Questions Men Hate…

April 21, 2009 by Sex_Goddess 

Let’s face it.  Men are not geared for the typical 30,000 words that women speak in a day.  For the most part, they fall back into rote responses like “uh huh” and “if you want” without listening to the discussion out of sheer survival.  Women often feel that asking questions is a good way to learn information from men; however, most men feel integrated and fall back into the need to lie about their thoughts.

While it is not secret that men and women do not communicate in the same way, there are some relationship-killer questions that every man hates.

Some of the most dreaded questions on the planet include:

  • How many women have you had sex with?  This is the ultimate trick question for most men.  While their male ego will not admit a low number, there sense of survival will not let them tell you the truth.  For some women, 5 partners can seem like a lot.  For others, 5 partners will seem inexperienced.  At best, this is the catch22 question that sends off warning signals of escape in the male brain.
  • Do you fantasize about sex with any of my girlfriends / sisters / female family members (or anyone you know)?  This is the “lie to me” question.  Most men are smart enough never to tell the truth when asked this question.  And really, you don’t want to know if he has sexy thoughts about your best girlfriend in a horizontal position.  What is most important is that he is into you enough not to act on those thoughts.
  • Where do you see this relationship going?  This question is so open-ended that there does not seem to be a right answer.  With unlimited answers from the short-term of attending a movie and dinner with some friends to a romantic getaway to a hotspot of choice for some rest & relaxation, the literal male mind goes haywire with the possibilities of providing a wrong answer.
  • When are we going to move in together / get engaged / get married?  Ahhh….the deadline question!  Whenever a woman asks this question, the pressure is on for a man to set a date in stone and move forward in the relationship.  More than that, it is like reaching into the air to set a date on something he has not considered.  The pressure and stress alone cause him to have to make up an answer to make you happy.
  • Do you think about other women while you are having sex with me?  OK.  Many women are tempted to ask this question.  Some women even jump across the boundaries to common sense to slip these words of disaster into a conversation.  Realistically, every woman wants to hear a man say “No!”  And men, knowing that is the right answer, say “No!”  In truth, if you want the truth, everyone fantasizes about someone else occasionally during sex.  That is why these thoughts are called fantasizes instead of late night movies.
  • Bonus:  Anything to do with masturbation!   Realizing this is not a question, it is here anyway because men consider this a highly sensitive topic.  Most men would rather discuss any of the above questions than whether their extra time in shower is really less about getting clean and more about getting dirty.  Proceed with extreme caution.

With a strong understanding of the pitfalls of inquiry for a relationship, know where to wait for an invitation to share information and where to stomp all over shaky ground can be a true asset as well as a sign of maturity.  Plus, knowing that these are not questions you would want to answer yourself goes a long way toward applying the golden rule of don’t ask, don’t tell!

If you have any suggestions for other questions men hate, then please share!

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Strip Tease Lessons Tips for Everyday Women

April 19, 2009 by Sex_Goddess 

Every woman is guilty of looking at another woman with a jealous eye.  With a catty remark about the realness of her assets to speculation about her means of support for her lifestyle, women the world over have a love-hate relationship with strippers because of their ability to gain attention from men. 

If you have ever wanted to learn the sexy moves that turn a man on, then a stripper might be your best friend in teaching you the art of strip tease with sexy strip tease lessons to make a man stand up (literally) and take notice of you. 

Here are some hints to make the most of your strip tease lessons:

Start off Slow:  The art of strip tease often requires controlled movements of muscles in combination with the music that might not feel natural in the beginning.  Start slow and allow your body to get accustomed to the feel of moving in unison to create a sensual effect.

Lighten Up:  Most women are hard wired to feel self-conscious about their body.  The quicker you learn to give your body (and you!) a break and lighten up to the moves of strip tease, the faster you will get a feel for it. 

Fake It Until You Make It:   Accept from the beginning of your strip tease class that your body, moves, and state of mind are not the same as the instructors or anyone else in your strip tease class.  Some people have a natural rhythm and will learn the strip tease moves very quickly while other struggle to simply hold on to the pole.  Don’t look around and compare yourself to others.  Appreciate yourself for making the attempt to learn strip tease.

Practice on the Sly:  The best way to build self-confidence about your strip tease moves is to practice in private.  Put on some sexy music and practice your strip tease moves in the mirror.  When you are able to see how your body moves, you will find ways to correct your strip tease and be surprised at how sexy you look when moving to the beat.  This will also give you confidence when you try it in front of a man.

Own It:  Although you might be a far cry from the level of a professional stripper with a few strip tease lessons, give yourself credit and do the moves that feel right for you.  Adjust the moves that you learned in your strip tease class to enhance and communicate the way you are feeling to your partner.

Although the movement and goal to learn strip tease moves might seem a little intimate at first, enjoy the music and give yourself over to sensuality of strip tease adds spicy pleasure to your relationships.  For most men, seeing a woman confident enough to try a strip tease is a huge turn on.  Don’t worry about whether you are doing the moves right or not.  In the end, the tease of watching you undress just for his pleasure will have your man home early every night.

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Master Your Man with Mind Blowing Hand Job

March 19, 2009 by Sex_Goddess 

When it comes to giving a good hand job, most women readily admit that they are all thumbs!  Men do not come with instruction manual on the proper care and maintenance of sexual appetites.  Another missing element is that most women have never actually seen a man pleasure himself through masturbation due to the social stigma attached to a hand job.  As the least discussed sexual pleasures, learning to give a great hand job is any woman’s way to get a handle on her man and blow his mind by unleashing the Sex Goddess.

So many to become the master of his universe, use these quick, easy hand job tips:

  • Pressure and Stroke:  Often the difference between pleasure and pain is simple applying pressure.  The thing to remember is that you are handling the most sensitive area of his body.  The nerve endings and sensations are intensified hundreds of times.  By varying the amount of pressure with the timing of the pressure, you are able to control his pleasure.  If you apply a slight pressure in your closed hand during a few long strokes, then change it up with only applying pressure near the head of his penis during faster short strokes, you will quickly find his pleasure points.
  • Comfort:  Because most men can last for a long time during masturbation of a hand job, make yourself comfortable before you start.  Like oral sex, a hand job can be performed on your knees between his thighs on your bed or lying next to him in a reclined position.  When you start off in a comfortable position, it avoids the need to stop, break the rhythm, and change positions.
  • Lip Service:  Many women make the mistake of forgetting the best lubricant on the planet…the warmth of the mouth.   Alternating oral sex with the stroking of a female hand, the saliva of your mouth provides a mixture of warm, wetness matched with gentle sucking and sensual strokes will bring shivers to his knees.
  • Take Direction:  Men, like women, give off subtle cues during passionate moments.  Listen to him breath, ask him if he likes what you are doing, and watch him move under your hand to see if you are pleasing him.  By putting his hand on you are during a hand job, he will give you direction even if he can’t form the words.  And, if you are doing it right, then he won’t be able to talk.
  • Two Hands are better than one:  Don’t forget to use your other hand to caress his body, play with his genitals, and add sensations to your hand job. 

If this is your first time giving your man a hand job, don’t be shy.  Enjoy touching him.  Showing him that you are willing to try until you master the techniques will go a long way toward sparking up your relationship.  

Do you have a hand job technique that sets your man on fire?  Please share!

(How to give a hand job – short, online videos of good and bad handjobs visit Hand Job Handbook )

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4 Steps to Seduce Your Husband

March 8, 2009 by Sex_Goddess 

After a few months of sweaty sex on every surface in the house flows into quickies before bed, the familiarity of marriage can lead to the frustration of bedroom boredom.  Many couples experience the downfall of their sex life due to the pressure of marriage leaving women wondering how to seduce their husband.  The secret to how to seduce your husband is easy.  It requires two fundamental components.

First, to seduce your husband, you have to be willing to add spice to your relationship by stepping outside of the familiarity of your everyday life.  Remember, using the element of surprise to seduce your husband will put you in a whole new light in his eyes by adding adventure and mystery to the woman he sees everyday in a house robe and slippers.

Second, the secret of how to seduce your husband is to become a sex diva for the night.  The main thing that every sex diva has over every other woman on the planet is self confidence.  She is ready to seduce a man and knows that she has the ability to do so.  Slip into her skin for a few hours and seduce your husband!

If you have noticed cold winds blowing from the direction of your sex life lately, then try these surefire tips seduce your husband:

  • Go On the Attack: So often, men are used to taking all of the risks in a relationship and making the sexual advances.  If you go on the sexual prowl to seduce him into acts of pleasure, then he gets the message that he is wanted and sexually attractive to you.  Nothing will seduce your husband faster than passionate intensity directed right at him.
  • In with the New: For every skill or talent, you must work to add new steps or hone your abilities.  Sex is the same.  Learning how to give a blow job or a new sexual position brings a whole new level of seduction to your game.  The best way to seduce your man with a new move like a hand job or a blow job is by using his body as a learning tool.  Inform him that you have always wanted the power to make him come with a hand job.  Now add a skimpy costume and some role playing to tip the scales in your favor.
  • Strip Away Your Inhabitations: Many women avoid stripping because they are self conscious about their body or feel clumsy next to the strippers they have seen on TV.  The key of how to seduce your husband using a strip tease is that effort is everything.  The impression of power when you visually present your body during a slow strip tease and the promise of sexual fulfillment with the erotic bump and grind of a lap dance.
  • Talk Dirty to Me: Aural sex (talking dirty) is extra sexy because you can do it anytime and anyplace.  In fact, the more discreet and inappropriate the place, the more seductive the temptation.  At your next dinner with friends or family, lean over to your hubby and briefly describe a sexual adventure you have planned for later that night.  Be dirty and add details.  Then, go back to your original conversation with the others without further discussion.

If you have any favorite tried and true tricks on how you seduce your husband, please share your naughtiest with us!

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Lap Dancing Lessons Buyers Guide

December 11, 2008 by Sex_Goddess 

lap dancing lessonsWhether you want lap dance lessons to add spice to a relationship or put some shake in your sexy stride, finding the right lap dance teacher can be a challenge.

Many women, because of the sexual nature of a lap dance, have difficulty acting on the impulse to learn the booty bump and grind that will elevate their game from passive participant to creative control.

Among the reasons to learn how to take lap dance lessons, the strongest argument is the freedom to become the sex goddess in control without using your hands. With these tasty tidbits of guidance, you can get the right lap dance lessons and still retain control of your comfort zones.

  • Quality over Quantity: With the nature of lap dance lessons, most women go to professional strippers or strip clubs thinking to find experts in lap dances.  In truth, a lap dance is an artistic dance taught by quality dance studios by professionally trained dance instructors.  Always seek lap dance lessons from instructors with qualifications and credentials to teach dancing in a qualified studio.
  • Find Your Crowd:  Although it might be a little uncomfortable to learn to lap dance with a group, it safer and you will feel less exposed once the lessons start if you have others trying to learn the same thing.  For extra fun, grab some girlfriends who want to have lap dance lessons and start a group of your own.  Not only will you get great group rates…you will feel more comfortable with friends around you giggling and encouraging you to get your groove on!
  • Leave out the Distractions: Any lap dance lessons will have one strong requirement:  NO MEN.  Because the goal is to learn to lap dance and not be the center of male attention, men are often prohibited as a matter of rules from the lap dance lessons to avoid distraction and keep you from feeling uncomfortable in a sexual setting.  If you are thinking that you would like to include a man in your lap dance lessons, consult your instructor ahead of time for private lessons and rules.
  • Formal Wear: Many dance studios that teach lap dance lessons will have strong ideas and suggestions about what you should wear.  From guidance about the proper shoes to the types of clothing you should wear to become the mistress of the bump and grind, be sure you are aware of these suggestions ahead of time.  Because you instructor teaches lap dance lessons many times a month, she will know what you should wear to make sure you are the most comfortable and ready to learn when you arrive at the studio.
  • You are Surrounded: Always make sure that your surrounds for your lap dance lessons are clean and professionally kept.  Although some instructors teach lap dance lessons out of their home studio or share a dance studio with other instructors, your lap dance lessons at the very least should be in a private setting with a comfortable environment that does not make you wonder if you are in bad side of town or the water is safe to drink.  You are looking for sexy…not a sexually transmitted disease!

The common thread between all of these tips for getting the most from your decision to buy lap dance lessons is appreciating your own comfort zone.  Because the sexual nature of lap dance lesson is very personal, you can take some extra credit and head over to www.lapdanceunleashed.com to sign up for the free newsletter full of tips, tricks, and routines to sharpen your lap dance skills from the comfort of your own home!  Talk about comfortable!

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Six Signals: How to Know When a Guy Likes You

November 26, 2008 by Sex_Goddess 

How to know when a guy likes you

As little girls, do you have memories of torturing the poor petals of flower to the rhythm of “he loves me, he loves me not?” Don’t we all?

It seems to be that we start early on our quest to understand how to tell if a guy likes you. Contrary to the melody musings of Cher, the key to understanding how a man feels about you is not in his kiss unless you are looking for passion to stroke your pride. If, instead, you are seeking the true answer to how to know when a guy likes you, then here are six easy ways to form your own Get-A-Guy checklist:

  1. Fumble, Stumble, Grumble. Men are not the masters of communication. I know. I know. Big surprise there! But the answer you seek to know if a guy likes you can be found in any changes in the way he expresses himself. If a naturally outgoing guy suddenly turns quiet or shy in your presence, then the chances are very good that he likes you. Because he cares what you think past his usual guy ego of wanting to impress the ladies, he is trying to make a good impression. So, when he fumbles, stumbles, or grumbles in a mass of unusually awkward ways, his body and mind are enjoy the mixed signals of your smile.
  2. Peeling the Onion. Because most men are not built to reveal 25,000 words on each meeting, the one of the subtle ways to know when a guy likes you is if he asks questions that require you to share your life. In a non-stalker, mobster turned CIA informant way, asking you questions about where you grew up, what you like to do in your spare time, and what you like to read are all ways that he is showing that he likes you enough to engage in your answers.
  3. New Crew. Among the long standing “how to tell when a guy likes you” rules is if he introduces you to the people in his life. That means he is showing you off as an important facet in his life to the people he cares for and loves. But, if he seeks to put together a mixture of your favorite people with his favorite people, then he is seeking to establish you as a couple with a long lasting relationship.
  4. Furious Focus. Did you see that pretty girl walk by? Did he see her? If he watches you while you talk and gives you his focus, then the chance improve that this guy likes you. Many men naturally, with innocent intentions, check out other women while they are sitting with a woman. It’s like shopping for cereal or shampoo. But, you can be sure that a guy likes you when you sit with him in a public place and his focus is on you…even if Britney Spears walked by!
  5. Reason Please. A great sign that a guy likes you is when he starts making up reasons to see or talk to you again during the present meeting. When he cannot seem to wait to talk to you or see you again, you can be relatively sure this guy likes you. And, the sillier or no-reason the reason is the greater the indicator of his affection.
  6. Collateral Respect. The first sign that a guy is into you is in the change of respect he shows you. You can tell that he likes you if he asks your opinion on simple or complex things. However, the true test of how to know when a guy likes you is when there is collateral respect. He respects the people around you…your friends, family, or co-workers…as extensions of your life.

Although how to know when a guy likes you might be a burning question in your mind right now, as each of these items measure up against his behavior you will start to get a good picture of the man you are seeking to bring into your life. Just remember, now that you know how to tell when a guy likes you… use your power for good and share it with other women.

Have a great story about how you knew when a guy liked you or a tip to share? Don’t be shy…share it with us!

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Three Ways to Learn to Lap Dance

November 25, 2008 by Sex_Goddess 

learn to lap danceIf you are ready to learn to lap dance to set your man on fire and give yourself that “Master your Man” glow, then you have come to the right place because we know all of the juicy details about the learning the booty roll!

Men are never too old to appreciate a woman who has a strong sense of sexuality and guts to shake her booty.  But, making a commitment to learn to lap dance can skyrocket you into dance floor diva and start his mind bubbling with ways you can add extra sizzle to sex.

Yes, most men do not hide the fact that a woman who can control the junk in her truck is more sexually exciting.  Even more than that, you will gain an added dose of confidence when his eyes stroke the curves of your bottom like tight jeans with anticipation of teasing him with some solo bump and grind.  With some confidence and by finding your type of woman, you can pick the most comfortable way to learn to lap dance from these sensual options:

  • Slow and Steady: Many women find that reading about the night moves of how to learn to lap dance is the best way to bring extra sexy to their game.  Though there are a few books on the market about how to lap dance, the best ones follow the simple idea that a picture is worth a thousand words.  At first, it might be difficult to read and then translate the moves into your own actions, but with some work you will learn to lap dance.
  • Play It Again: If you are somewhat shy about getting your groove on in front of another person, then learning to lap dance will add excitement to your sex life as well as give you the confidence of control.   With some great audios and videos on the market, the combination of both is the best methods because you learn to lap dance with a visual aid and the reinforcement of a verbal instruction.Plus, you have the extra benefit of giving yourself all of the time you need to go from dysfunctional to diva that rocks his world because you can review the materials unlimited times without extra cost.  This is the method used in the hottest new lap dance instruction to hit both coasts in 2o years, The Lap Dance Unleashed.   This series gives tips on everything from how to groom your body to how to add sex to your stroll in an easy to understand combination of pictures, audio, and video with an acclaimed lap dance expert…all from the comfort of your own home.
  • Bring on the Bump and Grind: Some women find themselves inept in the ways of lap dance without the hands on guidance of a professional instructor.  Don’t be shy.  Get some girlfriends together for a strip-a-thon or fly solo on your sensual soaring of self discovery!  Either way, get a teacher and get started.

The key to successfully learning to lap dance is to practice, practice, practice…and remember, this is one place where you man will appreciate your on the job training.  No matter which way you learn to lap dance, you can get tons of free newsletter full of tips and tricks at www.lapdanceunleashed.com to get the inside scoop on moves and maneuvers to send your guy into a frenzy of passion and keep his eyes on you at all times.

After all, that is why you want to learn to lap dance right…to Master Your Man!

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How to Have Sex like Britney Spears or Pam Anderson

November 11, 2008 by Sex_Goddess 

How to Have Sex like Britney Spears or Pam AndersonIf the passion romps of Britney Spears or Pamela Anderson splashed across the front page of gossip magazines peeks your interest in a non-need to sexually expose yourself in public kind of way, then you have come to the right place to unleash your inner sex-kitten.  In truth, many women spend time copying the styles of famous vixens while wondering how to have sex like Britney Spears or Pamela Anderson.  With all of the videos floating around in the web, practically everyone has seen the best the play by play sexual mojo of Britney Spears and Pamela Anderson.

Representing two ends of the spectrum for sassy women, the twenty-something wild child and the MILF Playboy pin-up do share a few sexy secrets hidden away in for groove enhancing moves.  To have sizzling sex like Pam Anderson or Britney Spears, consider this the ABCs to getting down and dirty with the man of your choice:

  • Align Your Attraction: If you have ever watched Britney Spears with her little Catholic girl skirt or Pam Anderson with her bottom cleavage exposing shirts, you will see that each woman has aligned her attraction to her own best features…and EVERY woman has something sexy about her.  Whether it is your hair, fingernails, eyes, or butt, promote the positives to bring the sex goddess out in you and give yourself permission to have sex like Britney or Pam.
  • Break Out of Your Box: Every woman has one or two things that she is dying to try with the right man.  With either a new sexual position or a new place to pounce on your partner, you are armed and ready to kick your sex life into high gear with some night moves of your own.  One of the essential keys to achieving sex like Pamela Anderson is the element of surprise that adds that extra dash of spice to dazzle your man into seeing you in a different light.
  • Create Confidence: Many women forget that the most powerfully sexy thing they can slip on is confidence.  Whether walking into a room full of other women or planning your play for a one on one night of passion, having knock-your-stilettos-off sex like Britney Spears involves creating an air of confidence in your walk, smile, and body language.  If feel confidence (even if you have to fake it until you make it!), you will exude sexuality to your man.
  • Define Your Desires: By defining your desires, you learn the true secret of igniting the fire of having sex like Britney Spears or Pam Anderson.  Knowing what turns you on, how you sexually react to certain strokes, and where your pleasure points are located will always give you a map to guide your man.  In reality, part of learning to have sex like Pam Anderson or Britney Spears is knowing how your body react to sexual pleasure, so explore your body with your fingers, your favorite sex toy, or your favorite man!
  • Enhance Your Ecstasy: Speaking of sex toys, no matter if you feel that slight rush of embarrassment or tingle of temptation to find out what the craze is for the hottest sex toys buzzing in bedrooms everywhere, then now is the time to get off on that path.  Not only will you learn the sensual secrets of sex like Pam Anderson or Britney Spears with the pretty sex toys that vibrate for your pleasure, you can use them with your partner to double your pleasure and double your fun!

If you some sexy moves of your own that would make Britney Spears or Pam Anderson green with jealousy, then share them with us today.  We love to learn and play!

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Super Sexy Secrets for Hot Exotic Dances

October 30, 2008 by Sex_Goddess 

exotic dance, pleasing your man, sexuality, strip for your man, strip teaseIf you have always wanted to be one of those women who can make a man burn with lust with the perfect exotic dance, then welcome to your one stop shop for information that gets down and dirty with the bump and grind!

Ready to play?  Keep reading!

If you are ready to bring out your inner sex goddess with some spicy dance steps to light a fire under your  man, then gather up your confidence and get ready to step off high heel deep into sexy.  Of course, there are a few first steps that you will need to know to add erotic spice to your exotic dances.  Some of mistresses of the solo tango suggest such things as:

  • Music Muse: Find music that makes you feel too sexy for your panties.  Test your exotic dance moves out in front of a mirror to the sounds of your favorite music to mentally masturbate and show your stuff.  This will help you feel stronger later because you will have previewed the show.
  • Ease, Not Freeze: In an effort to be sexy during their exotic dance, some women feel the need to wear stilettos or fancy lingerie they do not usually wear.  Using clothing that can easily be slipped off to reveal some skin and shoes that are stable is essential.  Last thing you want to do is have a wardrobe malfunction during your big moment on dancing for your man!
  • Set Your Stage: Most women forget that a man will watch their exotic dance show with fascination and appreciation for the effort.  So, bring props like a scarf to tie his hands or get creative with body paints.  Do not feel like you are stuck in one place taking off layer after layer of clothing.  Add some additional interaction by giving him some dollar bills to tuck into your cleavage during the exotic dance.
  • Slow and Steady: If you feel uncomfortable being the focus of his amorous attentions at first, then you might feel the need to hurry through your exotic dance.  Remember, the best part of any exotic dance is the power of performance to slowly promise with your actions and tease with your movements.  So, even though you might feel the need to flee, fake it until you make it and focus on how good you body feels moving to the music.
  • Assume a Fake Identity: Some of the fun of an exotic dance is being who you please and expressing your sexuality for the enticement of your man!  Get in the game and make up a name for yourself…if it turns you on.  Wear a mask to preserve the mystery and give yourself a boost of confidence for that exotic dance that you did not learn in ballet class!

From the first woman to sway out on the stage with rhythm in her hips and an invitation to play on her mind, one thing has stayed the same.  Exotic dance previews the sexual antics and melody of moves his women employees to entice him into her sensual web of seduction.  In truth, there is no such thing as the perfect passionate performance.  But, letting yourself go to enjoy the movements and pleasure of exotic dance for your man will quickly light his fire as well as your own!

Have any exotic dance tips or tricks of your own that you use to light up your man on a cold winter night?  Share your favorite experiences with us!

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Hot Exotic Dances You Can Do For Your Man

October 27, 2008 by Sex_Goddess 

strip, strip for your man, strip tease, So you want to shake up your man’s mojo with some sexy exotic dance moves that will have him day dreaming about your dangerous curves of pleasure.  Good, then you are so in the right place to learn the best way to turn your moves from nice to naughty just in time for Christmas!

First things first, right up there with confidence in your ability to provoke your man to squirm in his seat with exotic dance moves that strokes his male parts is the realization that there are many different types of exotic dance.

To unleash the exotic dance diva deep in your soul, consider these fabulous favorites:

  • Strip Tease: A striptease is the most time honored and easiest of the exotic dances.  After all, you are only removing your clothes to a beat right?  Wrong!  Take some time to plan the right time and place.  Add some spice with props and check your wardrobe.  The most common mistake that most women make is wearing lingerie that is overly complicated and hard to remove once in the candle light.  Practice a few times to make sure that the seduction is smooth so you feel sexy.  And, when you have his attention, don’t get nervous and move to fast.  It is not a race.  Enjoy teasing and tempting him with your sensual efforts.
  • Pole Dancing: Pole dancing adds the unique element of balance to the art of exotic dance.  Some practice will teach you that sweaty skin sticks to the pole and prevent a smooth slide.  Also, by practicing with a pole, you will learn what shoes and costume works best for your exotic dance moves.  Take the extra step of renting a video to show you the best pole dancing moves or take a class with an exotic dancer.  The small investment will boost your confidence and give you some great hints to help you enjoy your pole as much as he does.
  • Lap Dancing: For most men, lap dances are a guilty pleasure.  The secret to giving a great lap dance is simply rolling of your butt against his lap.  Much like masturbation with your ass, slowly stroking his male parts with long, grinding motions will bring sparks to his crotch.
  • Booty Shake: The booty shake is the revenge for all of us girls with extra junk in our trunk!  A good booty shake will get attention with visuals of doggy style sex.  Although the booty shake is not difficult to learn, it can be more difficult for women with a smaller booty.
  • Belly Dancing: Belly dancing, considered the sensual sister of the other more sexual exotic dances, is a matter of manipulating the muscles and movements of the body in inviting ways that imitate sexual intercourse.  It is easy to visualize the pleasures of sex with a woman practiced in the art of belly dancing because it shows a level of interest in expressing sexuality through the movements of the body.  For many women, it takes years of practice with a teacher to learn the expressions of the body that compose the art of belly dancing.

With different flavors to flaunt your sexy side to seduce your man, you will want to add all of these moves to your racy repertoire of exotic dance drama.  Have any experiences with any of these forms of exotic dances?

Share with us which ones is your favorite and what you use to turn your man!

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