Reality Paycheck? Do You Want To Be On TV

Is reality TV an opportunity to change your life?

In a new economy with double-digit unemployment and shrinking jobs could reality TV turn out to be a bizarre golden opportunity?

As the global economy huffs & puffs, the job market sucks wind and unemployment rates swell – reality TV shows are booming! It seems that you can’t turn the channel without landing on a reality show, can you?

Why? Because in many cases they are  successful money makers. Especially now when people are watching their pocketbooks and opting for cheap entertainment staying home watching the tube (A great excuse to cuddle).

Could there be an opportunity right in front of your eyes?

Reality TV is big business. It’s not just limited to the dog-eat-dog contests like the hugely successful grand daddy ‘Survivor.’ They come in many forms – from talent contests like the  ‘Idol’ series,  ‘So You Think You Can Dance’ & ‘The Apprentice’ phenomenon, The Bachelor/ Bachelorette to shows on home-renovations, fashion, real-estate buying, selling and flipping, extreme makeovers, addiction, rehab and therapy, plus educational documentaries.

Love them or hate them reality TV is here to stay.

So how could you cash in on the craze?

More reality shows mean more demand to cast regular people in these shows. People like you!

People cast on reality TV usually benefit in 1 or more of the following ways:

• Money
• Launch new careers
• Publicity and exposure
• Getting fashion make-overs & shopping sprees
• Paid surgery
• Free advice from highly paid experts on their specific problem
• Weight-loss and diet assistance
• Get jobs
• Home renovations
• Find love
• etc…

Reality TV shows – love ‘em or hate ‘em – could turn out to be a great opportunity hidden in plain sight for those willing to pursue it.

Just another option in the new economy for you to consider.

A Man’s Favourite Sexual Surprise Ambush Revealed

Have you ever really wanted to turn your partner on by surprising him but then didn’t because you weren’t sure exactly what to do? If so then I urge you to keep reading as I reveal the top four ways that you can ambush your partner with a sexual surprise.

This post includes statistics so you don’t just have my word for it you have the word of all the men that were surveyed too.

So not to keep you waiting here is the number one way that you can turn us on and surprise us with your sexual treats.

#1 Voted top by 43% of men was first thing in the morning in bed. Yes this gets top votes and is my favourite too. There is nothing nicer than being woken up in bed by a really rock solid hardon that has been caused by my partner massaging me out of my sleep. Talk about waking up ready for action this is definitely a sure winner. Ladies if you are looking for the best way to surprise me then this is definitely it and if you want to take it a step further and really wake me up with a smile how about using your precious lips to wake me up and yes I do mean down there.

If you’re not a morning person then maybe number 2 will be for you….but I do strongly urge you to give number one a go you won’t regret it.

#2 Number 2 on the list is in the shower. This got 25% of the votes and yes this is a wonderful surprise too. If your partner is in the shower why not sneak up on him whip your clothes off and jump into the shower and surprise him with some wet slippery action. Yes nothing better than getting all soapy together.

#3 was very close and this one got 23% of the votes and it is at the door when he gets home. Yes as soon as he comes through that door just tell him what you have planned. Maybe even start taking his clothes off for him as he comes in the door or better still greet him naked or wearing some sexy lingerie. If he’s had a bad day he will love you for this.

#4 Last but not least on this list with 11% of the votes was in the car. I have to say this is a real turn on. You can just stretch your hand across and rub his groin whilst he is driving and this is sure to get him going. One word of advice though, be sure to stop the car before you start doing anything else and be careful where you park too you don’t want to get caught like the Hugh Grant now do you. Being groped in the car really is a big turn on for most men but unfortunately with the law the way it is we don’t always get what we want. But it still gets the votes so don’t rule it out.

So ladies there you have it some great ways to plan a sexual surprise ambush for your man. There are four ways listed here so you have four ways to have a lot of fun and really treat your man and let’s face it we deserve it because we are always treating you. Isn’t it time you gave some back.

Until next time,

Start ambushing

What Men Want in a Mate?

Sex survey says…

I was shocked by men’s response to this sex survey question…

Questi0n: “What is the quality most important to you in a sexual partner?”

The majority of men responded that their sexual partner “really love sex.”  That’s it!

Shocking! I could have swore that we men were much more self-centered than that response indicates. What a minute, wow, there’s hope for us, after all!

Proof men aren’t all sexually selfish – Less than 15% of respondents answered  ”That I’m sexually satisfied every time” ie. “As long as I’m satisfied – you’re OK with me.” The survey did however indicate younger men are a bit more ’selfish’ in bed. A possible reason why some women prefer older men.

As a man – and lover of sex – I shouldn’t be all that surprised that men want a sexual partner who is as passionate and enthusiastic about sex as he is. After all, nothing is any fun if the other person involved isn’t really into it; Not a dance, game, conversion… or sex, is it?

Men love sex – they want a mate they’re compatible with – who loves sex as much as they do.

So if you want to be his ultimate mate & assure yourself a satisfied man you need to display one quality above all else – love sex.

Ask yourself:

1. Do you truly love sex or are you just along for the ride?
2. Do you enjoy sex less than you used to? IF yes, is it you or your lover you enjoy less? What do you need to do to become more enthusiastic about sex?
3. If you already love sex – What can you do to enjoy it or get ‘into it’ even more?

Get Selfish

For the next 30 days get a bit selfish – try things in the bedroom that YOU want – toys, games, new positions, fantasies, rough/tender, kink/cuddling etc…

Turn HIM into your own personal little love toy (some call it a sex slave) and tell him what you want and how he should do it. (Most men will love this new you).

Head Game

By ‘Head Game’ I mean that appreciating and loving sex more may have nothing to do with the physical – it’s possible that the trick for you is mental.

Is it a…

• a low physical self image
• low self-esteem
• depression
• lack of confidence in your skills
• boredom
• low attraction to your partner
• stress
• etc…

Revisit #1-3 above and unearth the mental hurdle to free yourself – and love sex again.

The sex survey says – that you’re man will be happy when you’re as happy and sexually free. Strive for that and you and your man mate can take your love life to new levels of passion – together.

2 Tips To Start His Engine

Want a nearly fail-safe way to start your man’s engine tonight?

Combine the 2 tips below and you’re nearly guaranteed to get his engine started — and get what you want.

Male Engine Starter #1

Just over 35% of men surveyed replied that the key to getting them turned on and starting their engine was — A really long, passionate, steamy kiss.

This would be especially true for people in longer relationships. If you have been in a long relationship think about it. When was the last time you kissed your lover for more then a quick peck?

Next time you want some action surprise your man (make sure your breath is fresh) by grabbing him around his neck or the back of his head or giving him a long, deep passionate french kiss.

HINT: Put your kiss on steroids by gently sucking his lower lip while your run your fingers through his hair. There are millions of sensitive nerve endings in the scalp so it will make him feel very ‘tingly.’

Male Engine Starter #2

Just under 35% of men surveyed replied with an answer that made sense to any male brain – just go straight for his cash and prizes and “Grab his crotch.”

No muss no fuss. No mis-communication, no second guessing, no messing about – be gentle but clear in what you want.

Combine the KISS with the CROTCH and you have a near guaranteed way to get him turned on.

A Sexy Way to Boost Your Immune System

Sex Can Boost the Immune System
by Kate Melville

At last some good news: sex is good for you, at least in moderation. Psychologists in Pennsylvania have shown that the immune systems of people who have sex once or twice a week are boosted.

Scientists evaluate how robust our immune systems are by measuring levels of immunoglobulin A (IgA), an antigen found in saliva and mucosal linings. “IgA is the first line of defence against colds and flu,” says Carl Charnetski of Wilkes University. IgA binds to pathogens at all the points of entry to the body, then calls on the immune system to destroy them.

To find out if sex can alter IgA levels, Charnetski and his colleague Frank Brennan asked 111 Wilkes undergraduates, aged 16 to 23, how frequently they’d had sex over the previous month. They also measured levels of IgA in the volunteers’ saliva.

The results showed that participants who had sex less than once a week had a small increase in IgA over those who abstained completely. Those who had one or two sexual encounters each week had a 30 per cent rise in levels of the antigen. But, perhaps unfortunately, people who had very frequent sex – three times a week or more – had lower IgA levels than the abstainers.

Clifford Lowell, an immunologist at the University of California at San Francisco, thinks the high levels of IgA in volunteers who had moderately frequent sex are easy to understand. “Sexually active people may be exposed to many more infectious agents than sexually non-active people,” Lowell says. “The immune system would respond to these foreign antigens by producing and releasing more IgA.” However, why there was no IgA rise in the most sexually active group is less clear. “My feeling is that the people in the very-frequent-sex group may be in obsessive or poor relationships that are causing them a lot of anxiety,” speculates Charnetski. “We know that stress and anxiety make IgA go down.”

referenced http://www.scienceagogo.com/news/19990314232205data_trunc_sys.shtml

What’s on a Man’s Sexual Mind?

My Buddies and I were discussing why women are hesitant or even afraid to explore new sexual practices with their Man. With great testosterone debate the opinions sparred throughout the room. All kinds of scenarios and activities were thrown around. Blow-jobs, public sex, lap dances, toys, bondage, watching porn, homemade porn, role playing, swinging and the dreaded threesomes. Rather than becoming part of the great debate – I chose to close my eyes and listen. Then I imagined the reactions of some of my close girlfriends. Disgust, laughter, fear, astonishment, excitement, shock, shock, shock!

It then dawned upon me that I don’t think that women have really ever seriously asked themselves…

What do men desire in bed?

The best way to discover what else turns your man on is to catch him off-guard and offer him one of the above mentioned ideas. It won’t really matter what you choose. Think of yourself as a sexual scientist experimenting in the bedromm laboratory (hint: an idea for role playing).

The SPONTANIETY of the moment will instantly turn him on. I must confess that none of  my friends ever bashed any of the sexual suggestions. In fact, they traded them like excited little boys swapping baseball cards. Think back to the early days of your relationship when it was all about being impulsive. The two of you were unfamiliar and you were motivated to find out more about him. You wanted to know why this man was able to make you feel  so good. This very essence still exists in side of you and it wants to grow. I don’t think you would be reading this if it were not the case. If you are having trouble remembering how you were in those romantic days, here’s your clue: The excitement came from one key idea. Everything about the two of you getting together was unpredictable.

TODAY shower him with something he never saw coming. Raise your sexual exploits to experiences the two of you have never tried. Maybe it is a very savouring blow job to start with or a sensual lapdance to start off this new adventure. I promise you this will be fun and you will rediscover why you love this man,

A Great Foreplay Tip That Any Woman Can Use

I get a lot of emails from women who complain that more foreplay tips and foreplay techniques just don’t work for them.  They complain saying that the foreplay ideas that are mentioned on most websites are just not for them.  One of the most common questions that I get asked in emails is:

“What are some foreplay tips that an average ordinary woman can use on her man?”

So for all you average ordinary women out there this post is for you.  I have to ask though, what is an ordinary average woman anyway?  What makes a woman ordinary and average?  To me when I get these emails what these women are really saying is that they are women who are not confident with their bodies and not overly confident when it comes to sex either.  Why?  What’s wrong with your body or with enjoying sex for that matter?

From a man’s point of view, we just don’t get this.  If we are with you and having sex with you then we love and enjoy your body and let’s face it if we’re having sex and we’ve seen you naked what the hell have you got to be embarrassed about?

I guess this is something that us men will never understand but in order to answer your questions below is a great foreplay tip that even the shyest of women can use.

All you need for this foreplay tip is your partner and a couch or chair.  You won’t have to do a striptease or be naked for this one I promise……well not initially anyway.

So here goes.

With your partner sitting on the couch or chair all you have to do is move in close to him, or sit on his knee if you want and very slowly and lightly I want you to begin kissing his face.  Make your lips as wet as possible and kiss every part of his face except his lips.  Don’t kiss his lips even if he tries to kiss yours I want you to pull away and just keep kissing his face, his neck, his ears…..just not the lips.  You can then slowly start to move down his body slowly though you don’t want to rush things.  You can start by kissing his neck and moving down his chest.  You can even use your tongue to circle his nipples (men’s nipples are sensitive too and yes we enjoy have them kissed and sucked).  If you are enjoying yourself let us know too and a few subtle moans can really help things along.

Remember slow is the key to these foreplay tips and foreplay techniques.  Once you have kissed you want down as far as his stomach you can start moving up again until you reach his face.  This is a real killer by the way but it works really well and by the time you get back down to his stomach again he is bound to grab you and drag you down onto the couch so be prepared.  There is only so much foreplay that us guys can handle you know.

Foreplay ideas don’t have to be raunchy and this foreplay tip is one that every woman can use.  You don’t have to strip naked to start….that comes later.

I mean come on now ladies can I really make things any simpler for you.  Kissing…that’s really all there is to it and of course the fact that he knows you want him.  Once a man knows that you want him and that you are enjoying yourself that’s enough to get any of us going.

Once you get comfortable with this you can move on to the striptease and naked house cleaning if you like.

Before I wrap up on this one I really do just want to say again……men are not focusing on the parts of your body that you don’t like…..we probably can’t even see them…….you are the one who is criticizing your own body and if you just stopped doing this and had more confidence in yourself your sex life would be a million times better.  Start loving your body and I guarantee you will be able to have the best sex ever.

Until next time,

Get Kissing