His & Hers Vibrating Rabbit Cockring
March 4, 2010
His & Hers Rabbit Vibrating Cockring
We review another winning sex toy for couples. A close cousin to the Rabbit Vibrator made popular by ‘Sex and the City’, the ‘Rabbit Cockring‘ is a toy you can BOTH enjoy!
Her Pleasure…
- Gently stimulates the clitoris & other erogenous zones (see video)
- Quicker, more frequent orgasms
- More powerful orgasms
For Him…
- Longer, harder erections
- More intense orgasms
- Gently stimulates his testicles
- Delay ejaculation and last longer in bed
Watch This Video - “Vibrating Rabbit Cockring”
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Advantages:
- More powerful vibration in its class
- More durable silicone
- Longer battery life
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Understand What Men Want
February 24, 2010
“If Only I Could Understand What Men Want….”
Understand Men
by Bob Grant, Licensed Professional Counselor - aka “The Relationship Doctor”
Men always say they can’t understand women, and that women are so complicated. Well, for many women, it is the exact opposite. Most would give anything to understand what makes men “tick.” Even though women want to know what he’s thinking, men are often reluctant to share what is in their hearts. What’s a woman to do?w
Rather than describe all the differences between the sexes, it is often more helpful to focus on a few areas that any woman can understand.
1) Men are more sensitive than women. While that might sound silly, the truth is that men don’t have the ability to recover from emotional trauma as effectively as a woman. Because of this, men keep themselves from getting too upset. When a man hears he should just “let his feelings out,” what he translates that into is this, “If I let my feelings out, I might not be able to control them.”
2) Men hate fighting. For men, conflict is not simply resolving a problem. Fighting, to a man, means one has to win and the other needs to be totally defeated. Men often prefer conflict that is non-emotional because it is less threatening to them. Once a conflict becomes emotionally charged, it is very difficult for a man to contain those feelings and the most frequent coping skill is for them to become quiet. It may seem like they are punishing you, but they are most likely trying not to lose control.
3) Men want to get married. In spite of what many progressive cultures preach, the truth is that a majority of men in the world do get married. While the freedom of being single has its appeal, it comes with one primary drawback – it is lonely. While this might not sound overly romantic, finding a woman that a man can trust is just as important as finding one who is beautiful.
by Bob Grant, L.P.C “The Relationship Doctor”
[Editor Note: Bob Grant, L.P.C., has taken his 17 years of private practice as a Licensed Professional Counselor and Coach and condensed only the best information into a mouth-watering, powerful handbook on what men find themselves powerless to resist in a woman. The Woman Men Adore…and Never Want to Leave ]
Romantic Mood Killers For Men
February 23, 2010
Don’t want to be the one to kill the romantic mood?
Most women know how to get a man going but do you know that there are some little things that you do that can be a real romantic mood killer. It doesn’t matter whether you are just dating or in a serious relationship if you do these things you are essentially turning him off.
When asked about romantic mood killers the top answer from most men was:
1. When she wants to have a “talk”
Yep, that’s it. We’re all ready for a nice romantic evening. We have it all planned out in our minds. The nice dinner (just to help put you in the mood), the bubble bath, the sexy lingerie, the new handcuffs, yes it’s all planned out and we can’t wait and then you says those four little words: “Can we talk?” and our fragile male world crumbles.
The romantic mood – gone, the anticipation of a night of pure indulgent sex – gone. Why do you have to do it? Do you even realize that you are?
When you say “let’s talk”, it’s as if you have just dropped a brick right into our crotch. Yes it’s painful.
Come on we’re planning to have a nice romantic evening why do you have to spoil it by wanting to TALK. When women say TALK it’s never about something trivial and nice and nine times out of ten it’s the serious talk when you want to know about getting married or having children. We really don’t want to talk about those things on a romantic night. When we do you will be the first to know believe me.
SECRET : Here’s the truth about men – we don’t want to THINK about love or how we feel OR use our memory to recall how you or we were feeling at a certain place at a specific moment. Gaaaaa!
Men communicate through physical actions. Being intimate with a woman is the secret to how men tap into their deepest emotions – allowing themselves to really feel – and really CONNECT with YOU! Sad but true. Sorry ladies. But that’s the way it is.
If you want to ‘have the talk’ I suggest you keep it light and talk about what you plan on doing to him later on and what he can do back to you. I guarantee you won’t spoil the mood and you will have the best romantic night ever.
2. Running to the bathroom to ‘clean up’
When you rush away to clean up any stickiness or sweat – you’re sending the message “Yuk, boy germs!” which sends him straight back to grade school.
After lovin’ – don’t panic , it won’t leave a stain just give it a few minutes and enjoy being next to him. Heck – snuggle next to him and let him enjoy his own sticky mess! With luck he’ll ask you to go clean up – LOL!
Until next time,
Less talk – more inter-action
How Long Do Men Want Sex To Last?
February 10, 2010
Have you ever wondered how long men really want sex to last?
I recently carried out a survey where I put this very question to a group of men. The results were amazing and the time duration that men specified didn’t include foreplay either.
If you are looking to really put a smile on your man’s face then take note of these results and try helping him to reach that goal. It’s a great experiment to try and of course there is a lot of fun to be had trying it too.
Survey Results:
50% of men said they wanted sex to last 30 minutes
25% of men said they wanted sex to last 15 minutes
21% of men said they wanted sex to last 60 minutes
4% of men said they wanted sex to last 10 minutes
As you can see from these results under 10 minutes doesn’t even feature. Men really do want the whole sex thing to last longer than what most reports claim. I know that there are a lot of reports and articles out there that say the average time couples spend actually having sex is five minutes and if this is true then there really are a lot of very unhappy men out there.
Why not try an experiment. Time your next sex session and see what the results are. This will give you are starting point to work from. IF you fall under the 10 minutes then might I suggest that you find ways to make him last longer. There are plenty of thing that you can do. You might want to try buying a penis ring. These are great for helping a man last longer and for you ladies the good news is that they also make him feel a lot bigger too. Us men love these cock rings because they enhance the sensations of sex too. You can buy these from all sex shops and if you really want to make it fun might I suggest that you get one that has a vibe built in so that you can maximize your own pleasure too.
When all is said and done, the reason you visit this blog and read these posts is so that you can pick up some valuable tips and information on how to please your man and have the best sex ever. I tell it like it is and with that said here’s a little tid bit for you to chew on.
There is a really strong correlation with the frequency of sex and your health and happiness. The reason for this is that sex is a high intensity exercise and therefore the longer you spend doing it the better it is for you. Makes sense right?
So my advice for today: Get a stopwatch, time your next sex session and then work on getting up to at least 30 minutes or more.
Believe me he will love you for it and a happy man means a lot more pleasure for you too.
To passion,
Archer
PS as always – Please comment. I love your comments, questions and feedback.
He Never Wants Sex!
February 10, 2010
QUESTION: What if you’re completely comfortable with your body like few of us women are, BUT your boyfriend never seems to want sex?
How long should you wait before you jump him? In two months he’s never even tried sliding his hand under my top. He always says stuff like he’s too tired or just drinks so much he passes out. – Carmy
ANSWER:
Carmy, let me get this straight – you’ve only been together for 2 months, you love your body and want to have lots of sex BUT he’s not interested, is that right?
Aaahhh…why are you with this guy?!
No sex?! Might as well spend your time with your good girlfriends or a gay man.
Don’t invest too much time in this guy, OK? Seems to me like your boyfriend is either depressed, stressed or straight-up has a drinking problem.
It’s hard not to take things like this personally – but sometimes it’s not about you. He could have deeper personal issues that you can’t help him with.
One suggestion is to take the lead. Get passionately inspired about your life, work, play, relationships. If he doesn’t follow your lead you may find he doesn’t fit into your life. PLUS the above idea is just a great way to live, isn’t it?
Who knows, your new improved life may help you find that new improved man…who loves passionate sex with you.
My alpha male advice…Get real, get inspired or get rid of him!
Don’t ‘jump him’ – dump him!
And that’s the Alpha Male answer.
[ If a better blow job doesn't get him inspired - nothing will! Check his pulse! How to give a better blow job ]
