Six Signals: How to Know When a Guy Likes You

As little girls, do you have memories of torturing the poor petals of flower to the rhythm of “he loves me, he loves me not?” Don’t we all?

It seems to be that we start early on our quest to understand how to tell if a guy likes you. Contrary to the melody musings of Cher, the key to understanding how a man feels about you is not in his kiss unless you are looking for passion to stroke your pride. If, instead, you are seeking the true answer to how to know when a guy likes you, then here are six easy ways to form your own Get-A-Guy checklist:

1. Fumble, Stumble, Grumble. Men are not the masters of communication. I know. I know. Big surprise there! But the answer you seek to know if a guy likes you can be found in any changes in the way he expresses himself. If a naturally outgoing guy suddenly turns quiet or shy in your presence, then the chances are very good that he likes you. Because he cares what you think past his usual guy ego of wanting to impress the ladies, he is trying to make a good impression. So, when he fumbles, stumbles, or grumbles in a mass of unusually awkward ways, his body and mind are enjoy the mixed signals of your smile.
   
2. Peeling the Onion. Because most men are not built to reveal 25,000 words on each meeting, the one of the subtle ways to know when a guy likes you is if he asks questions that require you to share your life. In a non-stalker, mobster turned CIA informant way, asking you questions about where you grew up, what you like to do in your spare time, and what you like to read are all ways that he is showing that he likes you enough to engage in your answers.
   
3. New Crew. Among the long standing “how to tell when a guy likes you” rules is if he introduces you to the people in his life. That means he is showing you off as an important facet in his life to the people he cares for and loves. But, if he seeks to put together a mixture of your favorite people with his favorite people, then he is seeking to establish you as a couple with a long lasting relationship.
4. Furious Focus. Did you see that pretty girl walk by? Did he see her? If he watches you while you talk and gives you his focus, then the chance improve that this guy likes you. Many men naturally, with innocent intentions, check out other women while they are sitting with a woman. It’s like shopping for cereal or shampoo. But, you can be sure that a guy likes you when you sit with him in a public place and his focus is on you…even if Britney Spears walked by!
5. Reason Please. A great sign that a guy likes you is when he starts making up reasons to see or talk to you again during the present meeting. When he cannot seem to wait to talk to you or see you again, you can be relatively sure this guy likes you. And, the sillier or no-reason the reason is the greater the indicator of his affection.
   
6. Collateral Respect. The first sign that a guy is into you is in the change of respect he shows you. You can tell that he likes you if he asks your opinion on simple or complex things. However, the true test of how to know when a guy likes you is when there is collateral respect. He respects the people around you…your friends, family, or co-workers…as extensions of your life.

Although how to know when a guy likes you might be a burning question in your mind right now, as each of these items measure up against his behavior you will start to get a good picture of the man you are seeking to bring into your life. Just remember, now that you know how to tell when a guy likes you… use your power for good and share it with other women.

Have a great story about how you knew when a guy liked you or a tip to share? Don’t be shy…share it with us!

Three Ways to Learn to Lap Dance

If you are ready to learn to lap dance to set your man on fire and give yourself that “Master your Man” glow, then you have come to the right place because we know all of the juicy details about the learning the booty roll!

Men are never too old to appreciate a woman who has a strong sense of sexuality and guts to shake her booty.  But, making a commitment to learn to lap dance can skyrocket you into dance floor diva and start his mind bubbling with ways you can add extra sizzle to sex.

Yes, most men do not hide the fact that a woman who can control the junk in her truck is more sexually exciting.  Even more than that, you will gain an added dose of confidence when his eyes stroke the curves of your bottom like tight jeans with anticipation of teasing him with some solo bump and grind.  With some confidence and by finding your type of woman, you can pick the most comfortable way to learn to lap dance from these sensual options:

• Slow and Steady: Many women find that reading about the night moves of how to learn to lap dance is the best way to bring extra sexy to their game.  Though there are a few books on the market about how to lap dance, the best ones follow the simple idea that a picture is worth a thousand words.  At first, it might be difficult to read and then translate the moves into your own actions, but with some work you will learn to lap dance.
• Play It Again: If you are somewhat shy about getting your groove on in front of another person, then learning to lap dance will add excitement to your sex life as well as give you the confidence of control.   With some great audios and videos on the market, the combination of both is the best methods because you learn to lap dance with a visual aid and the reinforcement of a verbal instruction.Plus, you have the extra benefit of giving yourself all of the time you need to go from dysfunctional to diva that rocks his world because you can review the materials unlimited times without extra cost.  This is the method used in the hottest new lap dance instruction to hit both coasts in 2o years, The Lap Dance Unleashed.   This series gives tips on everything from how to groom your body to how to add sex to your stroll in an easy to understand combination of pictures, audio, and video with an acclaimed lap dance expert…all from the comfort of your own home.
• Bring on the Bump and Grind: Some women find themselves inept in the ways of lap dance without the hands on guidance of a professional instructor.  Don’t be shy.  Get some girlfriends together for a strip-a-thon or fly solo on your sensual soaring of self discovery!  Either way, get a teacher and get started.

The key to successfully learning to lap dance is to practice, practice, practice…and remember, this is one place where you man will appreciate your on the job training.  No matter which way you learn to lap dance, you can get tons of free newsletter full of tips and tricks at www.lapdanceunleashed.com to get the inside scoop on moves and maneuvers to send your guy into a frenzy of passion and keep his eyes on you at all times.

After all, that is why you want to learn to lap dance right…to Master Your Man!

Fat Loss Lesson From the Military

By The Fat Loss Nerd, Jeff Anderson

The real reason the military says “We do more before 6am then most people do ALL DAY!”

Here’s why…

When the military set out to develop a fitness program that would hone and tone a lean “fit-to-fight” physique, they didn’t have to the option of waiting around for the next “fad diet”…

…they don’t Google “fat loss” on the internet and sign up for the first advertised “guru” program they can find…

…and they DON’T buy “fat burner” supplements by the truckload and issue them at morning roll call.

The program they use MUST be effective enough to work on ALL body types, both men and women, and for anyone from the 18 year old knucklehead fresh off the turnip truck to the 50-something career soldier nearing retirement.

But before you take off, thinking this is going to be some recruitment ad to try to get you to enlist in the armed forces just to save a few bucks on your current gym membership, let me tell you why the military’s fitness program (in my biased opinion) is the finest on the planet…and YOUR ticket to creating the best body of your life in 2008.

Military Fat Loss Principle: Train Early – Burn Early

In the military, we don’t wait for the sun to rise to begin our day. PT (“physical training” or exercise) starts at anywhere from 5am to 6am each day.

Training early in the morning jumpstarts your metabolism and shifts it into high gear to burn fat all day long…and you don’t need to be a soldier to take advantage of that!

Try to get your workout in as early as possible in the day to ratchet up your body’s natural fat-burning abilities before your metabolism slows down in the evening.

[ Editor Note: Don't wait for January (like most people) to decide to shed some weight - time is your best friend... Learn all the secrets the military has to teach about combating the fat ]

7 Ways To Save On Gas

Even though oil prices have come down you wouldn’t know it by looking at the pumps, would you? Well, thought I’d give you some easy tips to cut your fuel costs and put some money back in your pocket.

1. Tighten your gas cap – When your gas cap is loose or open the gas in the tank evaporates which means you’re throwing money down a hole
2. Clear air – Replace your dirty air filter and you’ll get 10% more fuel efficiency
3. Less gas is more – A full tank of gas is heavy and reduces your mileage – so only filling your tank half way will increase your mileage
4. Red Lines – revving or goosing your engine into the higher rpm’s is a sure way to gobble gas. Keep the rpm’s below 2000 and save money
5. Tires – make a quick stop at the station to check your tire pressure – soft tires means bad mileage. Read the recommended tire pressure inside the door jam or on tires themselves
6. Overweight – The golf clubs and box of books in the back of my car are costing me money in gas to haul them around. Get rid of excess weight
7. Share – Everyday at rush hour a car after car going the same direction with only one person inside. Take turns driving with someone who works or lives near you and you’ll save 50% on commuting costs. Look on craigslist or google for people interested in a ‘carpool’ who work and/or live near you.

[Editor Note: Run your car on water? "Yeah right!" you're saying. It's true...The technology to run your car on water has been available since the early 1900's!?

Why haven't we heard about it? Petrol gas has been so cheap until recently. Watch short video on how to run your car on water and save 12-45% on fuel costs ]

How to make your lips look bigger & fuller Video

Men love luscious lips.

Elle Magazine beauty expert shows you easy steps and makeup techniques to make your lips look bigger, fuller and more kissable.

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Does wearing red boost your sex appeal?

Does wearing red give you a sexual advantage? Maybe, according to a
new study which found that men find women sexier if they’re sporting a
crimson hue rather than, say, blue or green or possibly even black!

Red is the universal color of romance, passion and sex.

I see tons of women decked out in sexy outfits – but most of the
time they are black. But it makes sense that wearing red can make you
sexier. All men turn their head for a hot red sports car and a set of
luscious, red lips. Red is  catches the eye.

In a series of five studies, about 150 heterosexual men rated
photographs of women framed in red, white, gray, green, or blue, or
with the woman in a red or blue shirt.

On a 7-point scale, with 1 being the least sexy and 7 a white-hot
sex goddess, the color red added about 1.25 points to the rating, say
researchers.

The study found men also were more likely to say they wanted to have sex with a woman and that they would be willing to spend more on a date if she were in red, according to the report in the Journal of Personality and Social Psychology.

“We only found the effect for attraction, so males don’t rate
females in red as more intelligent, more likable, or as having a better
personality; they only rate her as sexier and more attractive,” says
study author Andrew Elliot, Ph.D., a professor of psychology at the
University of Rochester in New York.

Tips For Living an Exceptional and Superb Life 1

In light of recent financial crisis and economic hardships I thought I’d give you some power tips on living a better life.

1. Take a 30-60 minute walk every day. And while you walk – Smile! Is is the ultimate anti-depressant.
2. Sit in silence for at least 10 minutes each day.  Buy a lock if you have to.
3. Always pray and make time for exercise.
4. Spend more time with people over the age of 70 and under the age of 6.
5. Eat more foods that grow on trees and plants and eat less food that is manufactured in factories.
6. Drink green tea and plenty of water.  Eat broccoli, almonds and walnuts.
7. Try to make at least three people smile each day.
8. Clear your clutter from your house, car, desk and let new and flowing energy into your life.
9. Don’t waste your precious energy on gossip, issues of the past, negative thoughts or things you cannot control.  Instead, invest your energy in the positive present moment.
10. Realize that life is a school and you are here to learn.  Problems are simply part of the curriculum that appear and fade away like algebra class…but the lessons you learn will last a lifetime.

20 more tips coming soon.

I can’t take credit for these wonderful life tips.  One of the panel members at a recent financial seminar  was kind enough to make laminated copies and pass them out.

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Longer, Sexier Legs

How to Strip & Lap Dance Tip:

 

Most women don’t necessarily keep a pair of ‘hooker heels’ at the ready in the back of their shoe closet, nor do they sport stilettos to the office Monday mornings for work.

But a lack of fantasy footwear should never stop you. Even in the hottest of lap dances, the shoes have to come off sometime.

So good dancers learn to walk on their bare tip-toes.

Walking on your tip-toes helps you attain the same physical effect as wearing the shoes: it makes your legs look extra toned and longer than they actually are, and your calf muscles get a work out while you’re dancing as an added bonus!!

Achieving a pronounced arch in the small of the back (pushing the boobs out) is essential to triggering an innate reptilian response from the male brain.

Arched back, butt out, chest forward= MATING TIME!!

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Learn How to Strip and Give a Lap Dance

Hugh Hefner Dumped

Hugh Hefner gets simultaneously dumped by all his girlfriends who starred on hit TV show ‘Girls Next Door.’

Man, what is the world coming to when an 80 something multimillionaire mogul can’t keep 7 blond, bombshells who he each get an allowance and free housing in the mansion?

First the economy tanks and then this…

What do men really want?

Do you know that your relationship or marriage can be filled with passion, exciting and long lasting if you REALLY understood the man in your life? What does he really want?

Take a peek inside the inner workings of a man’s mind…

- His secret desires
- What does he really need
- Is he getting what he wants?
- The formula for keeping him happy & satisfied?

This is required reading for every woman who loves her man.

Read 500 Secrets Every Woman Should Know About Men

Dance: How to Use Oil To Add Excitement

How a little drop of oil can make an exciting difference Add a little oil to the equation to make things Try this for something new and exciting for you and your man

Arm yourself with some erotic massage oil or baby oil.

1. Seat your man on the bed or in his favorite chair.
2. Give him your most mischievous look or ‘I’ve been a bad girl’ look
3. Slowly, slowly – layer by layer peel away the clothes that cover your best assets
4. Slowly pour 2 tablespoons of oil onto your ‘assets’ (breasts or buttocks)
5. Gently and erotically rub and massage the oil into your skin
6. Really look like you’re enjoying yourself
7. Look him in the eyes for 3 seconds
8. Look back at your ‘assets’
9. After having fun with yourself invite him to help you.

When you use regular old oil to make things exciting – he’ll fall all over himself to get at you.

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Why do men love to watch a woman striptease?

“Why do some men love to watch a woman strip? What is it that they find so seductive and sexy?”

This is every man’s erotic dream. Every man love’s the idea of watching a woman strip. It seems that the idea of a woman stripping evokes an erotic response in every mans libido. It’s like dreaming, but, is actually reality.

A man can dream of a woman stripping and get an immediate erection! Why? Because it’s a natural response. Their hormones are reacting to an erotic response. In other words, it is normal.

In actuality, the man wants the woman to strip and of course, the natural response to this , is an erection and the possibility of joining in and engaging in sexual intercourse.

The thought of seeing a female stripping, is every man’s normal need. As far as sexuality is concerned. And the thought of what is to come, is the main reason that a man loves to watch a female strip. It’s the reason so many men go to strip clubs.

Just sitting there watching some strange female strip, gets their libido on the move!

It causes the man to almost immediately want to have a sexual encounter with this woman, and knowing that they have to go home to their wives/girlfriends, makes it even more erotic.

They know it’s a no-no,but, it’s the idea that they are being sneaky, knowing better, but, it makes it even more erotic. Life’s vicious circle as they say. Well, maybe not in a vicious way, just a continuing circle.

So, the way I see it, it is a normally evoked arousal, that most, if not, all men have a hard time controlling.

This is something that is as old a man himself. Going back to biblical times. It just happens to be the make up of a man. It sometime gets them in so much trouble, that they just can’t see a way out!

That is where the biggest problem lies. Most men can’t control their libido, or sexual urges.

This is every man’s erotic dream. Every man love’s the idea of watching a woman strip. It seems that the idea of a woman stripping evokes an erotic response in every mans libido. It’s like dreaming, but, is actually reality.

A man can dream of a woman stripping and get an immediate erection! Why? Because it’s a natural response. Their hormones are reacting to an erotic response. In other words, it is normal.

In actuality, the man wants the woman to strip and of course, the natural response to this , is an erection and the possibility of joining in and engaging in sexual intercourse.

The thought of seeing a female stripping, is every man’s normal need. As far as sexuality is concerned. And the thought of what is to come, is the main reason that a man loves to watch a female strip. It’s the reason so many men go to strip clubs.

Just sitting there watching some strange female stripping, gets their libido on the move!

It causes the man to almost immediately want to have a sexual encounter with this woman, and knowing that they have to go home to their wives/girlfriends, makes even more erotic.

They know it’s a no-no,but, it’s the idea that they are being sneaky, knowing better, but, it makes it even more erotic. Life’s vicious cirlce as they say. Well, maybe not in a vicious way, just a continuing circle.

So, the way I see it, it is a normally evoked arousal, that most, if not, all men have a hard time controlling.

This is something that is as old a man himself. Going back to biblical times. It just happens to be the make up of a man. It sometime gets them in so much trouble, that they just can’t see a way out!

That is where the biggest problem lies. Most men can’t control their libido, and go way out on a curve, doing something that they know is wrong, and not being able to stop themselves.

The idea of doing this anyway, is one of the reasons that watching a woman strip is so seductive. It’s just the idea of seeing it, watching it, and wanting to be a part of it.

Even if it is wrong, or if it is right, depending on the marital status, if they are in a good relationship. Either way, watching a woman give a lap dance or give a striptease is something that is too erotic to pass up!

How to Have Sex like Britney Spears or Pam Anderson

If the passion romps of Britney Spears or Pamela Anderson splashed across the front page of gossip magazines peeks your interest in a non-need to sexually expose yourself in public kind of way, then you have come to the right place to unleash your inner sex-kitten.  In truth, many women spend time copying the styles of famous vixens while wondering how to have sex like Britney Spears or Pamela Anderson.  With all of the videos floating around in the web, practically everyone has seen the best the play by play sexual mojo of Britney Spears and Pamela Anderson.

Representing two ends of the spectrum for sassy women, the twenty-something wild child and the MILF Playboy pin-up do share a few sexy secrets hidden away in for groove enhancing moves.  To have sizzling sex like Pam Anderson or Britney Spears, consider this the ABCs to getting down and dirty with the man of your choice:

• Align Your Attraction: If you have ever watched Britney Spears with her little Catholic girl skirt or Pam Anderson with her bottom cleavage exposing shirts, you will see that each woman has aligned her attraction to her own best features…and EVERY woman has something sexy about her.  Whether it is your hair, fingernails, eyes, or butt, promote the positives to bring the sex goddess out in you and give yourself permission to have sex like Britney or Pam.
• Break Out of Your Box: Every woman has one or two things that she is dying to try with the right man.  With either a new sexual position or a new place to pounce on your partner, you are armed and ready to kick your sex life into high gear with some night moves of your own.  One of the essential keys to achieving sex like Pamela Anderson is the element of surprise that adds that extra dash of spice to dazzle your man into seeing you in a different light.
• Create Confidence: Many women forget that the most powerfully sexy thing they can slip on is confidence.  Whether walking into a room full of other women or planning your play for a one on one night of passion, having knock-your-stilettos-off sex like Britney Spears involves creating an air of confidence in your walk, smile, and body language.  If feel confidence (even if you have to fake it until you make it!), you will exude sexuality to your man.
• Define Your Desires: By defining your desires, you learn the true secret of igniting the fire of having sex like Britney Spears or Pam Anderson.  Knowing what turns you on, how you sexually react to certain strokes, and where your pleasure points are located will always give you a map to guide your man.  In reality, part of learning to have sex like Pam Anderson or Britney Spears is knowing how your body react to sexual pleasure, so explore your body with your fingers, your favorite sex toy, or your favorite man!
• Enhance Your Ecstasy: Speaking of sex toys, no matter if you feel that slight rush of embarrassment or tingle of temptation to find out what the craze is for the hottest sex toys buzzing in bedrooms everywhere, then now is the time to get off on that path.  Not only will you learn the sensual secrets of sex like Pam Anderson or Britney Spears with the pretty sex toys that vibrate for your pleasure, you can use them with your partner to double your pleasure and double your fun!

If you some sexy moves of your own that would make Britney Spears or Pam Anderson green with jealousy, then share them with us today.  We love to learn and play!

What to Look For In an Exotic Dance Class

Exercise is often thought of as a chore: we should do it, but we don’t necessarily want to. That’s why it’s great when you find a way to get exercise that you actually enjoy doing. In a day and age when women are looking for a sense of empowerment and dealing with shifting ideals regarding their own sexuality, they are also looking for new and innovative ways to stay in shape.

Dancing like a stripper is not just for the stripper anymore. Exotic dance class is extremely popular with women of all age groups these days. It can help you tone your body, increase your self-confidence, lose weight, improve your sex life and increase your sense of empowerment as a woman.

Classes can include basic to complex exotic moves, lap dance, floor work, chair dance, walking with confidence, pole dance choreographies, and poses on the pole.   The best part? You don’t need previous dance experience to benefit from an exotic dance class!

Many women think they would be too embarrassed to shake their asses at an exotic dance class: in reality, classes are filled with people like you! Women unite, and realize there is nothing shameful about getting in touch with your inner sex kitten and getting a tighter ass at the same time!

As far as classes go, I suggest going with the pro. Anytime you learn something new, you want to consult an expert. Who is guilty of taking your man’s pocket change? The exotic dancer down the street.

Let’s face it girls: she’s good at what she does. We want to take what she has mastered and made a fine living at and use it on our men! An exotic dance classes taught by an actual exotic dancer is what you need.

Go for the beginner class. The last thing you want to do is walk into a class with a bunch of skinny bitches wearing tights and flaunting their asses to a routine they have been working on for months. Dumb it down when you’re first starting out.

The key to getting your man hard is confidence ladies! You need to be comfortable with the class you’re in or you’ll let your nerves get the best of you. Find a beginner class, walk in and own that shit. You are a sex goddess. You are hot. And damn it, your man is gonna blow his stack when you are done.

If you’re too embarrassed or shy to take a class with other people, try starting out with an at-home exotic dance class. A fabulous way to get just as much instruction as an actual class is through an online one. There a ton of them out there but the only one I’ve found to be worth my money is www.lapdanceunleashed.com.

I’ve spent a lot of my hard earned cash ordering exercise videos, and if you want something that’ll tone your body and give your sex life a boost, this is the exotic dance class you need to take. The best part about this class is you can access it online: even if you aren’t at your house you can do it.

It’s always accessible and you get instruction from an actual exotic dancer. Regardless of how you do it, exotic dance class is an amazing way to get in shape. Once you master the moves, you will master you man, and your less-than-tight ass. To learn more check out www.lapdanceunleashed.com today!