What Women Don’t Know About Men – Part 4
December 31, 2008 by Archer
The Art of Physical Attraction
Every woman starts off with a tight booty and a pretty pair of high heel s to show off a fresh manicure. You feel sexy when the men buzz around you right? Like honey to a bee. But, a few months into a relationship, when everyone is comfortable, the sweat pants come out and you stop shaving your legs each day. It’s an easy thing to justify.
Maybe one morning you feel cramps or want to snuggle under the covers for a few extra hours on a rainy day. It’s quite natural. But, then, those sweat pants become your best friend because they don’t remind you that you gaining a few extra pounds in your thighs or that you did not need that extra pint of Ben & Jerry double chocolate chip ripple at the grocery store.
In a society obsessed with skinny young girls with too much make up and pouty lips, many women fight back against the supermodel image. Granted, all women have that day when putting their hair up in a ponytail and running to bookstore in the rain make them look like a drowned cat. They also know that men are not attracted to the homeless look!
While no one is saying that you should slither into a gold spangled evening gown to run to Starbucks, if the only time your sex appeal sparkles to the surface is on your anniversary, then you are robbing yourself of that “I’m Too Sexy for My Shirt” feeling 364 days of the year. You are robbing your man of that sexy throb that he gets when he see you. Getting your glam on does not take much extra effort and can remind your man that he is sexually important to you each time you see him.
Try these Three Simple Ways to Pump Up Your Sex Appeal for Your Man:
- Rinse and Repeat. Change your hair. If we were to poll women on how often they change their hair, most would say they have had the same style or color since high school. Go to a professional hairstylists (no…HairMasters does not count!) and talk about what style is best for your face. Getting out of the rut your hairstyle keeps you in will give you man cause to notice and show that you are interested in your appearance for his sake. HINT: Ask his opinion! He must have a fantasy hidden in there somewhere.
- Feel the Rush. Going to the gym or working out has to be the worst. Burning those calories and picking up your heart rate a few times a week has some special advantages. Not only does it keep everything firm and your body tight, but it is healthy for your heart to keep in shape. HINT: If you find working out boring, then get a workout buddy. Many couples take the time to work out together. All of that sweat, adrenaline, and muscles working can led to hot sex.
- Check in with the Pretty Girls. Gather your girlfriends and start a “pamper me” day. When you set time aside to get manicures and pedicures together, you are treating yourself to personal beauty time. If an intervention is needed, go and get a makeover together. HINT: You will love the time with your friends and he will love the results.
You will be surprised how much appreciation your man will show when you are together if his libido kicks in when he sees you. You know that funky little twist in your stomach and jump in your heart you get when you see him? For men, the kick in the pants (wink) of their sexuality is the same feeling.
When spend time practicing the art of attraction for your man, he will return the effort with the sparkle of pride you see, especially as other men admire you, by being the man on your arm. He does not want you to stay cut like a supermodel. After all, no man wants that kind of upkeep and competition. But, you can add passion to the relationship just by taking pride in yourself.
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Lap Dancing Lessons Buyers Guide
December 11, 2008 by Sex_Goddess
Whether you want lap dance lessons to add spice to a relationship or put some shake in your sexy stride, finding the right lap dance teacher can be a challenge.
Many women, because of the sexual nature of a lap dance, have difficulty acting on the impulse to learn the booty bump and grind that will elevate their game from passive participant to creative control.
Among the reasons to learn how to take lap dance lessons, the strongest argument is the freedom to become the sex goddess in control without using your hands. With these tasty tidbits of guidance, you can get the right lap dance lessons and still retain control of your comfort zones.
- Quality over Quantity: With the nature of lap dance lessons, most women go to professional strippers or strip clubs thinking to find experts in lap dances. In truth, a lap dance is an artistic dance taught by quality dance studios by professionally trained dance instructors. Always seek lap dance lessons from instructors with qualifications and credentials to teach dancing in a qualified studio.
- Find Your Crowd: Although it might be a little uncomfortable to learn to lap dance with a group, it safer and you will feel less exposed once the lessons start if you have others trying to learn the same thing. For extra fun, grab some girlfriends who want to have lap dance lessons and start a group of your own. Not only will you get great group rates…you will feel more comfortable with friends around you giggling and encouraging you to get your groove on!
- Leave out the Distractions: Any lap dance lessons will have one strong requirement: NO MEN. Because the goal is to learn to lap dance and not be the center of male attention, men are often prohibited as a matter of rules from the lap dance lessons to avoid distraction and keep you from feeling uncomfortable in a sexual setting. If you are thinking that you would like to include a man in your lap dance lessons, consult your instructor ahead of time for private lessons and rules.
- Formal Wear: Many dance studios that teach lap dance lessons will have strong ideas and suggestions about what you should wear. From guidance about the proper shoes to the types of clothing you should wear to become the mistress of the bump and grind, be sure you are aware of these suggestions ahead of time. Because you instructor teaches lap dance lessons many times a month, she will know what you should wear to make sure you are the most comfortable and ready to learn when you arrive at the studio.
- You are Surrounded: Always make sure that your surrounds for your lap dance lessons are clean and professionally kept. Although some instructors teach lap dance lessons out of their home studio or share a dance studio with other instructors, your lap dance lessons at the very least should be in a private setting with a comfortable environment that does not make you wonder if you are in bad side of town or the water is safe to drink. You are looking for sexy…not a sexually transmitted disease!
The common thread between all of these tips for getting the most from your decision to buy lap dance lessons is appreciating your own comfort zone. Because the sexual nature of lap dance lesson is very personal, you can take some extra credit and head over to www.lapdanceunleashed.com to sign up for the free newsletter full of tips, tricks, and routines to sharpen your lap dance skills from the comfort of your own home! Talk about comfortable!
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How to Remove Age Spots from the Face
December 5, 2008 by andreaa
No one likes age spots; it’s a sign we’re getting older and that the days of our faces looking as fresh as a baby’s butt are over. Problem is, it’s so freaking expensive to reverse the damage those days of drinking margarita’s on the beach have caused us. If only we could have remembered to reapply sunscreen every second drink. I make sure of it now!
In the meantime, I can’t afford thousands of dollars on lasers and specialized lotions to fix the damage I have done thus far: some cost more than my monthly rent! So I searched high and low for some natural remedies to remove age spots from the face, and for treatments that would keep my account balance in check while doing so.
Everything has a price, but anything is better than the aforementioned pricey treatment options. Many natural ways to erase the past can be found in your fridge or cupboard. (note: gin to erase the memory of that horrid one night stand does not apply here).
Aloe Vera
Yeah, it will help with the sunburn that caused the damage in the first place, but it can also remove age spots. Apply fresh aloe vera (if not fresh, use the gel) to the spot twice a day for a month.
Apple Cider
I’ve taken apple cider for years to aid my body in the breakdown of fat. Not only is it good to ingest in limited quantities but it can be used topically to help removes age spots from the face. Combine two parts apple cider vinegar with one part orange juice to any and all ages spots with a cotton ball. Do this twice a day for a month.
Buttermilk
Buttermilk is good in pancakes. It is also good for the face. A main ingredient in buttermilk is lactic acid, which is an alpha hydroxyacid (AHA). You might recognize this chemical as being the same one used in expensive anti-aging creams you can buy at drugstores. AHA exfoliates the skin; therefore, so does buttermilk! Apply it to the discolorations on your face twice a day, and they should disappear in a month.
Lemon Juice
When I sip margarita’s on the beach I put lemon juice in my hair for natural, sun-kissed highlights. When I want to reverse the damage the sun made, I put it on my face! Lemon juice is a natural rejuvenator that helps fade and lighten your skin. Rub the juice of a lemon on your face twice a day for a month and check out the results. Save the leftover slices for your cosmopolitan.
Onion
It can make you cry, and apparently weep from joy with its skin whitening capabilities. Cut an onion and rub the juice over your age spots every day. The more potent the better so stick with a yellow or white one.
Vitamin E
Vitamin E has long been used to remove the appearance of stretch marks and scarring of the skin; every woman should have a jar of this! Apply it topically to the age spots on your face twice daily for a month.
Castor Oil
Applied topically castor oil is supposed to work wonders. Gently rub the oil into your skin twice daily and the spots should be gone in a month.
Garbanzo Beans
Hopefully this one works as I love hummus! Mash up some of these beans with water to make a paste and apply it to the skin. Leave it on till it dries, then wipe it off with a warm face cloth.
Potatoes
Finally, a use for those not-so-carb-friendly spuds: cut them into slices and rub the juices into the face, leaving it on for 15 minutes. The juice of the potato can help reduce blemishes and skin discolorations.
Not every remedy will work on every person. I haven’t had a chance to try all of these yet, but for those of you who have luck with any one of these options, let us know!
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