The Big Turnoff
July 25, 2009 by Archer
Instant Man Mood Killer
Here’s how to turn him off fast…
…express any self-consciousness you may have about your body in the bedroom.
Man mood killer!
Inside a man’s mind — To men, women are beautiful, mystical creatures who love and crave sex. Men are in awe of women. Any behavior you display that’s contrary to the image in his head totally shatters this image he has of you. Whatever you do, DO NOT open your mouth and ruin a man’s fantasy of you.
He wants to enjoy being with you and the sexual pleasures being together will give both of you. (Believe it or not men actually want women to enjoy sex, too)
Come on, who’s body is perfect? Who doesn’t have a few flaws. Who doesn’t want to be 10lbs lighter? Blah blah blah
Perfection is a myth – get over yourself and get on with your life at least for the next 10-40 minutes. Take a sexual vacation from your self judgements.
Body self-consciousness mood killers include but are not limited to behavior such as:
- Insisting he turns off the light before you make love
- Commenting that you feel fat or out of shape
- Avoiding specific positions because they feel “unflattering”
- Requiring the covers to be pulled over and around you during sex. (OK, only allowed in extremely cold environments or to keep warm in a cabin)
- Apologizing for any of your body parts you feel aren’t up to standard
- Stick to ‘Missionary’ because it’s “aesthetically safe”
- Saying “Oh, look how ugly that bruise is”
- OR any excuses for they way you think you look
Making a verbal judgment is just a bad commercial interruption in a beautiful movie you’re both enjoying. Put all those comments and judgements aside while you’re in the heat of the moment with him for the sake of your love life.
If you suffer from being overly body conscious and judgmental practice focusing on he’s making you feel. Focus on what feels good. Focus on enjoying his body. Focus on anything that gives you pleasure and stay out of your head. Your judgements are only noise.
Life is too short to wait until your body is perfect before living the love life of you dreams. Putting things off until tomorrow when you believe things will be better or perfect is the Fool’s trap. Don’t fall into it.
Let loose and totally express yourself in the heat of passion with your lover today! He wouldn’t have it any other way.
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Blow Job Handbook Reviews
July 22, 2009 by Archer
Reviews of Blow Job Lessons Handbook + Videos instructional tips
- Instructional videos lessons
- Step-by-step blow job tips guide
NEW – 7-Day ‘Try Before You Buy” Trial
Included: “Deep Throat Secrets” Guide
He can’t keep his hands off me now
It feels like we turned back the clock on our marriage 10 years!!!
I tried blow job handbook, and it was a lot of fun. I would never have known some of the things that I do now. Especially the ’sleeve’ blowjob technique. And he told me he definitely feels a big difference.
It was the thing we needed to give our relationship the kick in the butt it needed to get the old passion back.
I also tried the deep throat thing out, and he loved it. We changed it up a bit and made it go both ways. He askes me what type of guy I fantasy about and I told him and it was fun to become each others fantasies.
we’re doing it like rabbits! it’s like we’re newlyweds all over again!
Tammy, Austin, TX :: 2009/07/09 at 7:58 AM
It really works
I had read the other feedback for how to give a blow job videos and they were all so positive that I was a bit skeptical. Please let me be the first to say to anyone who might be thinking the same: It may be hard to believe but THESE BLOWJOB TIPS REALLY WORK!
My sex life with my husband was on life support for about the last 3 years. After searching the internet, I found the BlowJob Handbook with videos and we haven’t looked back.
It’s been 4 MONTHS now and I would recommend it to anyone whose love life has slowed down.
Who knew that just give a blow job could be such a relationship miracle!!
Brit C, Atlanta :: 2009/02/13 at 7:24 PM
Easy to learn bj’s
I like the verbal play-by-play during the different blow job video examples — what men like and feels good. That was good feedback I’ve never gotten — especially from a man’s point of view.
Cynthia K, Windson, Canada :: 2009/07/12 at 12:02 PM
OK, now I really get how to give a blow job!
I got the most out of the advanced blowjob techniques.
Giving blowjob tips from men and the male point of view answered some big questions that were doing my head in.
Candice F, Wolongong, NSW, Australia :: 2009/08/20 at 3:42 AM
Happy birthday to him
He calls my new improved blow jobs — “the best birthday present ever!”
Kath, Los Angeles :: 2009/06/23 at 2:13 PM
My Wife Made Me Write This
I’m proud of her.
Just the thought of my wife going the extra mile to learn how to give me the best blow job of my life to satisfy her man by getting the blow job handbook “makes me so hot!” — let alone the tips she picked up!!
Now, it’s like she cast some kinda spell on me (sounds cliche, I know) but, I can’t stop thinking of her. AND I can’t keep my hands off her!
I don’t know what you did to her in those instructional videos and tips you gave her and I don’t care – they worked!
Jimmy, NY :: 2009/07/02 at 12:04 AM
Deep throat star
I know how much my boyfriend of 2.5 years loves being deep throat. But I couldn’t really do it very well without gagging. After the trick I learned in Deep Throat secrets that comes with the blow job lessons handbook I totally ‘blew’ away my man.
Kim, London :: 2009/07/14 at 2:22 AM
Thank You!!
So glad I came across this blow job instructions program. The techniques & pointers are great to keep my relationship interesting and dial up the heat. I can NOT wait to see what the future holds for us.
So glad to hear straight up talk and info on what men really want from a blowjob.
Keep it going. THANKS
Linda M, Rochester :: 2009/07/10 at 2:45 PM
I would recommend it to any of my girlfriends
I am not a prude in the bedroom but I was definitely a little insecure about my BJ abilities. And they are less than enthusiastic.
My husband and I have been married for 7 years and things started to get…well, sometimes, esp in long-term relationship, things get monotonous and guys get bored. so changing into a different personality in the bedroom, his fantisy, is not an issue. it doesnt mean you have to change who you are, it means being more open for new and better options. i did that too, and i must say ladies, you might just love it!!!!!!!
if you are a bit scared start small. i know there are still some women who feel blow jobs are the most disgusting thing ever but it is life changing, esp if you get the correct blow job lessons guide read books… i too used to be like that.
in the nutshell, let loose. every women has a kinky side of them, let that tiger loose…
Candice, FL :: 2009/06/28 at 4:21 PM
Popularity: 100%
Most requested sex?
July 3, 2009 by Archer
What sex do men request most?
Fellatio or blow jobs, giving head definitely top the list of the most requested sexually desirable acts women perform for men.
BUT, here’s the secret ladies….
* Men fantasize that you give a blow job or give head to get pleasure NOT give pleasure.
It’s hard to enjoy OR really get into something if you’re NOT 100% confident in your oral abilities, isn’t it?
Your man wants….
- You to give him passionate, enthusiastic blow jobs
- You to know how to use your hand and mouth to hit hot spots
- To know what gets him off
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