4 Tips To End Sexual Boredom
February 4, 2010
Yaaawn. Bedroom boredom
If you have been with your partner for a while (let’s say years) then there is bound to come a stage where both of you are going to get bored. You might not mention it to one another but believe me if you have been doing the same position every time for the past year or so then your partner is bored stupid.
The fact of the matter is that sex should be exciting and passionate and there is nothing exciting or passionate about constantly doing the military position and not even attempting to try anything else. Couples can get lazy and especially you women. You find a comfortable sex position that you enjoy and that brings you to orgasm and that’s it. Every other position goes out the window and you don’t even want to try it. Don’t get me started on this ladies. The point is you need to spice up your sex life because if you are not both enjoying it what’s the point.
What I have devised for you is 4 great tips on how to break the sexual boredom, routine, rut or whatever you want to call it. These tips come from real men and there are the results of my latest survey.
Tip #1: Have Sex More Often
This was the top answer amongst the men I surveyed. It seems like after the honeymoon period most men are lucky if they get to have sex once a week. This just won’t do, come on, sex once a week, that is just ridiculous. When you start seeing someone you are probably have sex once a day if not more so why is it that when you get comfortable you take away this pleasure. I have a question for you ladies – do you not enjoy sex after the initial first couple of months with someone?
Tip #2: Have Sex At Different Times
If you only ever have sex when you go to bed at night then you will at some stage get bored. Why not try having sex first thing in the morning. Most men myself included love having sex first thing in the morning. It is a great start to the day. A quickie at lunch time, when the dinner is being prepared or whenever you can fit it in is a sure fire way to remove any boredom. Why not try grabbing your partner when he comes home from work and trying this out. I guarantee any boredom will soon be removed.
Tip #3: Use More Sex Positions
There are so many different sex positions to try and yet most of the women I know tend to find one they like and stick with it Boring…..Here’s a challenge for you. For an entire month you are not allowed to use your normal sexual position. Are you up for the challenge? Do you think you will be able to do it? I guarantee that if you take up this challenge you will find some really great positions and if there was any boredom or routine in your sex life it will have vanished by the end of the month and your relationship will be so much better too.
Tip #4: More Oral Sex
Oral sex is an important part of sex for both men and women but often when a relationship reaches the comfortable stage the oral sex takes a back seat. Why is this? I have heard women say things like, “I only gave you a blowjob because I was trying to impress you.” Or “That was when we first met.” Is there a rule that says you only give blowjobs when you first start having sex with your partner and then you can stop? I don’t think so. What is wrong with oral sex? You enjoy it don’t you?
If you have reached a plateau in your sexual life and you find that you are stuck in a routine then it is up to you to change it. You can see from the survey results what men want more of so why not take the initiative and put some of these tips into action. You’ll be surprised how quickly that boredom will fade.
FEEDBACK: What bores YOU in the bedroom? And/or share your suggestions below
Pork Better For Sex Than Viagra?
February 4, 2010
Oh, Miss Piggy, you're so naughty
Hey, I love pork as much as the next guy but could pork be the secret ingredient to spice up your sex life?
(Please be true – please be true – OH please!)
I had a good laugh at this recent article.
BUENOS AIRES – Argentina’s president recommended pork as an alternative to Viagra Wednesday, saying she spent a satisfying weekend with her husband after eating barbecued pork.
“I’ve just been told something I didn’t know; that eating pork improves your sex life . . . I’d say it’s a lot nicer to eat a bit of grilled pork than take Viagra,” President Cristina Fernandez said to leaders of the pig farming industry.
She said she recently ate pork and “things went very well that weekend, so it could well be true.”
Argentines are the world’s biggest per capita consumers of beef, but the government has sought to promote pork as an alternative in recent years due to rising steak prices and as a way to diversify the meat industry.
“Trying it doesn’t cost anything, so let’s give it a go,” Fernandez said in the televised speech.
Alpha Male: Do Men Notice Wrinkles, Bumps & Bulges?
January 26, 2010
QUESTION: “Do men even notice these wrinkles, bumps and bulges?” How can an aging woman still come across sexy with a less than perfect body? *sigh*
ANSWER: Ask yourself ”Do you notice HIS wrinkles, bumps and bulges?”
Oh, you do? Congrats! All systems go…you have eyes and a sense of touch.
Next.
I’ll tell you right now, the ONLY time this will be an issue with 100% of men is when it gets in the way of having frequent, hot sex.
The more of a big deal your lumps and bumps are to you – there more they will be to him. Period. So make a choice about what you’ll do right now and stick to it.
Do you find yourself attractive? NO? We men don’t want to hear about it. Really! We just want good old fashioned sex. Just do something about it…anything that makes YOU FEEL more attractive….and leave us out of it.
IF your lumps and bumps make YOU feel less attractive you either accept them as part of who you are and stop making excuses and feeling bad about it right now. OR do something about it. Sexy is all in the mind.
Today, we are bombarded by the media with sexy, female images – Combine this with today’s easy access to porn. Admittedly, the bar has been set very high for women. No wonder female body image is much more of an issue for women. (Men have more of an issue around money)
When men were surveyed about what they appreciate about their lovers body – the respondents happiest in their relationship replied “She takes care of herself.” What these men are really saying is – they really appreciate and find attractive a woman who puts in effort to be more slender, fit and put together than other women in their age group.
That’s the Alpha Male’s answer.
4 Surefire Ways To Turn-Off Your Man In Bed
January 26, 2010
I love surveys. They allow me to give you all the information you need about making sure your relationship and sex life is going the way you want without me coming across as a know it all. With surveys you get real information from real men and not just my point of view. The survey results that I want to present you with today are from men who were asked what turned them off in bed. The results are exactly what I expected but what do you think?
First, 41% of men said that when a woman is totally silent this is a real turn off. If you are one of these women then I have something that will help you out. It’s called “How To Talk Dirty Without Feeling Stupid”. This program will turn you from mute into sex goddess and believe me if you can talk dirty to your man he will do whatever you ask. There is nothing nicer than a woman who knows how to talk dirty during sex it is a real turn on.
In second place with 24% of the votes it was women who are self conscious about their bodies. I’m actually surprised that this didn’t score higher. There is nothing more off putting than being with a woman who is more worried about you seeing what she calls her fat bum or fat tummy than she is about enjoying sex. These are women who refuse to have the lights on during sex in case you might see them and to be honest it really can be such a turn off. Men enjoy being able to see you during sex and if you are with a women who won’t be on top because she thinks she has a fat stomach it is going to get boring very quickly.
In third place with 20% of the votes it’s what we call cold fish. These are women who don’t move at all and they just lie there and let the man do all the work. How boring this type of sex is and to be honest these types of relationships don’t last very long. It’s like having sex with a blow up doll, no movement, no help you have to find the hole and do all the work. What is the point of this I ask you?
In last place with 15% of the votes it’s women who criticize their partners sexual skills. You might not know what I mean here so I’ll give you a couple of examples:
Don’t put your hand there
What are you trying to do?
That took a long time didn’t it?
Do you need some help?
Is that it?
I’m sure you get the idea on this one
If you are prone to doing any of these things then I strongly suggest that you try to stop and become aware when you are doing them. If you want to keep you man turned on and responsive then the last thing you want to do is turn him off isn’t it?
Until next time,
Turn him on
We Vibe 2 – A Revolutionary New Sex Toy For Couples
January 23, 2010
We Vibe II ‘Sex Toy of the Year’
Thank you Techies! This little piece of technology is a pleasure breakthrough and is sure to rock your love live.
The We Vibe hands-free design stimulates BOTH the clitoris and the g-spot – at the same time. Plus – the man will never feel left out, jealous or inferior to your new tech friend. In fact, he can enjoy it too – again – at the same time! As the designers say “Worn while you make love” Unlike traditional vibrators and even a step above the popular Rabbit vibrator.
The ‘We Vibe II‘ is a true pleasure technology marvel! Thank-you technology!
Watch This Video - “How & Why To Use the We Vibe 2″
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Learn More About the We Vibe here…
A Revolutionary New Sex Toy For Couples
- Replacing cock rings as the ultimate sex toy for couples!
- features enhanced power and vibrations for even more pleasure while you make love with your partner!
- Stimulate the clitoris PLUS G-spot at simultaneously
The new model We Vibe II
- Made to be used during sex
- Hugs a woman’s natural curves and a man’s penis
- Completely hands-free
- 9 different vibration speeds and patterns
- Dual vibrating motors for extra power
- Water resistant
- WeVibe Vibrator measures 3.25 inches long and 1 inch wide
- Rechargeable so you don’t have to worry about batteries
- Storage bag included
We Vibe is simply blowing away everyone who tries it. Check out ‘WeVibe II’ here…
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