#1 Male Sexual Fantasy
June 19, 2009 by Archer
You’ll be happy to know…
…the #1 most common male sexual fantasy is about you!
That’s right! Based on surveys men are most likely to fantasize about his current female partner.
NO ladies, this isn’t some lame attempt to makeup for the backlash after last week’s article revealing the #2 most frequent male sexual fantasy. (Read the passionate responses AND my updates to the article read here)
For the record ladies…Love it or hate it, I’m here to tell the truth about how men actually think and feel NOT tell you what women want to hear, believe or learn about from their female friends. IF you want feel good, fluffy advice read Cosmo magazine.
Men frequently fantasize about: things you and he have done, could do, or will do together in the future.
Why? Because sometimes flesh-and-blood real thing is more of a turn-on than the unattainable or ‘out of reach.’
What’s the key? Sexual frequency and variety. Give him enough and variety of experiences to feed his fantasies with otherwise his fantasies will starve.
Keep changing things up in the bedroom. Keep experimenting and trying new things. Explore and be adventurous. Not everything you try will be a hit, but your eagerness to try in itself is fueling and driving the fantasy engine in his head …
…And the star of his fantasy is you.
Keep in mind, every man wants his wife/girlfriend to be his fantasy.
#2 Male Sexual Fantasy Revealed
June 11, 2009 by Archer
You’ve probably been in this situation before.
…You rolled over in bed with your man and asked him…
What are you thinking?
To which he probably stuttered or mumbled some answer he thought you’d want to hear.
BUT, the truth is he may be on a mental vacation thinking about one of the top male sexual fantasies (that is, if he’s not thinking about work or money).
The odds are your man’s mind is occupied with one of the top 10 male sexual fantasies. The #2 most common male sexual fantasy is ‘Having sex with a woman other than your partner.’
- DON’T PANIC. This is a common male fantasy that 99.9% of men never indulge.
- DON’T take it personally.
- Don’t be too quick to judge. Sex with another man other than your own is a top female sexual fantasy, too. Maybe not yours but if you’re being honest with yourself could you really see you never fantasize about that sexy move star? Come on!
Why NOT help indulge and entertain his sexual fantasy? Become the “other woman!”
1st. Find out what type of woman he fantasizes about by asking a direct question and not giving up until you know his fantasy. Is it a virgin, dominant/submissive, school girl, nasty dirty woman etc…
(Don’t be offended if the fantasy differs from who or what you are)
2nd Become his fantasy
Women who are…uhum…paid for their pleasures and affections know the secret to satisfying a man is to transform herself into his fantasy. She knows to become the character in dress, attitude, voice tone, actions and way in which she gives or receives pleasure.
For example, if your man fantasizes about virgins he likely gets a rush from the idea that you would be scared but excited about having sex the first time. He’d also likely get a kick out of you pretending to not know what you’re doing, asking naive questions and he having to teach you.
A man fantasizing about having sex with another someone other than current partners is a very common fantasy for men (and women).
…When you become the other woman and YOU become his fantasy!
DON’T SHOOT THE MESSENGER: Ladies, I’m here to tell the truth about how men actually think and feel NOT tell you what women want to hear, believe or learn about men from their female friends. IF you want ‘feel good’, fluffy advice go read Cosmo magazine.
A Powerfully Seductive Pose
June 4, 2009 by Archer
Want to seduce your man? Using a bit of animal instinct could be the trick to trigger your man’s lust.
Study any model posing in her bathing suit on the cover of a magazine or watch any professional exotic dancer – they all have one thing in common — an arched back.
Why?
Arching your back is a primal mating signal to men. It triggers an old, primal area in a man’s brain that your are open, willing and ready for mating – sex, the item at the top of the agenda for most men.
The arched back is a completely subconscious trigger to a man – he will be unable to control a feeling of arousal. Powerful info, isn’t it?
How? Notice how our model has her shoulders back, chest out slightly and back arched by tilting her hips down.
The ‘arched back’ is communicating a powerful signal to the men around her. Even if she is not ‘his type’ men will find our model arousing because of her sexual communication.
Does this mean you should walk around with your butt stuck up in the air? Probably not. You can achieve the ‘acceptance’ pose in many different ways: wearing high heels, bending over and tilting your hips down, during a seductive striptease, seated in a chair, squat with high heels, shoulders and butt against the wall etc…
Employing the pelvic tilt back arch is a powerful sexual stimulant for men – use it wisely – and on the right target.
Try it out on your man today!
I will be including more Seductive Body Language in my upcoming “Master Your Man” handbook – coming soon.
