A Great Foreplay Tip That Any Woman Can Use

October 2, 2009 by A_man 

I get a lot of emails from women who complain that more foreplay tips and foreplay techniques just don’t work for them.  They complain saying that the foreplay ideas that are mentioned on most websites are just not for them.  One of the most common questions that I get asked in emails is:

“What are some foreplay tips that an average ordinary woman can use on her man?”

So for all you average ordinary women out there this post is for you.  I have to ask though, what is an ordinary average woman anyway?  What makes a woman ordinary and average?  To me when I get these emails what these women are really saying is that they are women who are not confident with their bodies and not overly confident when it comes to sex either.  Why?  What’s wrong with your body or with enjoying sex for that matter?

From a man’s point of view, we just don’t get this.  If we are with you and having sex with you then we love and enjoy your body and let’s face it if we’re having sex and we’ve seen you naked what the hell have you got to be embarrassed about?

I guess this is something that us men will never understand but in order to answer your questions below is a great foreplay tip that even the shyest of women can use.

All you need for this foreplay tip is your partner and a couch or chair.  You won’t have to do a striptease or be naked for this one I promise……well not initially anyway.

So here goes.

With your partner sitting on the couch or chair all you have to do is move in close to him, or sit on his knee if you want and very slowly and lightly I want you to begin kissing his face.  Make your lips as wet as possible and kiss every part of his face except his lips.  Don’t kiss his lips even if he tries to kiss yours I want you to pull away and just keep kissing his face, his neck, his ears…..just not the lips.  You can then slowly start to move down his body slowly though you don’t want to rush things.  You can start by kissing his neck and moving down his chest.  You can even use your tongue to circle his nipples (men’s nipples are sensitive too and yes we enjoy have them kissed and sucked).  If you are enjoying yourself let us know too and a few subtle moans can really help things along.

Remember slow is the key to these foreplay tips and foreplay techniques.  Once you have kissed you want down as far as his stomach you can start moving up again until you reach his face.  This is a real killer by the way but it works really well and by the time you get back down to his stomach again he is bound to grab you and drag you down onto the couch so be prepared.  There is only so much foreplay that us guys can handle you know.

Foreplay ideas don’t have to be raunchy and this foreplay tip is one that every woman can use.  You don’t have to strip naked to start….that comes later.

I mean come on now ladies can I really make things any simpler for you.  Kissing…that’s really all there is to it and of course the fact that he knows you want him.  Once a man knows that you want him and that you are enjoying yourself that’s enough to get any of us going.

Once you get comfortable with this you can move on to the striptease and naked house cleaning if you like.

Before I wrap up on this one I really do just want to say again……men are not focusing on the parts of your body that you don’t like…..we probably can’t even see them…….you are the one who is criticizing your own body and if you just stopped doing this and had more confidence in yourself your sex life would be a million times better.  Start loving your body and I guarantee you will be able to have the best sex ever.

Until next time,

Get Kissing

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6 Responses to “A Great Foreplay Tip That Any Woman Can Use”

  1. Alia Muhammad on October 4th, 2009 3:50 am

    YES!, I have tried this kissing on my man, but I started out telling him to lay accross the bed face down…after he showered_that I was going to give him a massage. I sat on his but and I started kissing his face from the right then the left; not his lips. Then his neck; and right down to the lowest tail bone. He want to have me right then…told him to turn on his back and I started kissing his face again slowly. He want to kiss I pulled away and started kissing only the left nipple. I knew it working him up. I started on the right nipple, and just when I raised up he had a look in his eye “Baby don’t stop now.” So I finished him with a blow job, but not kissing his lips until the start of our second round. Which he did quickly turn me over and ladies it was the longest and the best for both of us_ in a long while. Thanks Jay

  2. Carolyn on October 4th, 2009 1:22 pm

    Hi Jay, Hi Allan

    Thanks for the very practical tip. It’s good to start off with something slow and gentle.

    ciao ciao

    Carolyn

  3. Gail on October 5th, 2009 10:34 am

    Thanks!

  4. Lisa on October 5th, 2009 7:28 pm

    I do this technique from the opposite direction. My husband is not a morning person and I am, so I wake him up by starting the same kissing technique, but at his ankles and working my way up the insides of his legs and working around his hips and on up his abdomen to his nipples. I then work back down again focusing on not touching his penis. By the time I do wrap my lips around it, he is throbbing. Works everytime for great morning sex and he isn’t grumpy because I work him up.

  5. fofo on October 7th, 2009 5:00 am

    i love the way u make us more confident and believe it or not, all your tips work well on my man, he is just loving it more and more

    note: plz put down all ur desires, u men have lots in common heheh,

    catch ya later

  6. Chasity on October 9th, 2009 2:20 pm

    You are so right!! You really rock..

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