To squirt or not to squirt – for some – that is the question.
I’m sure I am bound to get a lot of comments on this post so if I am wrong let me know and if I am right let me know too.
Female ejaculation is commonly referred to as squirting and women who squirt quite literally exploded onto our screens thanks to those pornstars who began squirting on camera. I’ll be completely honest with you here and say that men find this amazing and they would love every single woman they are with to be able to do it too. This squirting proves to men that:
1. You are not faking your orgasm which is a common problem for a lot of men. There are women who pretend that they are having an orgasm and to be totally honest sometimes men really can’t tell the difference. With female ejaculation men know for certain that you have had an orgasm and that you have enjoyed yourself.
2. You are so turned on by them and what they are doing that you are literally exploding with excitement. Yep the male ego kicks in here too and we love to know that we are doing something that you are really enjoying, what better way to end a late night session that to see the woman you are with losing all control and squirting.
There is no scientific evidence when it comes to female ejaculation but according to surveys carried out between 35 and 50% of females have experienced this at one time or another. Some do it during an orgasm others don’t. I’m not an expert here so please feel free to comment and correct any of my information and maybe you could even let us all know exactly what it feels like too.
So really the question that we are trying to explore here today is whether or not women can actually ejaculate like a man and if so what the $&*” is this all about and when did it start to happen. According to Wikipedia the history of women actually squirting goes right the way back to the ancient world and there are even reports of this in the bible. There are also mentions of female ejaculation in Indian texts and of course the Karma Sutra. Even as far back as Greek and Roman times this was mentioned so there really must be some truth to it and of course if seeing is believing then we have all seen it on porn films.
NOTE: Some of movies cheat and use fake squirters. It’s easy – just cut camera – insert water from bottle – roll camera – fake orgasm and commence fake squirt.
Now that you know the ins and outs of female ejaculation and how to squirt all you have to do is get in some practice and make it happen for you.
QUESTION I’m curious to know – are you at all interested in learning how to squirt or completely put off by this idea? Tell me, below.
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I am a female, and I ejaculate regularly and find that men love it!
First time I ever squirted was about a year after losing my virginity, so it didnt happen right away (which was also on my bday, BEST BDAY PRESENT) It felt like I was peeing, but i didnt care at the moment because i was in the middle of an orgasm. Little did i know, i was actually ejaculating. My bf was so turned on and said hes never had a girl do that before. It had had that feeling before where I was masturbating and right at the peek of the big O i felt like i was about to pee and stop because i thought something was wrong. For me it only comes from clitoris penetration. Its a lot of fun, but it does get pretty messy. Our bed gets really wet and we gatta put a towel over it if we wanna fall asleep. I get really turned on by going down my my bf, so when i do that i rub myself on his knee, the hard surface makes me cum right away. then once you start having sex, you are so turned on that you keep cuming more. its a lot of fun, but like i said can get messy!!! lol
Well, if you look at the name, you can understand that I have experienced this myself. When it first happened, my boyfriend got confused and actually asked me if I was peeing on him. Of course I was not but it feels the same to them when you are on top. At any rate, I find that the best position for this is when the woman is laying on her back with her legs on the man’s shoulders. He has more room to move. I don’t know if this works for everybody but it sure works for me. Have fun trying ladies!!
I AM interested in learning how to squirt! Please help!
Very interesting topic, I learned about this in the last year and yes, I have squirted…sadly, only four times…and on all the occasions, I was the only person in the room ( if you catch my drift). It feels absolutely awesome! I’m 33 and I can tell you there’s nothing like it.
Am Kenyan and I first saw it happen at a bridal shower when a sex “auntie” did it – yes we Africans have some interesting customs. In a nutshell, she was teaching a whole host of things about marriage and the sex lesson was last and yes she shot her “fountain” (as she calls it) all the way to the ceiling – there’s still spots there. I know it wasn’t pee because it didn’t come from the peehole and it did not smell. She had some amazing velocity on it – haven’t gotten there yet:-)
Which brings me to my squirts…same thing, no pee smell. But I did feel like I needed to pee right before the squirt happened. I suggest completely emptying your bladder so your mind is totally relaxed, knowing you’re not going to pee, so when the pee feeling comes…”pee”.
Also, completely relax (yes ladies, I hate it when someone says that to me, but its true). Also, it doesn’t just come out, it makes an arc and some of it even ends up on your tummy. So you might want to put a towel under you.
I try to recreate the situation… a bath, a glass of wine, completely mellow, lots of lube but, it doesn’t happen that often though. The last thing is…English is my fourth language so I don’t know exactly how to say this but…..let yourself go, let your mind go, let it happen. Free yourself to squirt. I was 28 before I had my first orgasm and its almost the same mindset….LET IT HAPPEN.
Thing is, hasn’t happened with a guy and I don’t know why. Maybe I just have not been able to let myself “go” in the same way…hmm
Definitely FACT not FICTION. Great article and important topic. Female ejaculation is a lot like anal sex in a way. If you cannot SEE yourself doing it, it will never happen. You have to be able to visualize it happening and be O.K. with it happening.
Many women stop themselves from squirting because they are confusing the sensation with the urge to pee. The g spot is very close to the bladder so it gives you thate feeling that might pee. Women need to LET go of that concern and enjoy the sensation of the g spot stimulation and then LET GO…. just enjoy.
The fluid that does ejaculate is not urine. It comes from the skihns gland and is UREA free. So nothing it it to make it yellow. Mostly water that is dense with saline.
SO relax ladies and let yourself have a very wet climax.
Yes, ladies, we CAN squirt and a LOT more liquid can come out with us than a man can usually produce-a lot of women will hold themselves back due to fear of urinating-and immediately after sex when you do go to the bathroom, can experience an orgasm while releasing the urine. To reduce the chance of urination, empty your bladder before having intercourse-also, the elusive “g-spot’ can usually be reached and stimulated by having your partner insert two fingers into your vagina, palm -up so that his fingers curve up naturally, then gently stroke inwards and up, about 3-4 inches-he should be able to reach the spot that way, and start feeling a raised spot with his fingers-be careful as it can get sore if too much pressure is used-stimulating with a curved-upwards sex toy, with or without vibration can also bring a squirting orgasm. My best results come from a vibrator teasing my clitoris and the g-spot curved toy used at the same time..Eventually you can train your vaginal muscles to respond and activate your g-spot during penetration from your partner’s penis. It will amaze him when he makes you squirt, even if just using toys or his hands-knowing that he is giving you such intense pleasure is a true gift for both of you to enjoy-especially if he gets you to squirt even before he is inside you for intercourse. Practice, practice…
Fact. I use to be so embarrassed when it would happen. I mean it would be every where. All over me and him…..the bed completely soaked. I can some times control it unless he’s hitting the exact right spot at the right time. Then It really is like an explosion. Always makes orgasm more intense.
ladies no neeed for instructions….u just need a man that noes what hes doin…..what my man does is he fingers me really really hard untill i cant take no m,ore and i just let out ……..don’t worry about thinkin ur gonna urinate……….and if u do…so wat…he probably wont even notice!! but for sure you have to be okay with this and be daring!!!!
Uhm well, yes I would like to know how if it means pleasing my partner.
I experienced squirting with one former lover. She knew she was such and told me to be prepared for a flood. So, prior to her arrival, I actually covered the matress with plastic and placed towels over the plastic but under the sheet. She squirted an amazing amount of fluid. It was an interesting experience. While I consider myself to be a talented and knowledgeable lover, I don’t take credit for causing her to squirt as it seems to be a frequent event for her.
i’ve always tried but i’ve never have..not that i think. i mean if i did i would know right? i’m totally intrested in learning how to squirt…i think my boyfriend would really like it.
Of course we want to know how to squirt!! I can get really wet, but I would love to know how to squirt and surprise my man.
as a squirter i can tell you it is real..and it happened without any fore knowledge by me the first time so i am assuming that the female body has not changed much in thje last thousand of years and therefore it has likely been around for thousands of years
myth..it is caused only by the gspot..for many years it was soley a clit experience for me..toy on my clit..oh my..waterfalls..stick something in me and that particular show was over.
do men like it??..that seriously varies..some are crazy about it..some are wary about going down on you after seeing that ..and some cant stop equating it to peeing and or are completely freaked out..i don’t blame them tho because it is incredible how much of it there is and how forcefully it comes out
which brings me to the next bit..
i used to have to relax the muscles ..the opposite of orgasming..to make it happen..eventually it happened on its own but i could prevent it by keeping those muscles tensed..except with toy on clit..losing battle then..now after breaking a year of celibacy i have no control over it and it happens during sex and orgasm too
not thrilled about that because it can be a 3,4,5 towel event..no idea where it could possibly all come from..certainly not the bladder cuz i usually have to run and pee afterwards. the wet spot can be as big as me if desired
men who love it cant help but be convinced that it is a powerful orgasm..it is definately a sign of high arousal but for me there is none of the release of an orgasm and i i am still very hot and bothered and needing more..it does accompany orgasm now too tho..which is new
It really does happen! The first time for me was a complete surprise, I was with a new lover and the lovemaking was really HOT! He is a very skillful lover, holding back his orgasm to allow me multiple o’s. I think that’s the secret, the orgasms become more intense with each one, building up to an eruption somewhat like lava in a volcano. There’s nothing more exciting for a woman than for her to realize that her guy is willing to spend some major time making her feel desired and loved. I’ve also realized that I have to really WANT to be there, I can’t have anything on my mind but lovin’ or it just won’t happen! We’ve found that different positions make for different kinds of orgasms and moving from one position to another can intensify them. Positions that allow your man to get really deep are the ones that bring on the gushing o’s! My guy says it’s the most incredible feeling for him to actually feel my orgasm and feel how wet I get. He loves making it happen!
Heck ya i would love to learn how to squirt!!!! Im sure my boyfriend would enjoy it . Ive never squirted before but i heard with the right amount of stimulation to the clitoris it works
YEAH BABY! LOL
I’ve experienced the “squirting”…yet can’t seem to “make” it happen…it just happens…I’d LOVE to know more about it. It can be messy so have a towel
And, yes the O is MUCH more intense when it’s accompanied by the squirting!!!
i wanna learn! one of my boy toy’s ex was a frequent squirter and now he’s fixed on teaching me. how exactly do you train yourself to ejaculate? its just so weird!
Hmmm….what to say? be aware that this does exist but do not stress to much about making it happen . You cant. Boys this is greatly influenced or mainly by your effort. Put some effort into it ,combos of everything and your set to go but it would help telling your gf that you’d find it amazing and that she shouldn’t worry if it happens. btw don’t do the pressing out thing lol stop trying and enjoy yourself for the girls .
I hold off incase I do do it and it freaks out my boyfriend.
i have never experienced this squrting, i dont know how it feels but i ve seen this no porn , pls help me experience it if at all there are instructions to follw
I would love to learn to squirt. Have tried so many times, its actually getting frustrating now! Please help!!!
I have read about this and ould love to learn more. From what i have read, it seems the G-spot needs attended to! My man would love me to squirt, I know he would be thrilled. Come to think of it, I would be also! Bring on the info Jay!
I have experienced ‘squirting’, It is a GREAT feeling and i dont know how to make myself do it, it just happens. i think its all about hitting the right spot. I was grossed out by it at first and a little embarrassed, but my husband LOVES it! He says it turns him on ;o)
Why is my post labeled “Your comment is awaiting moderation”? I feel censored!
I thought it was urine!!!
This happened to me with my first woman on top position many years ago. I considered it very embarrasing, and avoided that position ever since. That year, I learned the phrase “golden rain”.
I am a woman who has in the past year discovered my “talent” to do this. Its not something I can do all the time, but yet its something I can say I do more frequently. It feels amazing. And a lot of it has to do with the sexual climax in union with such emotional connection. I cannot yet describe to others how to do it, but I know what does make it happen for me. When I figure out how to describe the method I will be sure to post. For now, just let all or your sexual energy run free and put your everything into the moment. And no boring sex! that will NOT get you to the point of squirting.
Wow lol My boyfriend actually asked me if I could do this, it’s crazy how this became the topic on here lol He says that he really wants me to “squirt” because like most guys he wants to make sure I’m getting the most pleasure I can from him. I can almost experience it but because of the continuous not just letting myself completely go, its hard to break that habit. Plus it would make my boyfriend a lot more happy [we had broken up for 3 months and i dated a guy who was bigger then him for a month so he's a little self conscious now so it would make it all the more better for him] so if there is any way possible that can actually help/teach a girl to “squirt” my boyfriend and I would be very pleased to know this information
I made it to 33 years of age before finding out it was true!! Admittedly, I was horrified as I thought I’d pee’d all over the place!! lol
Now it’s pretty commonplace so, as mentioned by others, a towel is a MUST!! (or maybe we should get rubber sheets!!?!) At first he could only make it happen with his oh so magic fingers but since then, he’s made me squirt during penetrative sex and even anal sex….. AMAZING!
Go for it, girls, make your man find that spot and massage it til you squirt all over the place!
And to you guys reading this…. learn!!!! My man’d gladly give lessons, if needed! lol
I have never experienced this phenomenon. Maybe sometime in the future, I’m really curious about it. First time I heard about it was from my boyfriend, he told me he saw it in a pornmovie and he asked me if I am able to do that.
Would Love To Be Able To Squirt Never Experienced It Though
How Can I Do It?
I would be interested in learning if it is possible.
I Have And Do Squirt. My Boyfriend Loves It. I Can Do It Multiple Times As Long As I Relax Completely. And I Have 2 Have 3 Or 4 Folded Towels At Least Since I Can Soak Our Bed. Sometimes Its A Pain Because Its So Messy. I Dont Like A Wet Bed. I Think You Have To Be Able To Totally Relax And Connect And Trust Your Partner. I Do And Our Sex Life Is Great
I can say this is the first time i have ever heard of squirting… I’m interested but i wouldn’t know how to do it. I saw porn a couple of times but i really don’t know what that all this squiking stuff is please help me to understand and know how to do it. I am still interested.
Scared me the 1st time. flooded from head to toe on a hotel bed. He used an A&E massager. It’s amazing how much liquid can come out & the # of times. I was never sure before about my own orgasms. Not a problem any more. Over 50 for me one time.
So that’s what that was! This happened to me years ago while engaging in the woman on top position. I thought it was urine!!! However, it did seem to lack the classic characteristics of urine. As a result of that experience, I have avoided this position ever since. It was then, that I also heard the term “golden rain”.
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To “squirt ” or not to “squirt”! Who really cares as long as it feels… (what’s that “F” word), oh yes, FANTASTIC!
I’m glad there is so much good feedback about this! Some people are very turned off by the idea, but hey, ladies, men do it, and so can you! Ejaculation is nothing to be afraid of. To be honest, I’m embarassed about it, so it’s okay.
One thing I find that is funny is that I keep seeing people say “get a towel”. Honestly, the “mess” is part of the fun. Don’t think about it, relax, and enjoy yourself.
I’d love to find a woman who wants to or can do this. I have yet to experience it.
maybe once or twice on that wild night but not often. its too messy and am sure that even though guys will be turned on at first, it will put them off to have to always remove their clothes or such so as not to get “washed’.
Yes,Idid it couple of times,But the guy has to turn me on really good,Its a beatiful experience that I like to enjoy more aften it just does not happen with every body.
I personally have this come very easy to me. My boyfriend hadn’t experienced it before he got together with me and the first time actually scared him a bit…im not sure if he particularly cares for it but he loves knowing when im satisfied
I am a squirter. My boyfriend loves it. He looks forward to making me squirt everytime we are together. Yes, it is messy but oh so worth it!
I saw some womens squirting on porn sites ok. some of them were real and some were fake. well all i want is to how to squirt for me and my man so we can enjoy our sex life to the fullist. so i hope you can really help me and teach.
i have never heard of Squirting and it has never happened to me either even though I orgasm everytime I have sex. I would like to know as my hubby would go mental although I dont know how he could be any more turned kon than he is with me, so please do let me know how it happens and quick.
btw jay..your eyes are identical to my best friends..it’s uncanny.. i have never met a girl that’s said no to him and that is very very many..and i know he hooks them with his eyes and the way he looks at them.. and then he just patiently waits for them to reel him in…works every single time
Lara – your friend with the same eyes as me – sounds like a wise man.
WINK WINK!
Jay
I’m so completely interest and would love to know how to squirt. I have heard of it before but cannot! Someone help me out and give me some info ! =) I’m so excited to learn more to please my man!
OMG… I had never “squirt” before, until my husband found my g-spot (aahhhhh). Yeah and I’m 27, so I was deprived, but NOW- WOW, every single time he goes down on me I squirt, NO LIE. It’s amazing! But the only time the “squirting” happens is when I have a g-spot orgasm. When I have a clitoral orgasm, I don’t “squirt”. The g-spot orgasm is a totally different feeling. I swear it’s the best feeling in the world, and after he’s done “down there” I’m soaking wet and the sex is fantastic, leads to multiple orgasms almost everytime. Needless to say, I am a lucky woman, have a great sex life and I wish every woman could experience that feeling!
Amanda, enjoy your new skills.
I have been a squirter for about 15 years and I love it. It’s really just knowing your body and controlling it. It works best with a vibe, but my boyfriend can also get it out of me.
awesome!! I’d really love to know how to…
would love to learn hiw to squirt….my guy and i have an amazing sex life but know he would love this….please send some how to tips to me….wopuld appreciate it