How You Can Get Away With Anything

…  OR the key to understanding men

Last time I told you the story of Chris and Kim’s and  “How to Reject a Man…The Wrong way”

UPDATE: Chris begged to take me for drinks and get my advice.

I won’t bore you with the details but it turns out she is still actively playing the field & keeping her options open with an active profile on a popular dating site plus some suspect facebook flirting. He confronted her about it with some facts – she lied to his face. Big blow-out. They broke up.

My response, “Look Chris, maybe she’s just not into you as much as you are into her. I know you want to believe otherwise but your gut instinct told you she wasn’t trustworthy and now you have proof. I know you feel for her but she did you a favour – move on. ”

Well guess what – they’re back together again! Want to know why?

He told me, “Well, I DO have feelings for her and the sex is way too good.”

To summarize…

1) He is more committed to her than she is to him.

2) She lied to him about something BIG

3) He is a doormat

Why?

What is the lesson you need to understand about men?  You can get away with almost anything…if the sex is amazing together.

Ask yourself ‘How amazing and passionate is your sex life?’

Telling like it is,
The Alpha Male

PS: This is NOT implying or encouraging cheating OR being unfaithful. If you didn’t get the point – backup and read it again – slower!

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Why To Striptease Demystified

“Why do some men love to watch a woman strip? What is it that they find so seductive and sexy?”

Let’s face it! Men are very visual in their approach and appreciation of the female form. The answer, however, is much deeper than the hardwiring of male visual cues.

Some men…perhaps most men if they are being honest without fear of a girlfriend or wife…love to watch a woman strip because it turns them on. If that answer seems too simplistic, then step inside my ride because we are about to peel away the depth of male sexuality to discover exactly what men find so seductive and sexy about watching a woman strip.

From the beginning of time, women knew that removing clothing was the way to a man’s libido because it was the visual promise of sexual favors and fantasies. By stimulating a man to visualize the slow removal of choice bits of clothing while swaying suggestively to a rhythmic bump and grind, women entice men to step beyond their want to touch straight into the pleasure of participation.

Similar to a football game, most of the fun for men is vicarious participation. Not to say that they don’t love the act of sex, because we all know they do, but having an uninhibited, sexually charged woman show them direct attention and focus on matching his sexual side with her own is a powerful potion of adrenaline spiked visuals of sex mingled with a healthy dose of ego masturbation.

In short, it makes a man feel like a stud if a woman is so taken with him that she slips past the sexual taboos of every social norm, willing to remove her clothes for him, as he sits back to be treated like a King to watch the show.

Again, overly simplistic perhaps…but, there is one reality of the concept is not readily grasped by most women: confidence. Since the first seductive dance of Salomé, women confident enough about their bodies and their sexuality to remove their clothes have made men shuffle in their seats from a tightening in their pants.

Watching a woman strip feeds directly into the male sense of where sexuality and sensuality meet!

Yes indeed…the biggest of all sexual organs: the brain. With a swaying of hips as bits of cloth drop suggestively over rounded breasts to hang for a moment on the end of a hard nipple, lips pouted in promises of oral pleasures with eyes speaking invitations just for him, the male brain is primed and ready to go well before the rest of him feels the pending explosion!

So go forth and learn how to strip for your man.

Editor: For men, seduction and arousal often begins with
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Will you be my FaceBook friend?

Every time I turn around someone is talking about FaceBook, FaceBook, FACEBOOK.

What’s this all about? Is it really that cool or just a waste of time? Some people are wild about it.

I’m curious, if I joined FaceBook and created a page, would you add me?

(For the record I haven’t created anything yet – just want to find if I should get on FaceBook or not)

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How To Reject Your Man

…Without hurting his feelings

It’s 7:30 in the morning, my friend Chris tells me, and was feeling frisky so he starts to give his girlfriend, Kim,  a gentle back-rub. He tells me, his back-rub is gold for getting her in the mood.

Not a bad to wake up though, is it?

After a minute she snaps “Chris! Give it a rest, OK? God! That’s it. I can’t stay over weekdays anymore.”

[Whimper. Tail between legs]

Male Translation - “Nice try buddy! Sex with you isn’t as good as what I’m doing now OR nowhere close to being good enough to justify the effort. Beat it!”

OK, maybe she’s not a morning person and she may have been legitimately tired. (I’ll be the first to admit I’m not exactly a ray of sunshine in the A.M.)

What’s funny is this women will be emailing me next month saying…“He never wants sex, what do I do?”

Now, as dumb as we men are we DO learn some things pretty quickly – especially when we get hurt. (Hard to believe but we have feelings too)

Rejection is just one of the reasons men can lose interest in sex with their mate.

It’s OK to reject his sexual advances. My suggestion? Reframe your rejection as a delay or postponement not a big red ’stop sign.’

Kim could have said. “Honey, that feels so good! Why don’t you give me X more minutes and I’ll be ready to go, OK?” or “I love it. Why don’t we snuggle for 10 more minutes first?”
(I’ve got a dozen of these handy little phrases)

You’ve acknowledged him and his effort, encouraged him, said ‘yes’ but with a fair and easily attainable condition and time.

Result – he won’t feel like you slapped his male ego in the face and threw a drink on his passion.

What happened to Kim and Chris? Well…they broke up 1 week later.

NO! Not because of that 1 incident. Men aren’t THAT sensitive. They had only been going out for 3 months and that was just the straws that broke the male camels back. BUT it certainly was one of the factors.

Reframe your ‘rejection’ and he won’t feel … rejected.

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3 Sneaky Simple Weight Loss Tricks

The "restaurant trick" The secret to ordering anything you want without the guilt...or calorie overload!

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Trick #3 How your mobile phone will help you cut your daily calories without counting them. (AND no it’s not a fancy  iPhone diet application)

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His & Hers Vibrating Rabbit Cockring

His & Hers Rabbit Vibrating Cockring

We review another winning sex toy for couples. A close cousin to the Rabbit Vibrator made popular by ‘Sex and the City’, the ‘Rabbit Cockring‘ is a toy you can BOTH enjoy!

Her Pleasure…

• Gently stimulates the clitoris & other erogenous zones (see video)
• Quicker, more frequent orgasms
• More powerful orgasms

For Him…

• Longer, harder erections
• More intense orgasms
• Gently stimulates his testicles
• Delay ejaculation and last longer in bed

Watch This Video -  “Vibrating Rabbit Cockring”

Learn More About the ‘Rabbit Cockring’

Advantages:

• More powerful vibration in its class
• More durable silicone
• Longer battery life

Learn More About the ‘Rabbit Cockring’

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