QUESTION: What if you’re completely comfortable with your body like few of us women are, BUT your boyfriend never seems to want sex?
How long should you wait before you jump him? In two months he’s never even tried sliding his hand under my top. He always says stuff like he’s too tired or just drinks so much he passes out. – Carmy
Carmy, let me get this straight – you’ve only been together for 2 months, you love your body and want to have lots of sex BUT he’s not interested, is that right?
Aaahhh…why are you with this guy?!
No sex?! Might as well spend your time with your good girlfriends or a gay man.
Don’t invest too much time in this guy, OK? Seems to me like your boyfriend is either depressed, stressed or straight-up has a drinking problem.
It’s hard not to take things like this personally – but sometimes it’s not about you. He could have deeper personal issues that you can’t help him with.
One suggestion is to take the lead. Get passionately inspired about your life, work, play, relationships. If he doesn’t follow your lead you may find he doesn’t fit into your life. PLUS the above idea is just a great way to live, isn’t it?
Who knows, your new improved life may help you find that new improved man…who loves passionate sex with you.
My alpha male advice…Get real, get inspired or get rid of him!
Don’t ‘jump him’ – dump him!
And that’s the Alpha Male answer.
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