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“Man Facts on Twitter”

If you like convenience of text messaging, you’ll love Twitter…a micro-blog that anyone can signup and use in 5 min flat.

Initially, I thought this was a total waste of time despite my affection for mobile text messages. But I found it a perfect use as a news stream that keeps me updated in real-time. I simply ‘follow’ industry websites, pundits, financial gurus, entertainers, products (like Apple’s iPhone) and Twitter displays a live, scrolling news feed.

(BTW anyone can use Twitter, totally free, to tell the world what they feel is important…from politics, celebrity gossip to your passion for unicorns)

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Sex Secrets of an American Geisha

Sex Secrets of an American Geisha – 12 Highlights

by Kim Conant

Great title and creative angle … but, what I liked most about Geisha is that it was surprising bang on the money!  She echoes most of my own beliefs about healthy sex and relationships.

As a man, I can’t argue with too much of what she’s teaching. All I can say is…her man, Mr. Conant, must be very happy.

Feminist will NOT like this book. It can easily be misunderstood as being submissive to your man and giving away your power. I disagree. I think it’s more about building power by building up your femininity.

1) Develop the Geisha Mindset

Yin is feminine energy. Yang is masculine.

Men love and are attracted to the opposite Yin feminine energy. Therefor to be Geisha is the expertly develop your Yin or feminine side. Yang is attracted in Yin.

But some people make the mistake of trying to force, manipulate or mold their lover into being the ‘way they want.’ Geishas understand it is much better to ‘inspire’ using her personality, kindness, beauty and femininity to treat her like a worshiped woman.

Ah ha! This could be the reason some men fall all over themselves for some women and not others….some are overtly more feminine than others….and are expert at displaying it.

2) Stay sexy, feminine and beautiful

Above all do what is required to be and stay your feminine best and ladylike.

Although Kim discusses strategies for smart eating, weight loss and keeping ‘fit’ she says it is not necessary to be ‘thin’ to be feminine.

Bottom line…want to attract a/your man you need to cultivate and develop your femininity.

ie. ‘Build it and men will come!’

3) Give all credit for your orgasms to your man.

I’ll give Kim credit, she knows men. She’s right on the money with this one and I’ve mentioned it often. She realizes its important to do this because nothing boosts a man’s ego more than truly pleasing his woman.

If you claim all the credit for your orgasm you can damage his already delicate male ego. It’s such a small thing to ask to make a man happy. Give him the credit! Why not? You already got the orgasm…do your really need the credit, too?

4) Enthusiasm

Basically, if his enthusiasm for sex is unmatched (and visa versa) there will likely be problems. Match his enthusiasm. If your man senses an lack of real enthusiasm or passion in the bedroom he’ll likely translate it as ‘you’re just not into him.’

5) Discover your g-spot (if you haven’t already) & learn female ejaculation (squirting)

Kim knows how to squirt. She goes into great detail about her own female ejaculation, how wonderful it is, how much men enjoy it and how it was desirable even in ancient times BUT doesn’t get into detail about how to squirt.

6) Ancient Sex Advice About Pubic Hair

Su Nu, one of at least 3 sex advisors to Chinese emporer Huang Ti in 2678 bc ( it’s good to be king) advised that the desirable female lover has a hairless Venus (vagina). So I guess mowing the front lawn is not as new as I thought.

She also suggest to look at your vagina and be proud of it. (She actually uses the C word. Geez!)

7) Use Toys But…

Kim empowers women to own their pleasure and orgasms. She is is a big advocate of watching adult videos (she even says ‘the kind without stories’)  and sex toys. BUT again, just because you got a battery operated assist you still need to give him all the credit for your orgasm.

4 Characteristics of a Good Man

1. He has good values
2. He is aware, conscious and responsible. (I hope so, especially #2 lol)
3. He’s nice and supportive of you
4. Positive optimistic and happy.

Make a list of what each characteristic and specifically what it means to you.

Key: Pay attention to what you does NOT what he says

Be on the lookout for this man, always. When dating Discover if he has these things ASAP…before wasting time, money, energy and reputation on him.

Reputation…I’d agree that I’ve lost interest in a few women after learning about a past love interest. “She went out with that douche bag? Gross!”

9) Single Ladies: Speak up for your need to get married.

Take it from a guy…men will delay getting married (if you let him get away with it) for as long as he can unless you apply at least a little bit of pressure.

Kim suggests telling him you expect to be married within 12-18 months and he should be ready to propose 2 months of your suggestion OR he’s not a good man, ready to commit or dragging his feet. Either way you deserve his commitment.

10) Sex Before Marriage

Kim is OK with sex before marriage BUT not without commitment.

She explains that Geisha are primarily for companionship not sex. In fact, sex is bad for business. If a Geisha sleeps around with any and all clients, especially some of ‘social lower status’ it lowers her worth. She must therefor save the privilege of sex for the 1 client with the ‘highest status.’ Other men may pursue but never achieve the prize if she wants to stay in business long-term.

Geisha lesson for women who want to get a guy to commit to her…HOLD OUT and make him work for it, prove himself with his actions and pursue.

How long? She suggests waiting several weeks or months. (I’d agree that would weed out most guys looking to just get their rocks off with you)

She also emphasized, wisely, that don’t get commitment in the heat of the moment ie. when his pants are around his ankles and he’s throbbing. “Do you love me and promise to marry me?”

Kim says…“you definitely want to avoid having sex at any time with any man who is not a Good Man”

…doing so will increase your social ‘stature’ to other ‘Good Men’

11) His Greatest Fear is that you’ll change after you get married

I don’t think I need to explain this one. You likely have the same fear about your man.

12) Be Different And Better than other women

I know a woman who’s goal it is to always to be the most feminine and beautiful woman in the room for her man. Great goal…takes hard work and determination but good goal. I believe men and women have the ability to age like a fine wine or scotch.

‘Create a Shrine To His Cock’ – LOL!

OK, frankly, I think this is kind of overboard and I’m not on board with this suggestion of Kim’s.She suggests to literally ‘build a shrine’ with photos and candles.

Yikes! I hope her worship doesn’t involve blood sacrifice. I don’t think I’d like to wake up looking at my own personal cock shrine.

What I think she’s getting at is learn to love HIS cock and express it to him.

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Kim has some great ideas on eating, grooming, beauty and personal development that I confess to just glancing over.

Kim also has guidelines for men too like wearing his wedding ring 24/7, let her spend time with her girlfriends and doing chores to name a few.

[Editor Jay Archer: As always I welcome and look forward to your feedback below]

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Who Wants To Have Cock Tales?

I’m curious, who is interested in getting to together for ‘Cock Tales?’

NO, this is not some indecent proposal. Let me explain…

A seminar for woman only?

1. I was going to hold a seminar for women only on ‘Building Sexual Confidence‘ but felt it was a bit dry.

2. Then I thought, what about making it a fun evening for women only?

3. Then, someone suggested I combine the idea. SO, What about this…?

- Cocktails and wine
- Decadent chocolate
- Massages, manicures etc..
- Prizes, swag bags and lots of free stuff
- Fun games
- OH, let’s not forget Expert talks and presentations on strategies to ‘Build Sexual Confidence’ affectionately dubbed (by yours truly) ‘Cock Tales‘

Concept: The idea is more of a ladies night out, meets spa party, meets seminar, meets naughty Oprah.

Where: Beautiful Vancouver, BC, Canada

When: Early to mid July on a weekday evening.

I realize you live all over the world and may not have the opportunity to come and I’m very sorry.

Who’s In? By a show of  ‘comments’, below…

1. Is this a stupid idea?
2. Would you like to attend?
3. Will you try to attend?
4. Suggestions?

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My Man Loves It When I…

Ladies, start your keyboards! Share a tip on how to satisfy your man

Why?

1. Based on some of the comments I’ve read there are some pretty knowledgeable lovers among us.
2. Sharing tips is fun, isn’t it?

How to Satisfy Your Man?

How? Finish this sentence… “My man loves it when I…”

Now, let ‘er rip!

Remember to come back and feel free to comment on tips.

[Editor: I will do my best to stay on top of comments and put my Alpha Male seal of approval on deserving tips. To ALL contributors - thanks in advance]

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Is Technology Hurting Your Love Life?

I’ve been hearing these kinds of comments from single people more and more recently:

“He won’t friend me on facebook”

“She is still friends with with her ex on facebook!?”

“We have been texting back and forth for 3 weeks now. I can’t understand why it hasn’t gone to the next level”

These are comments you’d expect from teenagers NOT your lawyer friend, aren’t they?

Technology, especially social media, are seductive forms of communication without really connecting with someone. Facebook and text messaging are just electronic flirting. And it’s all BS!

People measure and judge their popularity by the amount of people who have Facebook ‘friended’ them. They measure how much they’re loved by the number of messages they receive both on Facebook and mobile.

It’s disturbing when I go out in the evening and see beautiful women, dressed to kill, sitting in groups of other beautiful women, faces down starring into glowing mobiles sending and receiving messages. All the while neglecting the chance to make real connections with flesh and blood standing all around them. Then, they complain about how they can’t find anyone.

Gaaaaaaaaa! Sorry, I’m choking on irony.

Facebook and texting are are just ways to give yourself a false sense of popularity and feel loved.   (Yikes! That’s going to sting for some ladies reading this). They require:

1. No courage

How much courage aka ‘balls’ does it take to text a woman versus call to ask her out?

2. No Skill

How much easier is it to juggle several women/men versus arrange to meet, have an engaging conversation and really get to know someone?

3. No Commitment

It’s easy for you or him to juggle multiple interested parties without really committing with today’s technology, isn’t it? You can admit it.

Where’s the chivalry?

How will you get engaged to be married or at least have a deep, meaningful relationship if you don’t truthfully engage with people?

Nobody wants to be in a relationship with your avatar! (Avatar = An electronic likeness of you)

Get Some Standards

This is the advice I gave to a friend.

I’d draw a firm line in the sand and drop anyone who is not willing to accept your line. Be strong, committed and expect resistance.

1. Long Text Messages

Text messages longer than “I’ll be 10 min late” or “I had a wonderful time last night. xoxo” require both of you to pick up the phone. If he wants a conversation he has to call you.

Text him that reply to his long winded text messages.

BTW, if he’s not willing to talk to you on the phone he’s probably texting and juggling several women at once.

2. No getting to know you over email or facebook.

If he wants to know all about you you need to meet in person – unless he has a good excuse like being in prison or living on the other side of the world. So keep the phone conversations short and sweet, arrange to meet in person, if you discover after a few dates he’s he’s not the one – DROP HIM politely and move on.

I mean, come on, if you are considering having sex with someone, have their children or would you make that decision based on the quality of their messages? You have to meet in person.

Develop some standards, draw a hard line in the sand AND stick to it! Trust me, your status as a single woman and quality of your relationships depend on it.

And if nothing else you will be a strong, rare women amongst a flock of texting sheep.

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The Joys Of Gagging?

I often get asked Q: “How do I stop gagging during blow jobs?”

Sometimes I reply “Why would you want to?” Let me explain…

‘Gagging’ Definition - when the head of his penis triggers your gag reflex during oral sex – causing one to make the sound ‘gaaaa.’

Ironically, to men gagging is a compliment. Like belching after a meal is a compliment to the host or cook is in some cultures. (OK…gross analogy. Sorry)

Is it juvenile? YES. Does it feel good for our stupid male ego? Yes. It’s like saying “Wow! Your cock is so big! I can’t take it!” Actions speak louder than words, don’t they?

No, gagging is not the most pleasant thing or the most comfortable. In fact it’s kind of counter intuitive that something normally associated with something disgusting or being sick can be a compliment.

Am I saying men want you to gag or you should gag? NO! I’m simply hoping to ease your anxiety or embarrassment about it. Hey, gagging happens! Don’t worry. Men understand and it’s kind of cute. Just be mindful to not let gagging get in the way of being enthusiastic about oral sex, OK?

You may want to give a deepthroat blow job and that skill can be learned. Absolutely! (Let me tell you, there is nothing quite like a good deep throat)  But for now, until you can master the deep throat just work it into your routine…Look up at him with your teary, doe eyes and say “It’s so big.”

To a man that phrase is like standing on a podium in front of an audience, accepting an award and flash bulbs are going off all around!

by an Alpha Male – Jay Archer
Master Your Man.com

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Wax, Trim or Bikini Shave – A Man’s View

Do men prefer an unshaved or bare kitty?

(Actually, I like the nickname ‘bunny’ because…come to think of it, I don’t know why. It must have been something I came up with in a moment of passion. LOL)

I can tell you from my personal male experience, there is a moment of sheer terror when removing a woman’s panties just thinking about the possibility that I could be going down a road and come across a big mess of hairy…roadkill. (The opposite of that adorable, cute, pink bunny)

Every man I’ve ever discussed this with agrees we all do a silent prayer at the pantie removal moment of truth…

Please shave bikini line. Please be shaved. Please be shaved. SHAVE!

Do I like a women to have a 100% clean and bare kitty ? Yes.

Is it critical to me to have 100% biking hair removal? NO. I’m a big fan of bikini shaving a landing strip about 1 or 2 finger widths – but shaved or waxed on both sides and underneath.

Do I prefer bikini shaving or waxing? Personally, I’m not picky. I appreciate a Brazilian wax is not the most pleasant experience since I’ve been on the receiving end. But, every man can appreciate a freshly waxed kitty that’s ripe to be pet, love and dined on.

Bottom line (pardon the pun) no guy I know enjoys a hair salad. Listed from Hot=1 to Not=4:

1. Brazilian
2. Landing Strip (shaved or waxed)
3. 100% Shaved
4. Trimmed short
5. Oh Natural

When your kitty is 100% bare it looks great, it feels greatduring oral and sex. If you’ve never done it you’ll notice you’ll feel more ‘wet’ during sex. This could be a subtle little trick to up the passion because us stupid men think ‘more wet’ means more excited – and that makes us feel more…manly.

“Look! Me do that. Me big man.” [beating chest]

It also shows you care about the little details and you went the extra mile just for us. That’s hot!

Don’t believe me? Ask some men what they think.

To men, it doesn’t really matter what hair removal system or method you use. Try different bikini hair removal systems and see what works for you, but keep your kitty pretty.

Isn’t it ironic, the bikini hair removal style men most like is also the most difficulty or uncomfortable to achieve?

For the record – I think men should show the same courtesy and manscape their front lawn, too. It’s just polite.

TIP: I find shaving my face in a hot shower gives me the best shave.

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When you’re bare – it shows you care.

A man’s view by an Alpha Male

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Mars and Venus In The Bedroom – Book Highlights

by John Gray, PhD

If I had to summarize this book – in a nutshell it would be 1. Men and women are different so 2. only when you strive to understand how the other sex is different and either get over your misunderstandings OR work around their ‘being different’ can you achieve a fulfilling sex life and loving relationship.

With day-to-day life survival taking precedence over relationship men forget their feelings and women forget their sensual longings.

A secret of great sex is for the man to slowly tease his woman into a state of hightened arousal.

Men need sex to feel. Women like to talk about feelings – men experience feelings through sex.

Sexual confidence is the absolute ultimate turn-on.

* A woman’s greatest ability to please her husband or fulfill a man is through helping him be successful in fulfilling her. (Archer:: So assist him in achieving his goal!)

a good male lover puts her orgasm first before his.

As a relationship goes on some men forget it was the slower approach that help her reach maximum arousal.

What makes sex fulfilling for a man is a woman’s fulfillment. (Archer: Ladies, the best thing you could do for your sex life is to relax and learn to become more orgasmic)

Quickies – have them.

Men who feel repeatedly rejected – begin to have wandering eyes. (Not that they’ll actually cheat)

To maintain passion and attraction men need CLEAR messages that she loves and enjoys sex with him.

#1 Reason couple having less sex…men feel rejected and women don’t feel romanced & understood.

#1 Reason men have affairs is they don’t understand they have the ability to reawaken their partners sexuality.

Generally, a loving relationship comes first BUT sometimes a exceptional sex life can reignite your relationship.

When a woman initiates sex in an indirect manner, she ensures that her partner can find his masculine side that desires her and seeks to pursue her.

** To keep a man attracted to her, a woman does not need to compete with the fantasy woman of the media and strive to create a perfect body. Instead, she needs to work toward communicating positive and nonrejecting messages about sex.

A woman can better understand a man’s sexual sensitivities about feelings, communication, and intimacy.

Just as great communication opens a woman up to enjoy great sex, the possibility of great sex directly helps a man to be more loving in a relationship.

Because a man cannot fake his arousal as a woman can, he feels a greater pressure to perform.

Take responsibility for your own pleasure. (This is a profound statement)

Predictability is a turn-off. Shift rhythms and movements

Jay Archer: Is ‘Mars and Venus in the Bedroom‘ by John Gray worth the read? Maybe. I personally think it would be helpful to include more detailed techniques and ‘how-to’ – but it is easy to read and insightful.

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