Attract a man with your eyes

On August 23, 2010, in Attract a Man, by Jay Archer

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Want to attract a man with one little look?

Although it men may approach the woman is often the initiator

This is one tip on how to attract a man with your eyes.

Hold his gaze for 3 full seconds then drop your eyes and crack a very small smile. You can look up for 1 brief second to see if he’s still looking then drop your eyes again.

This attraction technique crosses cultures, languages and time.

It’s a subtle attraction technique that women have used since the dawn of man to show her prospective suitor she is interested in him approaching.

For a stronger signal (or if your target is particularly thick in the head) position your body so that your crossed legs and torso face his direction.

Body position is an added tap on the shoulder telling him…

“Yes, it’s you I’m interested in!”

On the other hand, although you can’t stop men from approaching you you can deter the undesirables by closing your posture, turning away and overting their eyes.

Ironically, women who complain of never being approached often unconsciously practice the “stay away” posture.

This was one of tools in an arsenal if you want to learn how to flirt like a pro. Use with caution.

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15 Responses to Attract a man with your eyes

  1. jm says:

    Love it. It is so simple but it does work!

  2. Christine says:

    Love this trick…even works while dating…just don’t stare…have to look away…heck it even works in a relationship when you want to initiate sex but are not sure what to do or to let you man think he’s in control…lol…

  3. valerie says:

    Love it!

  4. Shiela says:

    What is the “stay away” posture?

  5. Betty says:

    Hi Jay, I have to say that I mastered this one a long, long time ago. Yes it REALLY does work EVERY TIME unless the man just isn’t interested. But most men are. They are so easy to “catch.” (Sorry about that Jay). I LOVE the fact that men are “easy.” They are so loveable. I LOVE men and I ALWAYS will. What can I say. You all will always be so special in my life. Thank God for MEN. Bettyjean

    • Archer says:

      Betty Jean, you’re right!

      Men are easy to catch! We are simple, simple little creatures despite our ability to talk.

      With the right basket of tools – like in this article – it’s easy to get a response out of us. We are your putty.

      Plus it doesn’t hurt to have a great attitude about men like you, Betty Jean.

  6. Rebecca says:

    Ya know how you sit when it’s really cold out? Legs crossed arms folded tightly across your chest and your head is only thinking about how cold it is so your not looking at the things that are rite in front of you. Well if you do this on a hot day in front of a hot guy he’s still going to see you as cold!! Even if you don’t do all of the things I mentioned above just one will make you cold to a man!

  7. Jessica Lena says:

    It’s a good idea! It really work on some situation. Thank you for the point!

  8. lola says:

    Jay
    You always give great advice, the eye trick I learned when I was about 13, I did’nt realize I was showing intrest in men then of course, I was just shy and reserved – my grandmom said I sent out vibes… When I came around all the boys came over to play ( TRUE).

    Now here’s a question for you… I got sex down, I got more ways then you could even imagine to play with a man, my husband says the things I do he’s never even seen on porn ( I taught myself techniques ) they’re toe curlers. But what about attitude? How do you really make a man feel like a man? I mean give him pride, make him feel like a king, boost his ego, act like a lady, be able to communicate on his level, prove to him that you are in awe of him??? I have yet to figure this out.

  9. gal says:

    Lola teach us some of ur toe curlers

  10. Em says:

    Lola I would like you to teach me some of those too ;)

    gal I’m not sure she’ll see this though, I never get to see the answers to my posts either….this coment thing should have one of these “things” that tell you everytime someone coments on a post you have comented and they send you an e-mail so you don’t even have to go to the post you just read and erase, but if you want to answer then you go to the post…..that would be extremely helpful actually since most of the times I completely forget what’s going on around here xD and yes I would LOVE the techniques

  11. Danielle says:

    What I want to know is how to get your boyfriend to be more interested in you in every way. Mine says I turn him on, yet I am lucky if we have actual intimate time once a week! If anyone can help, please do!

    • Archer says:

      Danielle, good question. Help me answer this question by answering some for me.

      1. What is the primary problem you want to overcome?

      2. Have you been married before? If yes, how recently?

      3. Do you have children?

      4. How old are you?

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