with that logic?

If you have read about pegging your husband on the internet you will have received the female point of view and how enjoyable it is for you to be in control and your man to be submissive.

You are going to need plenty of lubrication and I would suggest that you get in a bit of practice before you decided to go full force with your strap-on.  The anus is a tight little sucker and you can’t just stick something up there.  Then again, I’m sure you already know this.

Pegging  Please Your Husband – Pleasure Not Just for Him

So back to the pegging thing.  Take your time and really enjoy the experience.  Plenty of lubricant and slowly does it.  I would suggest that you start using your fingers first and once he’s loosened enough you can move on to your strap on.  Something that you might not know about is the male G-spot and this is located in the anus.  It is actually the prostate gland and if you can stimulate this then oh baby your man is in for one hell of a time.

Remember you are in full control when pegging your husband and you need to really go gently at first.  He will definitely tell you very quickly what he is looking for and how much he can take.

Pegging Your Husband – Pleasure Not Just for Him describes pegging pleasure…. “In terms of physical pleasure, women may get direct stimulation from the base of the dildo, or in the case of a double-ended dildo, from vaginal penetration. A woman can use a secondary vibrator, between the dildo and her clitoris, to get pleasure from pegging. Men may find stimulation of the anus, rectum, and adjacent organs, and particularly the prostate, enjoyable, which can lead to an anal orgasm. Some men enjoy masturbating (or being masturbated) during pegging”

Pegging your husband?

Pegging is perfect if you are thinking getting totally adventurous, kinky, becoming more dominant in the bedroom, or fulfilling his secret fantasy.  Look into the different shapes and sizes of strap-ons available and your sex life may never be the same again.

[ Editor Jay Archer : If you’re interested in learning more about pegging your man,
strap-on sex and how to unleash his passion I recommend looking at this tutorial and guide ]

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27 responses to “So You Want To Start Pegging Your Husband”

  1. Belle says:

    I’m speechless! Wonder what the hubby would say to this. I’ll ask and get back to you. Won’t say if I’ll try it. I’m just amazed at what things people will do for pleasure. Last week, saw something about people dressing up as animals and having sex in the forest. This is tame compared to that. Different strokes…

    *Jay, please let us know when there is a sale on “Talk Dirty”.

    • Archer says:

      Belle, there are so many wild fetishes.

      There is a fetish for people dressed as stuffed animals – called “Plushy”

  2. EM says:

    I wouldn’t mind doing that 😉 loved the article 🙂

  3. lisa says:

    Well, Jay, I’ve followed loads of your advice and I must say that so far, it’s all been good. But before I suggest this one to the hubby, I’m gonna make sure his life insurance is paid up. I fully expect him to have a stroke!

  4. TerriAnn says:

    This sounds like fun!

  5. Belle says:

    Didn’t have the nerve to ask the hubby. You’re right Jay, the animal costume thing is called “Plushy”. Ok, that is where I draw the line.

  6. hotshotbmg1 says:

    The first time she pegged me I was repulsed. We were acting out a bondage thing, with me being the one tied, and she just went into it. Apparently, she had a fantasy about me beibg her “bitch” but never told me. To make a long story short, she pegged me, and now pegs me regularly without the benefit of ropes. I love it and if it means I am gay, that’s too bad, I am also happy to “bend over” for her whenever she wants me to.

    • Slider says:

      Right? who cares about labels all I know is that I get pegged about 2 times a week now. I get hard and cum every time and she makes me beg her to fuck my pussy. We started with a 6″ cock and now we are going to shop for 8″ curved boner.

  7. B says:

    Lol i love your advice Jay it has helped me along with my sex life, but on this one i’d be right up for it not sure about my BF though he wont even let me near his behind. But when i give him a BJ and play with his balls at the same time i try to reach this area when doing so he doesnt seem to mind then when he blows his load all over me. haha 🙂

  8. Jennie says:

    I love to use strap-ons on my husband and boyfriend. I get a shattering orgasm after spending ten minutes pumping gently. It really works for me. I agree with A_man entirely, using a strap-on is a very powerful erotic tool. Try wearing one under your jeans or skirt in public with your man: the result is electric. He won’t be able to keep his eyes, or hands, off that bulge.

  9. Anonymous says:

    Ewwwww what a waste of life to peg someone!

  10. TDH says:

    I need the courage to ask my wife!!! Aaaah

  11. hum says:

    Not sure…..

  12. Alesso says:

    My girlfriend didn’t knew I was OK with anal. One time she was giving me head and suddenly started trying to stick a finger down there… so I just let her, she got so horny that didn’t let me cum on her mouth (she always does), she made me cum on her hand and used my cum to stick 3 more fingers on my ass while she moaned.
    After that I realized she loved pegging as much as I do, plus the benefit we both do anal to each other once in a while…. it’s a great experience and really kinky, great orgasm.
    Don’t be closed people, do it, always with patience and love.

  13. Top Secret says:

    I let my wife do it, I brought it up turned out to be a big fantasy of hers it was hot but to the person saying where it in public and your man won’t keep hands off I wouldn’t be in public if my wife did that.

  14. LeeAnn Nelson says:

    Yes I’m interested

  15. mature husband says:

    Just my 2 cents. I’m recently on my second marriage after many years with a so called good girl (prude). I had asked first wife for prostate massage. She freaked. Turns out she would blow the church guys but left me without. Second wife, wow I asked her and she said basically anything to please me. Frankly I love it, I look forward to Sat night for our marathon sex as she calls it. I give her all the attention she can handle. Back rub, feet, loooooong oral sessions. Then my turn. She puts her strapon on and does me. OMG I beg, cry, whimper and when she is through I literally have to crawl to the bathroom. Yes she owns my ass and I love it. Pain? sometimes a little but it hurts so good. I do take a dr prescribed benzo to relax me at first but closest thing iz have found to heaven.

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