A Powerful Seduction Tip Every Woman Should Know

Are you one of the many women out there that thinks that you need to buy books so that you will know how to seduce your other half?  If so then I’m so glad you have stopped by this blog today.  Ladies there is no book that is going to tell you how to get him aroused, well not one that is written by a woman anyway.  I have seen these books on the shelves and to be honest with you most of them are pure dribble.  If you really want an exciting idea to seduce him then please just keep reading.

One of the best ways you can get him aroused is to tell him.  Yes I actually mean going up to your boyfriend/husband whatever he may be and actually telling him that you want to have sex.  You know there really is nothing more seductive that your girlfriend/wife coming up to you and saying:

“Honey, I’m horny can you help me out?”

This is such a powerful seduction tool and one that everyman wishes was used more often.  If you want to seduce a man then he has to know you want him and what better way than to tell him.  You just walk up to us and tell us that you want us and that’s all you need to do.  No matter what time of the day or night it is, wow this really is mind blowing.  To know that you want us, to know that we make you feel horny, it really is everyman’s fantasy.  Of course the reaction you will get is instant too and Peter as I like to call him will respond instantly.  You know he is always ready for action.

Ladies are always asking how to get him aroused and they envisage scenes where they have to dress in sexy lingerie, do a stripteases, clean the house naked……and yes these are all really great ideas to seduce us but you don’t even have to make it that difficult on yourself.  All you have to do is ask and tell.

Think of it like school when you had show and tell only this time you are showing and telling your partner what you want to do to get him aroused.  Here’s a sample scenario:

Your other half is sitting watching TV.
You come into the room acting normal.
You sit down beside him and either whisper in his ear that you are feeling horny and want to rip his clothes off, or, you can just tell him out loud that you are feeling horny and would he like to help you to rectify the situation.

From here you can do pretty much whatever you like because believe me once he knows that you want him he is going to be willing to do whatever you want.

Whilst this might not sound to women like the most exciting idea to seduce him and believe me from a man’s perspective this works and it really is an excellent way to get him aroused.

As for stripteases, naked house cleaning, a role play, don’t rule these out because these are some pretty great ways to seduce and arouse us too.

So ladies today’s homework is to tell your man that you want him and what you are going to do and I expect to see your feedback in the comments section here tomorrow.

Until next time,

Let’s show and tell

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The Number 1 Sex Position For Men Revealed

This is one question that I get all the time.  It usually goes something like:

“I really want to have better sex with my partner, what sex position do men enjoy best?”

Or

“Is it true that doggy style is a man’s favourite sex position?

Well for all you ladies out there going on all fours thinking that you are giving your man exactly what he wants I am here to disappoint you.  It’s not that we don’t enjoy the doggy style position, of course we do but there is another sex position that tops this in terms of male satisfaction.

Want to know what it is?

Believe it or not, it’s actually the woman on top.  Congratulations to all you ladies out there who got this right and for the rest of you, keep reading to see why.

So you all know what the woman on top position is but the sad fact is that so many of you women are so paranoid and hung up about your bodies that you don’t do it often enough.  If you want to have better sex with your man then it really is time to lighten up.

So woman on top.  Well it’s like this, it’s not very often that us guys get to lie back and really enjoy the pleasure of having you take control.  Having you writhing your hips on top of us, maybe even leaning over and holding our arms (or tying them) over our head so that we can’t touch you or move.  Having you in full control, letting you set the pace and of course being able to have your delicious breasts hanging in front of our faces.

Oh yes, this really is pure bliss.

Sadly it doesn’t happen often enough.

I remember asking a number of my exs why they weren’t up for the woman on top position more often.  You won’t believe the excuses I got.

“I don’t want you to see my flabby stomach.”

“I don’t like the way my boobs wobble.”

“I don’t want you to see me.”

Such pathetic excuses ladies.  Let me set your straight on a few things.  We don’t care if you have a flabby stomach, it’s the last thing we are going to be looking at or even thinking about while you’re on top of us.  As for your boobs wobbling, this one really makes me laugh.  If only you could realize just how turned on we get watching your boobs as you call them bobbing up and down in front of our faces as you trash back and forth on top of us.  Oh just lean forward and let us nibble on them would you.

Let’s face it ladies, we aren’t looking at your bodily imperfections, we’re focused on what is happening and you should be too.  We are engrossed in the pleasure we are receiving and you are the one giving it to us.  We love having you take control and putting us in our place.  We love the feeling of you sitting on top of us, controlling how far inside you we can get, we really really do.

So if it’s better sex you want and a sex position that is going to work for you then ladies, start putting more of the woman on top position on your sex calendar.  I’m sure after a few minutes you’ll forget all about your body too, well except for the parts that are going to be exploding with pleasure.

Until next time,

Ride Em Cowboy

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Are You In Kneed Of Some Foreplay Tips?

If you think that it’s just you women who need foreplay then let me set the record straight.  Men enjoy foreplay too you know and coming from a man I can tell you that there is nothing nicer every now and then than a woman taking the initiative and controlling the sex situation.  This post today is going to give you ladies some foreplay tips and techniques that you can use.

Most women assume that us men get turned on at just the idea of sex and yes 99% of the time you are right but sometimes it really is nice to have you turn us on too and I don’t mean that you have to do a lap dance, mind you the idea of this is rather exciting too…..but I’m getting a little off track here.  What I want to take about today is some foreplay techniques that even the shyest of women can.

I’m going to call this foreplay tip the Kneeding – as in needing some foreplay and using your knees.  Get it!

So let’s get to it:

Foreplay ideas can be a simple as you like but for this one I want to take things slow, get things going, and show you just how easy it is for a woman to induce one hell of a hard on and ladies you don’t have to take your clothes off, wear stockings, of pull out your vibrator, but if you want to then that’s fine too.

With Kneeding (this is what I am going to refer to this foreplay tip as) all you need is a chair, sofa, whatever as long as you can both sit down.

I suggest waiting for a time when your male counterpart will be least suspecting so try this when he is watching TV or just chilling out on the sofa.  This way you will know my technique works.  What I want you to do is go into the room where he is and just sit very casually on his knee with your arm around his neck.  If he asks what you are doing just say oh nothing just thought you might fancy some playtime.  Watch his reaction, I guarantee you he will give you his full attention.

Next start gently but slowly grinding against his crotch with your ass and watch the smile spread across his face.  You can start kissing his neck too if you like because us men really do love the sensation of having our necks kissed too It’s not all about our Peter you know.

Once you have my (sorry I mean his) attention you can start getting more aggressive with your grinding especially once you feel his hardon starting to bulge in his trousers.  It won’t take long but stay with it and keep things as slow as possible.  If he starts to get anxious you can just whisper softly in his ear and tell him to relax and enjoy himself.  This will really turn him on.  Telling him what you plan on doing and how naughty you are going to be is a great turn on too one of the best foreplay ideas I could give you.  Us men love visuals and if you tell us what to expect…..well you don’t need me to tell just try it and see.

You might want to get on your knees at this stage and start working on his now really bulging hardon at this point but make sure you do it through his pants…you don’t want to rush things.  Start grabbing and massaging his hardon with your hands and remember to keep up the grinding action too.  You should of course be feeling very turned on yourself now at this stage but resist the urge to rip your clothes of just yet.  Maybe removing your top so that you man can get in on the action by playing with your boobs but keep the bottom half covered until you are sure that he is fully hard.  You’ll know when because we can’t stand to have a full hardon trapped in your pants.

When he starts squirming and getting uncomfortable then you can unzip his pants and slowly let his crushed and throbbing Peter out to play.  You really do need to make a big deal out of this part and be sure to take your time when releasing him.  A few ummm noises wouldn’t hurt either as you place your hand around his throbbing member.  Remember for men it’s all about audio and visual.

So by now you are both probably dying to get down to it and if you are both ready then by all means just go for it.  Don’t under any circumstance stop things so that you can go upstairs, stay right where you are.  Some women can work wonders with foreplay but then stop everything while they move the action upstairs.  If you are one of these then I need to let you in on a little secret – STOP doing this because you are ruining the pleasure, we don’t want to stop, we don’t want to move rooms to have sex, if you are going to start things on the sofa, then finish them there too.

As far as foreplay tips go, us men really don’t mind what you do once you make the effort and you instigate things.  Having a woman start playing with us and instigating things when it comes to sex is one of the biggest turn ons ever and you don’t even have to take your clothes off to do this, well not at the beginning anyway.

Well that’s it for my Kneeding foreplay tip but don’t worry I’ll be back with a hell of a lot more and next time I’m going to tell you what the best sex position is and how you can have better sex with your man.

Until then,

Get Kneeding Ladies

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Naughty Sex Game Idea

Challenge Your Man to a Sexual Contest

This sex game will appeal to your man’s competitive nature and get him to explore his sexual skill set. Oh, and it’s a ton of fun, too!

Let’s call this the  ’Orgasm Grand Prix’

Take turns timing each other.  Watch the clock and see how fast you can get your man off.

Then switch and let him try the same on you – doing whatever it takes, pulling out all the stops, his entire bag of tricks to get you to climax in record setting time.

Before the contest begins establish a fun, possibly erotic prize for the winner as extra incentive.

Be fair. Don’t hold back your orgasm or lie about having one just to win the contest. This sex game is designed to change things up, appeal to your man’s competitiveness, get both of you focused on honing your sexual skills … BUT it can also be a tremendous learning experience.

You’ll discover what works, what doesn’t at a very rapid rate.

Give each other honest feedback on what spots and techniques give you the instant WOW sensations and pleasure and which do not.

Ready drivers?…Start Your Engines!

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