#1 Male Sexual Fantasy
June 19, 2009 by Archer
You’ll be happy to know…
…the #1 most common male sexual fantasy is about you!
That’s right! Based on surveys men are most likely to fantasize about his current female partner.
NO ladies, this isn’t some lame attempt to makeup for the backlash after last week’s article revealing the #2 most frequent male sexual fantasy. (Read the passionate responses AND my updates to the article read here)
For the record ladies…Love it or hate it, I’m here to tell the truth about how men actually think and feel NOT tell you what women want to hear, believe or learn about from their female friends. IF you want feel good, fluffy advice read Cosmo magazine.
Men frequently fantasize about: things you and he have done, could do, or will do together in the future.
Why? Because sometimes flesh-and-blood real thing is more of a turn-on than the unattainable or ‘out of reach.’
What’s the key? Sexual frequency and variety. Give him enough and variety of experiences to feed his fantasies with otherwise his fantasies will starve.
Keep changing things up in the bedroom. Keep experimenting and trying new things. Explore and be adventurous. Not everything you try will be a hit, but your eagerness to try in itself is fueling and driving the fantasy engine in his head …
…And the star of his fantasy is you.
Keep in mind, every man wants his wife/girlfriend to be his fantasy.
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i think this is very true… not only males like variety but females do too i mean who doesnt get tired of the same thing every time
Oh, this i know! Thank goodness, this I know. He is always asking for odd pictures of me in different positions to fuel his fantasy. It’s not necessarily naked pictures either i.e. me in a bikini on top of his corvette, pretending to shower in my bikini, laying on his motorcycle with a short skirt etc. It’s kind of fun and keeps things interesting.
people are lame to freak out. why do you read this?!?!?!?!?! it’s to get help about things u don’t know. lay off the writer. i have not been pushed in the wrong direction with with this site yet. so get over your ego and listen to some good advice
okay…..so as a female I am always trying to “keep it great”. While I am not a slender girl, I am 45 and happy with my body for the most part. Thighs could be a little thinner having been 95 pounds when I had ulcers, I am just happy to be healthy again.
So………..I got the school girl outfit and was pretty pleased with the overall look and even had a lollipop to suck on.
The husband however was not “wild” about it, said school girls wasnt for him, and he liked what he had with me. He said he enjoyed the things I did for him and that was the biggest turnon……not the outfit.
So while I was dissappointed in the fact that I really liked the outfit and had my own fantasy going on in my head………….I was happy to hear that he was more turned on by just me……being me.
Excellent answer Archer – LOL
He knows what he has at home when he really thinks about it. Because he is not always thinking about sex.
He is thinking about dinner, cleaning, cooking, what happens when the looks fade – will we still be there. Do we have him when he is down, when he is going through a crises??
My husband knows that I will be there for him during the good and bad!!
I have to agree. I’m not blind and I’m not naive, I know my boyfriend (its been about 3 years now), looks at porn, and checks out other women, and I’m sure he’ll have fantasies and dreams about other women. While I’m not too fond of that, I can understand it and so long as he doesn’t do anything to damage our relationship, I can very much respect it.
But I also know that given the choice, he’d pick me over any of those fantasy girls, or any of the ‘hot’ girls he happens to see. All they are to him is hot, or attractive. I’m beautiful to him, and hot, and sexy, and gorgeous, and pretty, etc, to him. And that’s what I think matters.
I’ve never once heard him call another woman beautiful — he’s reserved that for me.
As for the spicing things up part, I think that’s pretty true too. I was recently in Europe without him and I came home with a bunch of fancy lingerie, bras, panties, slips…everything, and I modeled for him and let him pick what he liked the most. He really enjoyed it, and I enjoyed it too.