Love is supposed to be so simple and easy, you meet a really handsome man, the lightening bolt hits and you fall head over heels in love with each other. Wedding bells ring and you both live happily ever after.
If love is so easy, then why are men taking longer and longer before proposing marriage to a woman they love? Why do most men seem so terrified of getting married they refuse to even speak about it with any woman and get angry if anybody tries to bring it up.
1) The most popular method for most women is to nag and pressure their boyfriends in hopes that he will eventually change his mind. This is the worst thing you could ever do. Pressuring your boyfriend to marry you with a consistent injection of nagging will cause your boyfriend to halt any plans for a proposal.
He will subconsciously put any growth of the relationship on hold. If you continue to press this strategy, he will eventually just withdraw from you all together. He may be there in the relationship physically, but mentally and emotionally he will have already left the relationship.
2) The only way you can get your boyfriend to want to propose to you is by inspiring and motivating him. Once you are able to inspire his emotional core, there is nothing that will stand in his way of walking down that aisle with you.
So how do you inspire a man? Well one is by showing him through your actions (not your words) that you are a kind, caring, considerate and nurturing woman. When a man sees by your actions that you are genuinely concerned about his health, career and future, his ears will perk up and he will start seeing you differently. He will realize that you are different from other women and potentially marriage material.
Making him that cup of soup and baby him, when he is sick. When he is stressed, upset or overworked, try giving him a back massage to help him calm down or cooking him a special meal. Its all about providing that encouragement, support and showing him that you appreciate him.
3) Another way to inspire a man is to learn the keys on how to communicate with him in a way that he can understand. Instead of asking him why he won’t marry you. Try asking him if he is happy in his life. Let him know you are not talking about you and your relationship together, you just want to know how he is. Is he happy with his job, where he lives, friends and family, where he is in life and where he is going.
Allow him an opportunity to talk and just listen without judging him. If he is not happy or is having problems, let him know that you are here to help him. Talk about a way that you could help him to make dealing with these issues easier.
Once he sees through your actions that you genuinely want to help him and that life is easier with you in his life, he will begin thinking more about his future and the idea of you in it.
Of course this is just the tip of the iceberg…learn the 6 different ways to communicate with a man about your relationship and the 15 ways to inspire a man to propose marriage to you.
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Guest Article by Paul Wright
Paul Wright helps women ‘Decode Men’ and discover what they
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