The Number 1 Way To Boost Your Sex Life

When couples are together a while the first thing that seems to slip is the sex life and believe me I know.  Some couples have children and so a decrease in sex is probably something to be expected but sometimes sex just seems to take a back seat after a while regardless of whether or not children are involved.

In a survey a number of men were asked “What’s the 1 thing that would boost your sex life?”

Here are the results:

According to 30% of men having sex more frequently would work.
29% a very close second claimed that breaking the routine and having sec at different times and in different places would help.
20% of men wanted to try new positions.
19% wanted to have more oral sex.

All of these items would in fact improve your sex life but if I had to pick the number one way then I would definitely have to agree with the 30% of men who said having sex more frequently.

Do you remember back to when you first started seeing your partner?  Sex was a major thing.  You went to bed for sex.  You woke up in the middle of the night for sex.  You had sex in the morning.  You had sex….

Do you remember the different positions you tried out?  The ice cream antics, the neighbours banging on the wall, the laughter as you both fell out of bed in the throws of passion and of course the amazing sex.

If you can think back to that and then look at the way your sex life is now I’m sure you will notice some differences.  You see the things is that women seem to get comfortable, they find a sexual position that they enjoy and they just stick to it.  It’s as if sex becomes regimented and scheduled and to be quite honest with you this is not the way it should be.  Men don’t get comfortable not in the way women do. We don’t just pick a position we like and stick to it we love trying out new ones.  We love spontaneous sex, we love quickies, and if anything all we want is to keep sex as fun and exciting as it once was.

Is having sex more frequently a big deal?  I don’t think so.  Do we have to schedule it with you? We shouldn’t.

If you want to spice things up in your relationship then why not try doing some of these things.  When was the last time you tried a different position or had sex outside the bedroom? When was the last time you gave your partner a blowjob?  If you can’t answer these questions straight off then you need to do some serious work on your partner.  It’s time to break out the baby oil, send the kids to a family member and re-christen the rooms in your home all over again.

Sex is important and if you want to have great sex with your partner then first and foremost you need to have sex.  I will leave you with this – start remembering what it was like and start doing it again.

Until next time,

Have plenty of sex

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Lap Dance Unleashed Reviews

How to Strip Tease “Lap Dance Unleashed” Reviews

- Lap Dance Video lessons – Step-by-step how to strip tease

Included:
* Exploding Your Sexual Confidence
* Eliminate Lap Dance Nerves
* Look Good Naked

Easy to learn how to strip

I like the play-by-play lap dance video lessons during the different blow job video examples — what men like to watch and what looks good to your man — especially from a man’s point of view.

Samantha T, Vancouver, Canada :: 2009/06/11 at 12:02 PM

He can’t keep his hands off me now!!!

Feels like we turned back the clock on our marriage 12 years!!!

It’s funny, after all the stuff I’ve done for him and I learn 1 simple little thing for my man like how to strip tease and he goes crazy!

We’re having a lot of fun now.

we’re doing it like rabbits! it’s like we’re newlyweds all over again!

Tamara,  Phoenix :: 2009/07/09 at 6:14 AM

OK, that striptease got his attention

I had read the other feedback for Lap Dance Unleashed videos and they were all so positive that I was a bit skeptical. Please let me be the first to say to anyone who might be thinking the same: It may be hard to believe but THESE LAP DANCE STRIP TIPS REALLY WORK! Ask my man.

My sex life with my husband was on life support for about the last 2 years. After searching the internet, I found lap dance lessons videos.

Who knew that just learning how to strip tease could be such a relationship miracle!!

Carrie C, Charlotte :: 2009/06/12 at 5:24 PM

OK, now I get how to strip!

I learn by watching but I don’t want to go into some raunchy strip club so the lap dance instruction videos really helped me get it.

It helped answered some big questions that were doing my head in.

Terri P, Wolongong, NSW, Australia :: 2009/08/02 at 2:42 AM

Happy birthday to my man

He really liked this unique gift idea — “the best birthday present ever!”

It made me feel so great when he thanked me – in more ways than one

Gina B, San Diego  :: 2009/05/21 at 2:13 PM

My Wife Asked Me To Write This

I’m proud of my wife.

Just the thought of my wife going the extra mile to learn how to strip tease just to satisfy her man by getting lap dance unleashed “makes me soooo hot!”

I’m a lucky guy! AND I can’t keep my hands off her!

I don’t know what you did to her in those instructional videos and tips you gave her and I don’t care – they worked! Thanks

David O, NJ :: 2009/07/02 at 12:04 AM

I love the examples!!

So glad I came across these strip lessons and instructions program. The pointers helped to keep my relationship fresh new and exciting. My new striptease skills have definitely turned up the heat. I can’t wait to see how hot things get.

I like that the videos gave stripping & lap dance examples of moves and steps.

Linda, Boston :: 2009/08/10 at 5:45 PM

I would recommend it to any of my girlfriends

I wanted to do something special for my man. Im not a prude but definitely nervous about how to give a lap dance.

When you’re married to your husband for 9 yrs your love life can get a bit stale. I believe you’ve got to things interesting and change things up. Giving a lap dance is a big change for me. BUT your tips and examples really made me feel better about myself.

if you are a bit scared start small, let loose. every women has a kinky side to them and men love to see it, trust me

Kimberly :: 2009/06/28 at 4:21 PM

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Do Men Enjoy Phone Sex? Hot Or Not?

If I were to ask you if you thought phone sex was hot what would you say?  To phone sex or not to phone sex that really is the question at hand here and ladies today I want to give you the answer according to men.

A number of men were surveyed and asked if they couldn’t be with their partner would they like phone sex with them.  Here is what the results were:

52% of men said no
48% of men said yes

Now I know that most of you ladies reading this blog are probably shocked by these results and you probably assumed that most men would love the idea of phone sex.  Well yes the idea is great but what you need to remember is that us men really are visual characters….we need to see things…why do you think they give us porn mags when it comes to giving a sperm sample?  We need to be able to see the images, the flesh, the sexy lingerie…the whole lot.  If we can’t see it then you really do need to explain it in detail.

If you are planning on having phone sex with your partner then here are a few pointers that should ensure that all goes well.

Always keep in mind that men are visual creatures.  You ladies may be able to visualise and fantasize easily but for us we do need that visual stimulation.  That is why we prefer to watch porn and you prefer that romance movie.

When you phone your partner for phone sex you need to be really descriptive.  There is no point in saying:

“Hi baby, I’m feeling very horny you want to play?” and then  proceed with something like

“I’m wearing a black bra and panties.”

This is no good.  What type of black bra is it?  What type of panties are you wearing?  Is it a thong?  Is it lace?  Is the bra a half cup or full cup?  Do you see what I am getting at here?  We need details.

A good idea might be to wear a piece of really sexy lingerie that you have already made use of with your partner.  Maybe you will be wearing that really sexy red two piece outfit that you wore the time you too had the chocolate body paint experience.  Make it something that he can resonate with and something that he knows.  That way when you phone him and say:

“Hi baby, I’m feeling very horny you want to play?” followed by “I’m wearing my little red number” he will know exactly what you are talking about and the images will automatically appear in his mind along with the memories of the great time he had last time you wore this outfit.

Throughout your phone sex conversation you need to keep this descriptive language up.  Don’t say something like I’m feeling very hot that just isn’t going to do it, you need to detail every little thing you are doing.

“I’m running my hands slowly over my breasts, circling my nipples, oh it feels so good and I am imagining that my hands are yours.”  You can follow this up with a few little moans before asking your partner what he would like to do to your body next and what he would like you to do to him.  As he gives you instructions on what he would like to do to you all you have to do is follow through giving his a full and very detailed running commentary.  Remember he can’t see what you are doing but he will know by your description and the tone of your voice how well it is going and this is what is going to excite him.

If you want to make phone sex a success and please both yourself and your partner at the same time then you need to get to grips with describing how you please your body and be able to verbalise this.  The I am feeling my breast and my stomach just won’t cut it nor will I am now entering my private parts.  Come on ladies you need to tell us exactly what you are doing if you want to turn us on.  If not you have just wasted your phone call.

Time to get descriptive and learn to give your man the images he wants when he can’t see what you are doing.  Remember ladies practice makes perfect and we all know practice is fun right?

Until next time,

Start Phoning

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3 Things Men Like to Watch

Sometimes the best way to get a mans attention is to shock his senses…Give him a jolt to his “sexual nervous system.”

How do you give him a jolt?

When guys were asked “What’s the sexiest thing you love to watch a woman do?”

…they didn’t answer “doing taxes” or “changing a flat tire” even though they are very helpful activities.

What did men say was the sexiest sight to their eyes?

#1  Over half of men said “A woman touching herself in front of him”

Touching yourself = self pleasure, ie. masturbation.

It’s simple…He wants to see you enjoying your body and sex. He wants to know you enjoy pleasuring yourself as much as he does. He wants to see you enjoying yourself and your body – they way he enjoys your body. PLUS…it’s just a bit of naughty fun, isn’t it?

I’d recommend to start by touching yourself over your panties then slowly graduating to masturbation with your fingers and then possibly to a toy. Don’t neglect the other sensual parts of your body.

Challenge yourself. Can you bring yourself to climax in front of him? You’ll score big points if you do.

For some women touching themselves in front of him seems a bit too … exposed. Get over it! The first minute may feel a bit awkward but time cures all.

Tip: When you are  pleasuring yourself, close your eyes for a few moments and focus on how good it feels. The “weirdness” feeling will pass and after a minute are two you’ll begin to enjoy yourself…in front of him!

#2 Making eye contact as she touches his penis

Without eye contact you might as well be making love to a mannequin.

The only thing men like more than having their penis touched … is having a beautiful woman look into his eyes when she does it! Honestly, it makes your heart beat fast and quickens the breath.

Have you ever tried to have a conversation with someone who is looking away or avoiding your eyes? Weird, isn’t it?

Your eyes are your connection to him and him to you. Looking into someone’s eyes is very powerful but 10X more powerful during moments of intimacy and sincerity.

#3 Doing a sensual, slow striptease for him

Remember the jolt to the system I was talking about?

Imagine how visually stimulated your man will get when you combine :

- a sensual striptease

- with touching yourself

- and eye contact?

( Checkout to “Lap Dance Unleashed” to learn how to strip tease for your man with total confidence )

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