Alpha Male: Do Men Notice Wrinkles, Bumps & Bulges?

QUESTION:  “Do men even notice these wrinkles, bumps and bulges?” How can an aging woman still come across sexy with a less than perfect body? *sigh*

ANSWER: Ask yourself  ”Do you notice HIS wrinkles, bumps and bulges?”

Oh, you do? Congrats! All systems go…you have eyes and a sense of touch.

Next.

I’ll tell you right now, the ONLY time this will be an issue with 100% of men is when it gets in the way of  having frequent, hot sex.

The more of a big deal your lumps and bumps are to you – there more they will be to him. Period. So make a choice about what you’ll do right now and stick to it.

Do you find yourself attractive? NO? We men don’t want to hear about it. Really! We just want good old fashioned sex. Just do something about it…anything that makes YOU FEEL more attractive….and leave us out of it.

IF your lumps and bumps make YOU feel less attractive you either accept them as part of who you are and stop making excuses and feeling bad about it right now. OR do something about it. Sexy is all in the mind.

Today, we are bombarded by the media with sexy, female images – Combine this with today’s easy access to porn. Admittedly, the bar  has been set very high for women. No wonder female body image is much more of an issue for women. (Men have more of an issue around money)

When men were surveyed about what they appreciate about their lovers body – the respondents happiest in their relationship replied “She takes care of herself.” What these men are really saying is – they really appreciate and find attractive a woman who puts in effort to be more slender, fit and put together than other women in their age group.

That’s the Alpha Male’s answer.

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4 Surefire Ways To Turn-Off Your Man In Bed

I love surveys.  They allow me to give you all the information you need about making sure your relationship and sex life is going the way you want without me coming across as a know it all.  With surveys you get real information from real men and not just my point of view.  The survey results that I want to present you with today are from men who were asked what turned them off in bed.  The results are exactly what I expected but what do you think?

First, 41% of men said that when a woman is totally silent this is a real turn off.  If you are one of these women then I have something that will help you out.  It’s called “How To Talk Dirty Without Feeling Stupid”.   This program will turn you from mute into sex goddess and believe me if you can talk dirty to your man he will do whatever you ask.  There is nothing nicer than a woman who knows how to talk dirty during sex it is a real turn on.

In second place with 24% of the votes it was women who are self conscious about their bodies.  I’m actually surprised that this didn’t score higher.  There is nothing more off putting than being with a woman who is more worried about you seeing what she calls her fat bum or fat tummy than she is about enjoying sex.  These are women who refuse to have the lights on during sex in case you might see them and to be honest it really can be such a turn off.  Men enjoy being able to see you during sex and if you are with a women who won’t be on top because she thinks she has a fat stomach it is going to get boring very quickly.

In third place with 20% of the votes it’s what we call cold fish.  These are women who don’t move at all and they just lie there and let the man do all the work.  How boring this type of sex is and to be honest these types of relationships don’t last very long.  It’s like having sex with a blow up doll, no movement, no help you have to find the hole and do all the work.  What is the point of this I ask you?

In last place with 15% of the votes it’s women who criticize their partners sexual skills.  You might not know what I mean here so I’ll give you a couple of examples:

Don’t put your hand there

What are you trying to do?

That took a long time didn’t it?

Do you need some help?

Is that it?

I’m sure you get the idea on this one

If you are prone to doing any of these things then I strongly suggest that you try to stop and become aware when you are doing them.  If you want to keep you man turned on and responsive then the last thing you want to do is turn him off isn’t it?

Until next time,

Turn him on

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We Vibe 2 – A Revolutionary New Sex Toy For Couples

We Vibe II ‘Sex Toy of the Year’

Thank you Techies! This little piece of technology is a pleasure breakthrough and is sure to rock your love live.

The We Vibe hands-free design stimulates BOTH the clitoris and the g-spot – at the same time. Plus – the man will never feel left out, jealous or inferior to your new tech friend. In fact, he can enjoy it too – again – at the same time! As the designers say “Worn while you make love” Unlike traditional vibrators and even a step above the popular Rabbit vibrator.

The ‘We Vibe II‘ is a true pleasure technology marvel! Thank-you technology!

Watch This Video -  “How & Why To Use the We Vibe 2″

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Learn More About the We Vibe here…

A Revolutionary New Sex Toy For Couples

• Replacing cock rings as the ultimate sex toy for couples!
• features enhanced power and vibrations for even more pleasure while you make love with your partner!
• Stimulate the clitoris PLUS G-spot at simultaneously

The new model We Vibe II

- Made to be used during sex
- Hugs a woman’s natural curves and a man’s penis
- Completely hands-free
- 9 different vibration speeds and patterns
- Dual vibrating motors for extra power
- Water resistant
- WeVibe Vibrator measures 3.25 inches long and 1 inch wide
- Rechargeable so you don’t have to worry about batteries
- Storage bag included

We Vibe is simply blowing away everyone who tries it. Check out ‘WeVibe II’ here…

Share your experiences with the We Vibe below…

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How do men feel about an aging woman’s body?

No Holds Barred, No B.S., Straight Answers from an Alpha Male

QUESTION: How do men feel about an aging woman’s body? Cellulite (even though i work out regularly), a “taken care of body” but not a taute 20 year olds’ and other similar concerns.

ALPHA MALE ANSWER: Men feel the same way about an aging woman’s body as women feel about an aging man’s body. That’s fair, isn’t it?

In general, is a 20 year-old woman’s body more attractive than a 45 year old woman’s? Most men will say ‘Yes.’

Can a woman in her 40′s and beyond have the body of a woman in her 20′s? Not without a little disciple and some effort.

Can a 20 year-0ld woman rival a 45 year-old women in sexual experience and know-how? Probably not.

Can a 20 year-0ld woman rival a 45 year-old women intelligence? Well, a 20 year-old thinks she can but I’m going to go with …NO.

Do most 45 year-old women know what they are attracted to and what they want? Usually – Yes.

In my experience, older women can be extremely sexy.

Why? They know what they want, they don’t play games, are straight-forward about what they want in and out of the bedroom.

Sexually, older woman really have advantages over younger women – they are way better in bed because they are more adventurous, more giving, and because older women generally know how to have orgasms men find being with them more sexually gratifying. TRUST ME!

I’ll tell you right now, the only time YOUR BODY is an issue with men 100% of the time is when it gets in the way of  having frequent, hot sex! Got it?

You wrote that you ‘work-out regularly’ which means you’re putting in effort to look the best you can. That’s what matters to your man.

The big turn-off for both men AND women is when one of the lovers in a relationship gets complacent and ‘lets themself go’ – then complains about it OR lets it effect their sex life.

Men are most concerned with the same thing you are … putting in effort to look the best you can.

As for the cellulite.

Remember the

Honestly,
The Alpha Male

PS I’d love your comments.

PPS —  Part II – Next Week. The Alpha Male answers “Does he notice my lumps and bumps?” and what you need to know…

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The Hottest Thing You Can Say To Your Man

When it comes to communicating with your man there are a few things you can say to really turn him on and make him feel extra special.  I am not talking about telling him how much you love him but how to speak to him so that he knows you really want him especially during sex.

What I am talking about is talking dirty and if this is something that is new to you then I hope this post will inspire you.

[ Talking dirty is something that is very easy to learn and this is a really great program that is called How To Talk Dirty Without Feeling Stupid. ]

The problem for a lot of women when it comes to talking dirty during sex is that they feel silly or so I have heard.  I remember one of my girlfriends telling me that she was afraid that she would sound stupid, say the wrong thing or that I would laugh at her.  No matter how much I tried to reassure her that this wouldn’t happen she refused point blank.  It wasn’t the end of the world but it did kinda put a dampner on things in the sex department though.  She just didn’t have any sexual confidence and this wasn’t what I was looking for.

If you want to know what the hottest things that you can say to your man during sex are then here are a couple of examples to give you an idea.

“I want you inside me” – this is such a turn on and talk about letting a man know that you are enjoy yourself.  When you say this to your man you really are pushing his buttons and letting him know that you are just as excited about what he is doing as he is in doing it.

“F**k me now” – again this is a real turn on and a way of telling the man you are with that he is doing all the right things and that you are ready and very anxious for him to be inside you.  It is a great way to let him know that he is doing the right thing and that he has you really hot.  If you whisper this in his ear it’s all the better and you will really see some hot action.

“You’re so hot” – Another great phrase to boost any man’s ego especially during sex.  We all want to know that we are turning you on and exciting you so whisper this or saying it out loud in bed is great.

here are plenty more great hot phrases that you can shout or whisper during sex

Until next time, can you say hot?

[ If you would like to learn more then don’t forget to check out
the great program I mentioned How To Talk Dirty Without Feeling Stupid ]

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