Master Your Man with Mind Blowing Hand Job

When it comes to giving a good hand job, most women readily admit that they are all thumbs!  Men do not come with instruction manual on the proper care and maintenance of sexual appetites.  Another missing element is that most women have never actually seen a man pleasure himself through masturbation due to the social stigma attached to a hand job.  As the least discussed sexual pleasures, learning to give a great hand job is any woman’s way to get a handle on her man and blow his mind by unleashing the Sex Goddess.

So many to become the master of his universe, use these quick, easy hand job tips:

• Pressure and Stroke:  Often the difference between pleasure and pain is simple applying pressure.  The thing to remember is that you are handling the most sensitive area of his body.  The nerve endings and sensations are intensified hundreds of times.  By varying the amount of pressure with the timing of the pressure, you are able to control his pleasure.  If you apply a slight pressure in your closed hand during a few long strokes, then change it up with only applying pressure near the head of his penis during faster short strokes, you will quickly find his pleasure points.
• Comfort:  Because most men can last for a long time during masturbation of a hand job, make yourself comfortable before you start.  Like oral sex, a hand job can be performed on your knees between his thighs on your bed or lying next to him in a reclined position.  When you start off in a comfortable position, it avoids the need to stop, break the rhythm, and change positions.
• Lip Service:  Many women make the mistake of forgetting the best lubricant on the planet…the warmth of the mouth.   Alternating oral sex with the stroking of a female hand, the saliva of your mouth provides a mixture of warm, wetness matched with gentle sucking and sensual strokes will bring shivers to his knees.
• Take Direction:  Men, like women, give off subtle cues during passionate moments.  Listen to him breath, ask him if he likes what you are doing, and watch him move under your hand to see if you are pleasing him.  By putting his hand on you are during a hand job, he will give you direction even if he can’t form the words.  And, if you are doing it right, then he won’t be able to talk.
• Two Hands are better than one:  Don’t forget to use your other hand to caress his body, play with his genitals, and add sensations to your hand job. 

If this is your first time giving your man a hand job, don’t be shy.  Enjoy touching him.  Showing him that you are willing to try until you master the techniques will go a long way toward sparking up your relationship.  

Do you have a hand job technique that sets your man on fire?  Please share!

(How to give a hand job – short, online videos of good and bad handjobs visit Hand Job Handbook )

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