WARNING: Kinky content. This post is ONLY for the kinky at heart and sexually adventurous. You’ve been warned so NO complaining. (I’m just responding to reader demand)
In the past while I have received a number of questions from people wanting to know about pegging so I decided it was time to do a post on this topic. If you are looking for information or you are interested in pegging your husband then this one is for you.
What is pegging?
I’m sure you’re all familiar with anal sex right? Well pegging is basically anal sex for a man. What you are going to be doing is having anal sex with him using a strap on. This might not appeal to everyone but if you are one of the ladies who has been sending in questions then you definitely need to keep reading.
To Peg Or NOT to Peg Your Man? That is the Question
If you’re reading this your husband may have already asked for some pegging. If not, the first thing you need to do is make sure that he is keen on the idea. A surprisingly large number of men are interested – at least 1x – if pushed and prompted a little.
If he reacts with “WTF! I ain’t gay!” You can put his male mind at ease by telling him that sex experts, therapists and wikipedia assure us it doesn’t make him gay.
He may have a strong reaction either way – but I can tell you he will likely respect your sense of sexual adventure. Hey, nothing ventured, nothing gained, right?
Note: some men secretly fantasize about this but are too ashamed to ask. Some men like to be dominated and actually fantasize about how sexy their partner would look wearing a strap-on. It’s a combination of the role reversal and domination.
If you’re keen to try and HE is the reluctant one – try the give and take tactic. “Hey, if you want in my back door – it’s only fair that I get to try yours, right?” Who can argue with that logic?
If you have read about pegging your husband on the internet you will have received the female point of view and how enjoyable it is for you to be in control and your man to be submissive.
You are going to need plenty of lubrication and I would suggest that you get in a bit of practice before you decided to go full force with your strap-on. The anus is a tight little sucker and you can’t just stick something up there. Then again, I’m sure you already know this.
Pegging Please Your Husband – Pleasure Not Just for Him
So back to the pegging thing. Take your time and really enjoy the experience. Plenty of lubricant and slowly does it. I would suggest that you start using your fingers first and once he’s loosened enough you can move on to your strap on. Something that you might not know about is the male G-spot and this is located in the anus. It is actually the prostate gland and if you can stimulate this then oh baby your man is in for one hell of a time.
Remember you are in full control when pegging your husband and you need to really go gently at first. He will definitely tell you very quickly what he is looking for and how much he can take.
Pegging Your Husband – Pleasure Not Just for Him
Wikipedia.org describes pegging pleasure…. “In terms of physical pleasure, women may get direct stimulation from the base of the dildo, or in the case of a double-ended dildo, from vaginal penetration. A woman can use a secondary vibrator, between the dildo and her clitoris, to get pleasure from pegging. Men may find stimulation of the anus, rectum, and adjacent organs, and particularly the prostate, enjoyable, which can lead to an anal orgasm. Some men enjoy masturbating (or being masturbated) during pegging”
Pegging your husband?
Pegging is perfect if you are thinking getting totally adventurous, kinky, becoming more dominant in the bedroom, or fulfilling his secret fantasy. Look into the different shapes and sizes of strap-ons available and your sex life may never be the same again.
[ Editor Jay Archer : If you're interested in learning more about pegging your man,
strap-on sex and how to unleash his passion I recommend looking at this tutorial and guide ]