Comments on: #2 Male Sexual Fantasy Revealed

By: Vira

Vira — Sat, 09 Apr 2011 21:43:30 +0000

Its tough to judge the opposite sex since I m a girl, however, men are predictable and rather emotional human beings.

I have been in a relationship( a healthy one) with my boyfriend for almost 3 years. Yes sex happens and I have to admit he LOVES it!!! So am I afraid hes going to leave me for a “Fantasy”? No lol!

He loves me and wants me and thats why he can complete his fantasies with me. I try to comply with all he asks, yes we have done it in alot of abnormal places and yes its never bland, but we both like it and thats that, If we want pleasure then we need to give it.

I wouldnt mind going blonde for him, rather me than someone else lol. But if you love him and he loves you than no one will cheat the end! We talk things through and find out what we like or dont like. He is a great guy and I dont worry about cheating because I give him what he wants and I pride myself of making him and his “Friend” happy.

I think this article is very helpful but in reality im sure we all fantasize, its normal, of course as long as its not every day! I too have done things and thought of things that well,,,,makes em a fantasy, but Id never cheat and thats that. Its feedback ladies GReat article keep em coming!

By: Ghassan

Ghassan — Mon, 31 Aug 2009 10:12:42 +0000

A satisfied man never fantasizes – Freud
So if you fantasize about others, better check your love life. Whatever people may say here fantasy isn’t good, it starts in the mind, you become less turned on by your partner, in turn, fantasies increase, a snowball builds up, and hop, sex with your SO isn’t satisfying.
Actually there are some women and very few guys who don’t fantasize about others.

By: Mathew

Mathew — Mon, 13 Jul 2009 06:10:51 +0000

It’s true ladies, but you’re applying female logic to it. Yes guys fantasise about other women from time to time. I fantasize about my current girlfriend more than other girls but at the end of the day if men didn’t fantasize then there would not be such a large sex industry and advertising wouldn’t be about semi naked women draped over a product. I would never in a million years cheat on a girl, but a fantasy is just that – a daydream. Don’t get too bent out of shape over this it’s just how it is and always has been.

By: Phindi

Phindi — Sun, 12 Jul 2009 19:32:22 +0000

what you are saying makes so much sense. men are men and fantisizing about doing something else is not a big deal (as long as he dont cheat!!!!) … sometimes, esp in long-term relationship, things get monotonous and guys get bored. so changing into a different personality in the bedroom, his fantisy, is not an issue. it doesnt mean you have to change who you are, it means being more open for new and better options. i did that too, and i must say ladies, you might just love it!!!!!!!

if you are a bit scared start small, have a new hairstyle, a new outfit that just hugs your booty, put on a sexy number to bed, go to lap dance classes. i know there are still some women who feel bj is the most disgusting thing ever but it is life changing, esp if you get the correct guide. read books… i too used to be like that. in the nutshell, let loose. every women has a kinky side of them, let that tiger loose…

By: Linda

Linda — Fri, 10 Jul 2009 22:15:23 +0000

So glad I came across these articles, they are great to keep things interesting and together, I can NOT wait for the next one. So glad to hear straight up talk and info. Keep it going. THANKS

By: Cynthia

Cynthia — Thu, 09 Jul 2009 23:02:10 +0000

I am inclined to believe that. Because ladies, we are kidding ourselves if we think our men are constantly fantasizing about us – hence its called a “fantasy” – My husband and I have been married for over 20 years, and I do fantasize about other men, just as he does, but thats just it. Sex is sex – are you willing to risk everything else you have built – come on now…

We do talk about what we like more of or less of or where and when.. I will change up on my husband in a minute – he doesn’t know who is coming home from the hairdresser – LOL

Just as Kathyn stated, we read articles – to get each others opinions, look at “Live Sex” shows and talk through them – we find ideas, but we also find our likes, dislikes.

Sex is something that God created for a man and woman to enjoy with each other – that is part of our marriage creed, so am I concerned if he fantasies about another woman – NO, because 9x out of 10, I have looked like that woman, and if not, I will..

One last thing – its not just about him, its about you too ladies – if your man love the strip club, take some pole dancing classes, keeps you in shape and keeps him wanting more!!

By: Ella

Ella — Thu, 09 Jul 2009 08:57:32 +0000

I agree 100% with Kathryn, if an answer is going to hurt then the reader shuld skip the response to the question.

Responses published will reflect the opinions of the individuals included in the survey – not the opinion of absolutely everyone, and thats what is so wonderful about people – everyone is individual and different.

My hubby and I have great fun pretending to be walking in the shoes of different people. I even set up an email account and corresponded with him as “his other fantasy woman”. It’s fun – a game we share and cetainly not harmful.

By: Chrystal

Chrystal — Wed, 08 Jul 2009 22:53:56 +0000

Ladies ladies ladies……… we are talking about men and their fantasy. We do not need to be threatened by the fact that men fantasize about other women. It’s just natural for them. They can’t help it…. and if they didnt’ fantazsize about other women even though they are IN LOVE …. well that would just be strange and unhealthy.

EVERYONE fantasizes. In fact, you have to fanasize about something when you masturbate. It’s very rare for people to think about their current partner when they masturbate to completion. We have to have a fantasy… our current partner is who we are with now. That is not a fantasy, that is reality.

Lighten up ladies. You can’t fight mother nature.

Blissfully, Chrystal
Sex Expert, Pleasur Coach & Chief Toy Diva
for BlissConnection.com

By: Kathryn

Kathryn — Thu, 02 Jul 2009 03:21:03 +0000

I have been reading these comments, and they are so funny. Some of these women are so boisterous about their thoughts. Personally I believe that if you asked to recieve these types of email you shouldn’t be complaining. Your asking for help in pleasureing your men and yet you jump the same person you asked for help from. Thats kinda wrong, but hey thats my opinion.

My husband and I read these articles together and I ask him what he thinks and if he agrees and what not. However my husband and I have that type of relationship where I am comfortable asking him what he thinks and shareing these types of things with him. So I thank you Jay because I would never have known some of the things that I do now. I also tried this particular thing out, and it was a lot of fun. We changed it up a bit and made it go both ways. He askes me what type of guy I fantasy about and I told him and it was fun to become each others fantasies.

By: Archer

Archer — Sat, 20 Jun 2009 00:34:45 +0000

DON”T SHOOT THE MESSENGER

1) The #2 most frequent fantasy STATISTIC is pulled from a survey.
Although you may not like the information it is fact and reality.

Question is – Armed with this info what will you do with it?

2) Infidelity = cheating.

Where did this article encourage anyone to cheat? I think the suggestion was more along the lines of ‘role playing’