3 Things Men Like to Watch
November 14, 2009 by Archer
Sometimes the best way to get a mans attention is to shock his senses…Give him a jolt to his “sexual nervous system.”
How do you give him a jolt?
When guys were asked “What’s the sexiest thing you love to watch a woman do?”
…they didn’t answer “doing taxes” or “changing a flat tire” even though they are very helpful activities.
What did men say was the sexiest sight to their eyes?
#1 Over half of men said “A woman touching herself in front of him”
Touching yourself = self pleasure, ie. masturbation.
It’s simple…He wants to see you enjoying your body and sex. He wants to know you enjoy pleasuring yourself as much as he does. He wants to see you enjoying yourself and your body – they way he enjoys your body. PLUS…it’s just a bit of naughty fun, isn’t it?
I’d recommend to start by touching yourself over your panties then slowly graduating to masturbation with your fingers and then possibly to a toy. Don’t neglect the other sensual parts of your body.
Challenge yourself. Can you bring yourself to climax in front of him? You’ll score big points if you do.
For some women touching themselves in front of him seems a bit too … exposed. Get over it! The first minute may feel a bit awkward but time cures all.
Tip: When you are pleasuring yourself, close your eyes for a few moments and focus on how good it feels. The “weirdness” feeling will pass and after a minute are two you’ll begin to enjoy yourself…in front of him!
#2 Making eye contact as she touches his penis
Without eye contact you might as well be making love to a mannequin.
The only thing men like more than having their penis touched … is having a beautiful woman look into his eyes when she does it! Honestly, it makes your heart beat fast and quickens the breath.
Have you ever tried to have a conversation with someone who is looking away or avoiding your eyes? Weird, isn’t it?
Your eyes are your connection to him and him to you. Looking into someone’s eyes is very powerful but 10X more powerful during moments of intimacy and sincerity.
#3 Doing a sensual, slow striptease for him
Remember the jolt to the system I was talking about?
Imagine how visually stimulated your man will get when you combine :
- a sensual striptease
- with touching yourself
- and eye contact?
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yea im so gonna try all of these with my boyfriend! Hell yea lol
i couldnt do that… i dunno, it’d just be a bit awkward… so i think anyway… and do guys care about, bits of chubb on a girl, or extended labia or wateva, cause thats the only reason im really self concious bout my body…
I think this is a great idea I will be trying this out! Thanks for the insight!
yup all thoses are true, my boyfriend loves all of those things especially when i do it without him askin. great tips anyways though!
Bec, – do guys care about bits of chubb? – NO, we’re too busy watching the more interesting bits & what you’re doing! Extended Labia – Love it!!!!!!! Seriously, I cannot imagine why that could ever possibly ever be a problem for a bloke??? Don’t be self conscious if they are your only probs!
Just do the feel good bits and you’re on a winner!
Jaff
This is so true. And combining all three is heaven. Women should understand this and do it until they truly enjoy it. Women so want their man to desire and lust for them–to be so aroused by their looks and personality that they just have to take them, sensually and passionately. Doing these things would get me instantly aroused and push me over the edge. Such a simple thing and yet many women don’t do it. Some are too self conscious, but that is the worst thing you can be. That kills the mood straight away. If you’re doing these things you WILL be HOT. We WILL want YOU. I’m all for women’s lib and equality, but in the bedroom, women should be women; as a consequence men will be men. You’ll spark our desire, make us want you and you will feel desired, cherished, and sexy.
I have suggested things like this to my girlfried, hinted at it or even directly, and she is too prude to do it. It takes a lot of effort to get her to do or try something new. I don’t know why. And I never force things on her. That is probably one of the reasons things are not good between us. I don’t feel desired by her.
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When my boyfriend travels, or when we are apart usually I’m doing naughty stuff on the webcam. He gets really aroused when he watches me, and I have found that even though I was self concious at first that I enjoyed knowing that he was being pleased far more then i was worried about being self concious. So go for it ladies and watch him wiggle and squirm with the need to have you!!!