How to please YOUR man
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Why?
- Based on some of the comments I’ve read there are some pretty knowledgeable lovers among us.
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How to Satisfy Your Man?
How? Finish this sentence… “My man loves it when I…”
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My boyfriend use to tell me all the time that he fantasized about using his dick as my personal toy, at first i was like yea you better keep dreaming but after we got used to each other it didn’t seem so crazy so i tried it… id reccomend strattling him and sort of propping yourself up so your not sitting directly on his lap then just grab hold
remember this ones not really supposed to be designed for him so just do whatever you’d normally do with a toy to get yourself off he’ll probably go nuts just watching.
personally i think this is more for you to do the work and have im watch so for added kinkyness you could tell him not to touch but if you dont think he’ll listen handcuffs will do the trick! have fun
Its a little kinky i was nervous at first but i promise once your confident im sure you can do it
If for some reason you don’t enjoy its pretty easy to switch to something else since your already in his lap haha so just try it!
Believe it or not many men fantasize about women treating them as a piece of meat for their own personal pleasure; AKA a ‘fuck toy’
The exact opposite of how some women want to be treated.
No wonder women have trouble understanding men sometimes, eh?
I call this one The Triple- definitely not for the timid or half-hearted ones. If you have the patience and humor, this can be a very bonding and opening experience for both partners. I suggest starting after a nice shared shower..then some oral exploration..this had my man going crazy.
i had him get on his knees and lean over with his head on a pillow while i stroked his back, hips and the insides of his legs-basically anything that feels good to you will feel good to him..then, I leaned forward and started licking and suckling his balls from behind, not touching anywhere else..yet..Then, reach his cock from between his legs while stroking his balls with the other hand, move up so you can tease his sensitive “rosebud” with your hot tongue-this will make him nearly explode with the sensations-it’s a bit of multitasking, but if you want to treat him and blow his mind,
Try The Triple to completion..and see what happens next..Enjoy!
Tracy, the TRIPLE is a unique tip and worth the try. Thanks!
It don’t take long for my man to explode,when I lay back,and start rubbing my clit,dipping my finger’s in my wet hole(all the while he is stroking his cock over my pussy,which really turn;s me on watching him masterbate too),than I start squirting all over him and his cock,he stroking harder now,i’m still squirting,than he cum’s all over my pussy,I continue squirting and enjoying his hot cum,damn it so good!!!
Kitty, meeeooooow! Good tip!
My man loves “my specialty” aka an awesome BJ. Kissing & sucking all the way down to his manhood. But I dont go right to it, I simply breathe a little heavy on it. Then pay special attention licking his balls & the area where his leg meets his nether region right beside his balls. This area drives him crazy. By this time he’s usually wiggling about & can hardly stand the anticipation of when I actually take him in my mouth. Then commences the sucking & licking of his cock with this wonderful deep throat action followed by a hand slide up & twisting over the head of his cock. Never fails hes usually ready to cum in no time, but im in control so I decide when he cums. Man I love doing this!
suck, lick, stroke, bite, roll, wet, rub…..his nipples…..with the same intensity he would yours……..
Lots of women don’t realize what a turn on this is and some men are shy to ask…..
do what Kitty said but here’s a different variation. Use his dick to mastubate your clit every now and then dipping in and out your pussy to bring out the juices all the while rubbing and stroking until someone pops! Aaaaahhhh…..nice….
(Missionary works well for this with him kneeling between your legs…his hands are free to play with your nipples cause you’re in control of the dick. He’s also free to bend over to suck on your nipples every once in a while too)
Melly Mel,
Good tip about teasing the clit with the head of the cock. One of the teasing tricks up my sleeve I use, regularly. It drives her nutty! LOL Love it.
My man loves it when I cum. He thougt he had a high sex drive til he met me. On average I cum 8 times to his 1, if im lucky I get a multiple as well.
So after he has satisfied me, I show my appreciation by giving him a nice long blow job – usually for an hour or so. I have my arse in the air next to his torso so he has a good view and can fiddle aswell. I also enjoy sucking his cock and treat it, his balls and surrounding areas like one big edible play toy. He shows me how fast/slow he wants it by fingering me fast or slow. Ie: I speed up or slow down as he does, although I do surprise him as well.
Also when his is cumming I time my strokes/sucking to each spurt – try to suck it out and cup/massage his balls. He has said on numerous occassions I am talented lol. I am also glad and feel lucky that I have found a lover that appreciates me and can keep up. Some guys are intimidated by my insatiability.
Gizzelle, maybe you should change your name to ‘Gizzilla’ – OMG, 8X to his 1?!
We play around with a lot of crazy things but my man’s favorite is still the simple classic Early Morning BJ.
It’s easy, any time before his alarm goes off quietly climb under the covers and work it slowly until he wakes, then you can go to town and finish him off. Sure he may be dreaming of a super model but by the time it’s over you can bet it’s you he’ll be thanking.
My man LOVES for me to cum (squirt as you call it…only mine is more like gushing) all over him. He calls it being a glazed donut. But taking it the next step further, cleaning him up with my tongue!
The last time I BLEW his mind I couldn’t decide where I wanted his cum in my mouth (because I swear it is better than chocolate) or in Kitty. So with a little pre planning I had a spoon on the nightstand. He came in my pussy and I told him to grab the spoon and feed it to me!! It was something that he had never dreamt of. Yesterday he brought it up and said that when he is with me he feels like he has super human powers….no other woman has made him feel that way. One year of building a strong relationship with great communication….and yes we rock each other’s world!
My man loves it when I bite, suck and lick his ears and his neck; especially biting his neck
I like things crazy.. but I LOVE LOVE LOVE taking on his body as if it were my own personal feast.. obviously he loves every moment.. but I tend to do it for my own self as well… HUGE TURN ON!! Licking his body slowly starting from his toes and working my way up.. like a massage but with my tongue..usually just before I get to the mid section I jump to the top.. cause you know that’s what he was expecting next! Drives him crazy.. then play with myself.. touch myself.. start masturbating while he is too hot to know what to do with himself.. grab him.. throw him on the floor.. and say “shhhhhh….” you just watch and enjoy. Start licking his balls and his dick like it was the best lolly pop I ever had and start to suck his dick.. thinking now he is going to have a fabulous BJ.. but no.. stop.. grab his dick and rub it on my pussy.. take my breasts and give him some other kind of blow job.. than lick it more.. than I get on top of him and start to slowly go up and down inside.. lil faster.. but stop.. grab him and throw myself over the counter and tell him to come get me.. after all the teasing then laying over the counter or couch.. and saying come get me.. practically sprinting over to get me.. I love to tease to the max.. I get more turned on by turning him on.. and when it is all done I take his balls and dick and lick them gently.. a nice ending to great sex!
walk around the house doing chores without my panties and i bend enough for him to see my butt. then when am done i show him a quick look of my whole butt.
Go to a wedding or a public event (no not a date) that he would very much least expect you to do anything naughty. Wear a skirt (not too short now for everyone to see!) but enough. At some point when he is talking to someone off doing his thing.. just calmly walk up to him randomly and whisper in his ear “I’m not wearing underwear” than walk away.. From that point on it’s going to be an all day event of teasing and foreplay..
I tend always be into the kinker side of things..I prefer to be in controll often.One of the ways I drive my man wild is by cuffing him down to the bed and sitting on his face so he can go down on me. I guess you could say using his tongue as a sex toy of sorts (i.e. riding his tongue) and then cumming all over his face repeatedly. I also keep him spread eagle so once he is done taking care of me I tease him for an extended period of time and then go down on him . He usually cums 2-3 times onces I get him going. It’s amazing. If your a girl who likes to take charge I highly recommend it
Sweetheart,
Nice. You sound like the take charge kind of girl, alright.
I have a version of the triple, it’s pretty much the same but lay on your back and suck his nippels occasionally, this way he will get a good view of your boobs as well, or a good view of you tougching yourself.
Another thing I love to do is to have my boyfriend lay on his back and then kiss his neck, earlobe, collarbone, down to his nipples and just kiss his entire body down to his belly button. Then I go up to his neck again, and the back down a little bit lower than before. After about four times I’m down at his dick but before I get there I slow down a lot then I place the last kiss riiiiight above his dick and go back up. The next time I go all the way down and give him a blowjob.
Karolina,
You naughty, naughty tease!
I’m a lot like Beth in the sense that I love to tease and get majorly turned on by seeing my partner getting turned on. This is one particular trick I like to perform on whichever guy I’m with:
Before we actually get naked and we’re still making out and groping, etc. I’ll eventually start kissing him starting from his neck and then down to his groin. There I’ll kiss and mouth his erection through his pants for a long time – it drives any guy absolutely crazy! For extra tease, I undo his pants and do the same through his underwear. When I get to his actual penis I’ll give it one long lick starting from his balls (sometimes his perenium) up to the tip. After that I focus SOLELY on the head of his penis for a good five to ten minutes (which feels like forever to a guy in this instance!). I start off with light sucking and end up covering my teeth with my mouth, giving him long and hard sucks (again, JUST at the head). If you’re comfortable, you can add extra torture by applying pressure to his prostate and rubbing in a circular motion. You can find your guy’s prostate by placing your fingers right on his perenium (the space between his balls and anus) and pressing lightly until you feel a somewhat hard object under the skin.
At this point he’s breathing heavily and starting to gently hump my face or encouraging me to take the rest of his penis. What I like to do here is to slowly recoil so I’m back to lightly licking his head; after this I either repeat the whole process or suddenly, without warning, take his entire (or as much as I/you can take) penis into my mouth. At this point I also sometimes repeat the process to tease him even more or just finish him off.
The trick is to have him practically begging you to finish him or do more; depending on how kinky you and your guy are, you can really play this aspect up. Remember that an orgasm is always, always better the more its built up.
Seducky,
Fantastic. Yes an orgasm is always better after gradual buildup for sure
Also…thanks Tracy! I think I’ll definitely try out the Triple!!
I’d be curious to know the ages of all the ladies who responded to this post. Are there things younger women do that older women will not even attempt?
Note: Older doesn’t have to mean 80.
Since I mentioned 80, there was an episode of “NIp Tuck” where an 80 year old woman “banged” a younger man until he had a heart attack. Although the character was fully dressed, they did show her straddeling him and going at it relentlessly.
Even though the show was fiction, it’s good to know that we may still be able to get our groove on at that age.
Re: Tracy’s Triple. I do it also a lttle different and my man loves it. But a word of caution…at first you might not get them “on their knees” right away. The basic “alpha male” might feel vulnerable if asked to assume this position right off top. I start with him on his back, sucking, licking, kissing, his nipples, going down to his dick, his balls….then I move my whole head in between his legs and lick and suck lower. I play with his balls with my tongue, licking, sucking and keep going lower and lower to the perinium area (between the asshole and balls) licking kissing sucking. Then I move my tongue to the hole, circuling his anus, darting my tongue in and out his asshole going deeper and deeper. Before I know it his legs are up in the air and he’s pushing my head further in. At THIS point he might not mind turning over and getting on his knees, but be careful not to break the mood. Alpha male may macho up and put on the brakes. If so, just go back to square one and work your way to those legs being thrown up in the air once more giving you full access to their joy hole. Haha! Oh, yes, and keep jerking (as in blowjob motion) the dick all while you’re doing this. These are times I wish I had more arms……I would love to be able to wet my fingers and play with his nipples at the same time too. Sigh.
HMMmm Archer,I ‘m just a wondering how turned on you get by all this,please do tell,cause I know I do!!
Kitty, some of these get me hot. But I’ve been particularly impressed by get how hot some of the comments are. Wow!
We all should talk about food play,could be very interesting,new way’s of enjoying vegetable’s,like zuchinni’s they grow in all different shape’s n size’s!!!!!! YUM YUM
Kitty, good idea. What question would you like to put to the ladies about food play?
how about how initiating food into your sexual activity,and what turn’s their men on the most about it,happy 4th of July….big bang’s
Kitty, I personally am not a big fan of the food thing – but I know some people just love it.
I’d rather eat after I play – so I don’t cramp up. LOL
my man loves it when i am on top of him as if i am going to ride him but dont actually put his penis inside me i rub his nob all over my woman parts every where he loves it and then i finally let him have his own way when he is at his weakest and very sensitive. I then ride him and play with his ball while doing so this really turns him on and trust me it doesn’t take him very long until he has blown his load….(he normally likes it when i let him do this all over my breasts) hope this helps ladies
so mr archer now we have told you what our men like why dont you tell us what you like?
lol
Ok, a few suggestions:
foreplay:
my bf loves it when i meet him at the door naked. often, he tries to start undressing at the door, but I tell him not to and he’ll be rewarded with the treatment fit for a king. He gets blindfolded and led to a “special room” (my room lit only by candles, lilac incense, soft music, and a “thrown” i tie his limbs down to) Only after he is tied down (i don’t tie him down enough that it ever truely stops him) do i drop the blind fold. Of course he gets first, a chair dance (i dance on a chair he’s not on) teasing by letting him get sneak peeks of what he may get to see more close up, then of course a most wonderful lap dance grinding all my body parts on his thick girth, riding his hot rod through his pants while teasing him by putting my chest in his face, and nipples very close to his mouth but not letting him put them in his mouth (on occassion i will dip my nipples in strawberry or other fruit juices and let him play “guess the flavor”). Eventually he does manage to work off the ties and I undress him w/my teeth.
after he’s naked & b4 the sex:
while he is sittin in the chair naked I work my lips and tongue down from his ear, neck, collar bone, nipples, abs, and happy trail down to his huge girth nibbling, sucking, and licking all the way down (as my hands wander and massage various parts of his body. When i get down to the head of his penis I use the trick I learned. See playing piano and base guitar for quiet some time I learned my fingers are very nimble and flexible and with some work, massaging and stretching, I learned to use my pinky and ring finger to massage his balls while my middle, index, and thumb stroke up and down the base of his penis, all the while deep throating his large erection. (My right hand all the while massaging his hip bone.) Then of course, as i start to feel his erection start to swell even more so as if about to burst into orgasm, i use my left hand to pull back his foreskin and lick the area just inbetween the edge of his head meets the length of his penis. This drives him wild, but also slows him down, still allowing me to control when he will orgasm.
During sex:
Having a background in gymnastics, I learned I could do this amazing move. (This move works mainly because I’m flexible and my boyfriend has quiet some length to him.) While he sits on the chair, I mount him, wrap my legs around him and lean back until my hands are on the floor. Using a combination of the backward push up while doing body rolls-rotating my hips I bring myself to orgasm on his penis all the while allowing him a good view of my breasts bouncing up and down, and my muscles flexing. This also drives him wild. As I orgasm, I often clench his girth driving him near insanity until he decides to grab me (this is where my legs wrapped around him comes in handy) pick me up, and carry me to the bed where he lays on his back for me and the next phase of fun begins.
I ride him like a cowgirl rides her stallion (pacing myself to the beat of the music and clenching to the beat) on occasion leaning over him whispering how great he feels inside me and how much of a stallion he is inbetween moans and breathing hot air in his ear. When he feels as if he is about to explode I slow it down (to a near stop) so he usually doesn’t. I pull him to a sitting position as i lay back and hear is where I go to town.
I begin by slowly pushing and rotating myself further and further onto his cock letting him enjoy the view as I pleasure myself with his humongous girth moaning and breathing heavily and while making eye contact with him I let my hands roam my own body teasing my own nipples and eventually working my own hands down to my clit. Watching me pleasure myself while my vagina works on him as I begin to clench near orgasm until I squirt, calling his name all the while.
After I finish it’s his turn. I finish him off with the most amazing deep throat I can give while massaging his balls. By the time I’ve worked all these lil tricks, he is more than ready to come.
THE MOST IMPORTANT TIP IF UR GONNA TRY THAT: DON’T DO ALL THE WORK FOR HIM EVERY TIME YOU AND YOUR LOVER HAVE SEX. MAKE HIM FEEL LIKE A KING ONLY WHEN HE “DESERVES IT” (ie after a promotion)
All time fav of my bfs:
My bf lays back and rather than mount him and have him enter me with his rock hard erection, I grind and rub up and down his shaft (without letting his head enter). It turns him on feeling me masterbate him with my vaginal lips and clit.
My bf and I do pretty much anything… no limits or boundaries… well bar one. The one thing that turns him on is something I just can’t do – no matter how much I try and prepare…
He loves to watch me lick my own cum off his cock mid way through sex.
I’m happy to do anything (and I mean anything) but that.
I don’t know why it grosses me out so much but it does. Any help to overcome this would be appreciated.
The other thing that drives him nuts is me twisting my hand up and down his shaft whilst sucking and rolling my tongue all over his cock as I twist my head in the opposite direction. He says it is mind blowing…
Another one I picked up was to get a whole lot of tingly lube and to continually move your hands down his cock so as one hand wraps around and slides down, by the time it reaches the bottom the other hand has started it’s descent.
Bondage is great – if you have trust…
This could take a while so I should just stop there
Oh and have him watch you masterbate from across the room.
If you can, do it in public (without getting caught) just slide a finger or two in …. when done let him lick it off
my man loves it when i blindfold him and take control