Give Your Man Credit
February 26, 2009 by Archer
What women dont know about men – Part 5
As tough and macho as men act they have fragile egos — especially in the bedroom.
If you want to master your man you need to make him feel good about himself as a man, especially a sexual man.
In the bedroom, this translates into giving him credit for your pleasure and female orgasm. Yes, I’m sure you worked very hard to learn and train your yourself to become orgasmic and he doesn’t deserve the credit. That’s exactly why I want you to give away the credit for your pleasure to him
After all, your female ego is strong enough that having credit for your orgasm does not define you as a woman. Therefor, if credit for your orgasm doesn’t benefit you – why not give it to your man where it’s going to do infinitely more good? – It’s a selfless act of love.
Just as woman like to hear how much they’re loved a man needs to be told how much of a man he is by a female he respects and adores. It makes a man feel more powerful, virile, confident and happier.
One of the ways you can give him credit for you orgasm is by verbalizing – Turn up the volume in the bedroom.
You could try some choice phrases like:
“You feel so good inside me”
“Your tongue is amazing”
“You’re making me cum!” versus “I’m cumming”
This may seem awkward to you in the beginning but trust me – it’s crucial to making him feel more like a man.
To learn more about talking dirty without feeling stupid check out how to talk dirty to your man
Warning: Whatever you do NOT fake it!
He may have a fragile ego but he’s not stupid! If he senses any sexual insincerity from you he may become hurt or angry. And the entire exercise could blow up in your face.
Nothing makes your man feel better as a man than to know he created and trigger orgasm(s) in a beautiful, radiant, sexual woman – you.
Remember, it takes a strong, supportive woman to make a man feel like a real man.
Making your man feel like a man is the key to mastering your man.
5 Priceless Valentines Ideas For Men
February 12, 2009 by Archer
Men are simple creatures with simple pleasures. MYM presents 5 priceless erotic Valentine’s ideas that will make your honey happy and won’t break the bank.
Sexual Sneak Attack
A Sexual Sneak Attack is when you jump him when he least expects it – and don’t take no for an answer.
You could surprise him with a deep passionate kiss and begin undoing his pants then turn around and lean over the coffee table, kitchen counter, sofa couch, bed etc… Add a little animal to it by telling him to “Give it to me good!”
Men also love those surprise oral sneak attacks. They are a welcome break in the day.
BJ Alarm Clock
This valentines day wake him up by giving him a blow job. Simple.
Don’t try to rouse him from his slumber, whisper in his ear or explain what you’re doing. If he asks what’s up just respond by saying “Happy Valentine’s!” Trust me, he won’t protest.
The blow job alarm clock is better than any cup of coffee he’ll ever have and will put a spring in his step for the rest of the day.
Erotic Massage
An erotic massage is like a regular massage but naughtier because you both get naked and oily ( He won’t get this at any massage therapist!). It’s slippery erotic fun.
Loosen him up starting with a head massage. We hold a surprising amount of tension in our scalp. He’ll think that’s a great treat, but wait…
Begin to peel away layers of his clothes as you move from his head down to his chest or back. As you’re undressing him you need to remove articles of clothes too.
Instead of putting the massage oil or cream on him – let him put it on your body. Rub it onto his body using your hands as little as possible. Use your breasts, belly and butt.
Position him on his stomach and massage up and down his body with your nicely lubed breasts. The combination of slick breasts, warmth and your hard nipples will feel fantastic. If your hair is long you can have fun whipping him with your hair up and down his body, too.
Once you roll him over onto his back you’ll want to show his ‘manhood’ a lot of love and attention! Have fun teasing and massaging his member.
Bring the erotic massage to a climax by finishing him off with a hand job he’ll never forget.
(Do you have the Hand Job Handbook & Online Videos?)
Rent a Naughty Movie
Rent or download. You don’t have to get anything hardcore.
Adult video production companies that are popular with both men & women are Vivid Video and Valentine Video. The
Enjoy petting, stroking and cuddling each other while you watch. If you notice his level of interest rising in his pants gently and slowing pet it but hold off unleashing his manhood until you are both ready to burst.
He’ll appreciate you going out of your way and doing something different. NOT to mention a break from reality TV.
Striptease
Have another look at the word ‘Striptease’ – you are ‘teasing’ him while you ’strip.’ Men love women who are sexual and not afraid to show it. So…
Push him down into a chair and unleash your sexuality on him. Give him a show he’ll never forget.
Remember to take charge. You can touch him but he can’t touch you – and you must enforce the rules! “Hands off, mister!”
Your outfit can be as simple as wearing his dress shirt and tie with a pair of jeans or panties OR you can get a little spicier with role costumes or lingerie.
Any one or combination of these priceless ideas will make this the best his best Valentine’s ever! And the ideas won’t break the bank.
